Tired of being told "it'll happen when it'll happen", "if it's meant to be then it's meant to be, and my personal favorite, "if it's God's will"
These are mainly all said by my wonderful partner who truly is trying to come from a place of love and help. However he has no idea the pain of not knowing if I'll ever conceive. He has a child already (an oopsie child with a woman he slept with for only two weeks before she got pregnant) which kills me inside already. I'm just so alone and I don't even want to bring it up or talk to him about it anymore. Anytime I talk to anyone else I am just told "you have plenty of time, don't rush it!" Or "relax and it'll happen!". It's so unhelpful when I'm grieving. As if I haven't tried everything - the test strips, legs lifted up, having A LOT of sex, trying to NOT check constantly and "relax", doctor visits, medication, devices to stick up there to test for ovulation .. you name it, and if it's realistically affordable - I have tried it.
I'm tired of all this, and I just want to cry and have someone hold me and tell me they have my back and will do anything to help me achieve this. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.