u/_unknownsiren

I'm a bridesmaid in a wedding that's about a month away, and I could really use some advice from people who have been through this before.

For some context, the bride and I have been childhood friends. She's normally very Type A, just like me, but there has been a lot of family drama from the groom's side, and I think she's trying to keep the peace by being extremely laid-back about everything. The wedding is in August, with an outdoor ceremony and an indoor reception.

The biggest issue right now is the groom's sisters. They seem to have a problem with almost every detail of the wedding and have created a lot of stress and tension. It feels like there's constant drama, and I'm honestly not sure how much of it is normal wedding-family conflict versus something more unusual.

There are also no wedding events leading up to the wedding—no bachelorette party, no bridal shower, no rehearsal dinner, no maid of honour, and no best man. None of the bridesmaids have met each other before, so there isn't really anyone I can turn to for guidance.

The bride has told us we can choose our own shoes, shoe colour, jewelry, hairstyle, and makeup. We're doing our own makeup, and she even said we can change into comfortable clothes after dinner.

My dress was just ordered, and now I'm starting to panic because I have no idea what I'm supposed to be doing or what to expect.

A few questions:

• Who do I go to with wedding-party questions when there is no maid of honour?
• How much should I be asking the bride versus figuring things out on my own?
• For a formal wedding, what would you do for hair and makeup if you had complete freedom?
• What kind of outfit would you change into after dinner?
• What should I bring with me on the wedding day?
• What would you put in a bridesmaid emergency kit?
• Is this level of "do whatever you want" actually normal?

I haven't been in a wedding since I was a kid, and I'm feeling completely lost. Add in the family drama and lack of direction, and my Type A brain is struggling. I'd really appreciate any advice from experienced bridesmaids or brides.

Hi everyone,

Writing has been a huge passion of mine for a long time, and I’m currently working on a story that I hope to eventually publish beyond Wattpad one day.

Right now, the version available on Wattpad is still the original, unedited first draft. While I continue writing new chapters, I’ve also been going back through my original documents to revise and edit them, fixing spelling, grammar, continuity issues, and other mistakes that slipped through during the initial writing process. Because of that, some of the chapters posted online don’t fully reflect the edits that are currently being made behind the scenes.

I’m looking for honest, unbiased feedback from readers. Not just on the writing itself, but on the story as a whole.

If you picked this up in a bookstore, would it be something you’d actually want to keep reading? Does the plot feel engaging? Do the characters hold your interest? Are there any points where your attention starts to drift?

I’ve participated in a few review-for-review and book club programs on Wattpad, so my earlier chapters have accumulated quite a few comments and suggestions. However, once those organized reviews ended, the later chapters received little to no engagement, which makes it difficult to gauge genuine reader interest.

I know every writer dreams that their story could become something bigger, and I’m no exception. I’d love to hear from readers who can tell me honestly whether this story has potential, what works, what doesn’t, and what would make you more invested in it.

Constructive criticism is absolutely welcome. I’d rather hear the truth than receive empty praise.

Thank you to anyone willing to take the time to read and share their thoughts. It genuinely means a lot.

XOXO Siren

If you are interested in checking out my story I have my Wattpad linked on my account or you can find my story "The Mafia's Secret" by _unknownsiren on Wattpad.

Hello Babes,

Long time no talk, I was just wondering how everyone on here prefers to read there stories. Are you a physical copy only, do you love kindle, have you tried any other apps like wattpad?

I would love to hear what all of you are thinking!

XOXO

Hey everyone coming over from TikTok!

First of all, welcome to the book club!! I’m actually so excited you’re here. This little corner is basically for all of us who get way too emotionally attached to fictional characters and then need somewhere to spiral about it.

the vibe here is simple:
we’re gonna talk about the characters we love, the ones we’d absolutely ruin our lives for, and the ones that had us staring at a wall processing for 3–5 business days. I want all the chaos and hilarious memes you got. if a book obsessed you, or made you question your morals… bring it here.

also full transparency... I have no idea what I’m doing 😭 this is my first time making a community like this, so we’re kind of building it together as we go. I’ll try to keep things organized, start discussions, all that… but for now it’s very much a “show up and scream your thoughts” situation.

so consider this your official invite to jump in:
what are you reading right now? who has you in a chokehold? I need more books to add to my already long list of TBR apparently🫠

don’t be shy... I want this to feel like a chaotic little group chat of book besties 🖤

Siren XOXO

Hey everyone!!!

I’m looking for some new recs to read! I’ve been on a full MM binge lately and have been reading the Forbidden Goals series by Rebecca Rathe, absolutely loving it ....but I’m on the last book now and it’s time to find something new.

I’ve reached a point where I’m struggling to find anything that actually holds my attention. A lot of romances I start lately feel kind of forgettable… weak buildup, recycled dynamics, or just not enough depth to keep me invested. Most of the usual BookTok recommendations are ones I’ve already read (or tried), so I’m really hoping to find something outside of that rotation.

I’m looking for SPICY/dark romance with strong writing and real chemistry. I tend to gravitate toward:

– Why Choose / Reverse Harem
– MM romance
– Dark themes, obsession, morally gray characters
– High spice with actual payoff (not just for shock value)

Hard no’s:
❌ Fantasy
❌ Omegaverse
❌ Forced pregnancy
❌ Non-consensual

Some books/series I’ve loved for reference:
– Legacy of the Gods
– Lights Out
– Heated Rivalry
– Nocticadia
– Beautiful Prey
– Pucking Around
– Play With the Phantom
– Groupie
– WITSEC series
– Little Strangers
– Edge of Darkness trilogy
– Common Goal series

I’m totally fine with darker or heavier themes otherwise, Bonus points if it heavy smut. I just want something well-written, immersive, and actually emotionally engaging.

If you have any underrated or lesser-known recs that fit this vibe, I’d really appreciate it 🤍

Hey everyone! I'm u/_unknownsiren, the founding moderator of r/SmutTokBookClub.

This is our new home for all things related to Smutty Romance Books. We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post
Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. Feel free to share your thoughts, photos, or questions about Romance Books, Booktok trending recs or any Smut books you're currently reading/ loving.

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We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

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1. Introduce yourself in the comments below.
2. Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation.
3. If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join.
4. Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/SmutTokBookClub amazing.

Hey Babes!!!

Welcome to your new favourite corner of the internet 🖤

This is a space for all of us who love a little (or a lot of) spice in our books. Whether you’re here for dark romance, unhinged tropes, morally questionable men, or just to scream about your latest read, you’re in the right place.

A little about me... I’m 24 and a full-on dark romance junkie. I’m currently writing a dark mafia romance over on Wattpad, but I love and appreciate all reading platforms.

I created this community for people like me who don’t always have someone in their day-to-day life to talk about books with, swap recommendations, or spiral over fictional men. I’m definitely more of a silent reposter on TikTok and Instagram, so I wanted this to be a safe space where people actually feel comfortable speaking up, sharing recs, opinions, hot takes, all of it.

Before you dive in:

– Check out the rules (they’re quick, I promise)

– Use flairs so people can find your posts

We’re building something fun here, so interact, comment, and make some book besties along the way.

Now go ahead… what are you currently reading? 👀

XOXO Siren