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hi all!
i’m an overseas buying and i’m thinking of a third party shipping service to buy second-hand (cheaper) popflex / blogilates products bc popflex items at full-price + shipping is way too expensive.

beside popcycle, where would you recommend? and most importantly, for obvious reasons, i can’t do returns - so would you recommend these sites? i’ve read some horror / disgusting stories about people shipping stained stuff and whatnot; so i’m wondering if it’s worth the risk?

TIA!

hello!

my friend and i are landing in danang airport in the morning and was thinking of heading straight to hoi an, then back to danang in the evening.

should we take a grab or arrange drivers both ways? and does anyone know where we may be able to store luggage for the afternoon in hoi an so we don't have to carry it around while sightseeing?

also would appreciate any recommends for food or places to go/shop at in hoi an!

we are also planning to visit son tra & bach ma national park (different days) - is it possibel to grab there or should we get drivers?

if drivers - can anyone recommend a driver/tour?

thank you!

hello!

could anyone recommend some pickleball courts that's reasonable and comfortable (sheltered in case it rains) and/or coaches in da nang?

we will be staying near: Sân bóng đá Alle Goal field.

also - is reclub active in danang if we'd like to look for players?
thank you!

hello! a few friends and i are visiting danang in the second week of sept.
looking for :

- indoor pickleball courts open to public
- decent, affordable coaches for 2-3 days
- pickleball players (intermediate)

any recommendations? and do people use reclub there? or if anyone is a pickleball player please send me a dm would love to play with you guys! :)

I guess the qns is - I’m not ready to date” ever genuine?

Have you ever liked someone romantically but stepped back because you genuinely weren’t in the right place to date?

Did you ever come back/reach out later, or is that usually just a kinder way of saying you’re not interested enough?

i’m a woman and my friends and i, if we liked the person, always made the effort to date even if we’re busy.
but we’ve heard it a couple times from men coincidentally this past week for various reasons (leaving on a long overseas trip/just moved here/just started a demanding new job) - so i’m wondering - is this a real thing? that life can get too overwhelming? then why ask us out on a date in the first place😅

both said they enjoyed the date, found us attractive etc but wasn’t sure if they could spare the time, and when we said let’s just leave things as they are and reach out if things changed - they both said they were pretty sure they were gonna reach out once they’re back / when things settled down.

so we’re wondeirng if they’re just being polite, or can someone really be too busy/distracted to date and might come around later - and have you done that yourself and what happened?
esp interested to hear from guys if it could be a real reason or a gentler way to brush a woman off?

I guess the qns is - I’m not ready to date” ever genuine?

Have you ever liked someone romantically but stepped back because you genuinely weren’t in the right place to date?

Did you ever come back/reach out later, or is that usually just a kinder way of saying you’re not interested enough?

I’m interested to hear men’s perspectives because i think for most of my women friends and i, we make time for people we have a connection with, even if we’re busy!

hello! i’m looking for asics gel resolution x or court ff shoes in osaka. could anyone help? they are not sold in the asics stores apparently but i was told you could find them in the asics japan website store locator - unfortunately i do not read japanese 😅

so if anyone could be so kind as to find out where they may have it (preferably in / not too far from the shinsaibashi areas)

i would greatly appreciate it!! bonus if there are prices and if anyone knows if the stores that have them usually run discounts 🙏🏼

hi all, i have a 10 month old mini daschund who’s more like a weenie - about 14lbs. i’m curious about how long is normal for him to hold his pee because and how to “force” him to pee if it’s not normal.
initially he was pee pad trained but i work from home so usually i walk him every 4-6 hours and somehow he’s learned to not pee at home now until he’s brought out 😅
in the evenings, he has his last pee around 930pm, and sleeps with me and doesn’t pee till the next morning between 730-8am when we wake up, he has breakfast and i bring him down (i live in an apartment complex).

so overnight it’s like 10ish hours and it worries me.

my bed is high and usually if he wants to poop, he’ll bark (happened when he was having diarrhoea) and i’d let him out, but he’s never barked to pee and just sleeps through the night.

the thing is, i leave the pee pad out for him if he needs to pee, but honestly he’s forgotten how to pee on it 🙃
but anyhoo, i don’t mind if he pees on the floor at home when he needs coz i don’t want him to hold in his pee. he has an accident maybe once a month and that’s fine, i never scold him and just clean it up.

however i’m wondering if he’s holding it in, and if he is, i’d really rather him not coz it’s bad for his bladder, right? how do i train him not to hold it in?
and he never rushes for the door either. sometimes he doesn’t even wanna go down after 4 hours and will run to hide under the sofa, so it doesn’t seem like he’s that urgent. and when he goes down to pee it’s never like a huge puddle. he doesn’t strain or anything, just goes about normally- but i’m worried this might have long term effects, esp when he’s older.

it’s my first time owning a puppy on my own so would like to hear opinions as to whether this is normal or not?

hello! looking at flights and was considering visiting da nang in oct either 8th to 11th oct or 15th-18th oct. how bad an idea is that? are the rainstorms then really that bad? was also thinking of playing pickleball then and maybe one day of beach at the most. first time there - just wanna chill and play pickleball, maybe a day of forest. looking for genuine advice as to whether to just go another time, otherwise, which weekend would be better to avoid as much rain as possible. thanks!