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I will try to keep this short.

We, 23 F and M, used to be in the school, never talked though. years later connected on Instagram because we both love Marvel. instantly, we hit it off. This was 2024. We went on four dates. Total four months of seeing each other. I ended things because he used to not pay attention to me, not replying for legit 17 18 hours. i thought he was not interested anymore. i was in my first year of mba and he was in final year of engineering. I was kind of wrong because I should have been more understanding. He was hunting for a job at that time and me being in college had no idea how difficult of a life phase that is. He used to do this, not replying for hours Thing, even when his exams were going on. I had only college years to have a fun and proper relationship, and I was in the mindset that it’s been four months already, and he should have already asked me to be his girlfriend and give me commitment which he did not. even though I did not want to, I ended things.

another MAJOR reason for why I ended Things, was every time we met something bad happened. on our first date we had a small car accident. While I was seeing him, I fell super sick and I went to the hospital. my family is super strict and they were almost about to catch me chatting with him and that would have been bad trust me. on our fourth and last date, we were making out in the car and police caught us (felt such a nightmare at that time). all this happened along with other tiny things.

due to these reasons, I ended things with him and blocked him from everywhere. After blocking him, he has come back to me four or five times texting me from other Instagram accounts and asking me to give him one more chance, and I have been very sure that I will not give him another chance because I am scared bad things might start happening again. I miss him almost every day, but I just can’t go back to him again. I cannot forget him, and I miss him a lot these days. I don’t know what to do. Am I being stupid

23F, this might be a bit long, will try to keep as short as possible.

1. forced by parents to be a government teacher since i was 12 yrs old, wasted years, always hated it from every bit of my existence, result awaiting, still not ready to do it even if i clear it.

2. did mba from tier 3clg even though scored 93percentile in cat because of family pressure, as the clg was close to my home and they were sure they wont ever let me be a corporate employee

3. corporate is not really possible because i cannot travel 2hr each side to gurgaon and noida everyday, health issues (used to have epilepsy). my eyes are very VERY weak too so 9hr+ screentime due to job is also not possible. tried joining an internship in noida at a big fintech company but couldn’t do it, fell sick kinda.

4. always had an interest in sewing clothes and making them, family is ready to invest and help me open up a good boutique kind of thing.

at home for more than a year and i am scared of new things now tbh. my family has always kind of spoon fed me things, not like i cant do things on my own, once i get the habit back, ik i am super hard working and smart.

kinda wanna start getting into influencer stuff too but maybe thats a distant dream. any and every guidance is appreciated

23F, this might be a bit long, will try to keep as short as possible.

1. forced by parents to be a government teacher since i was 12 yrs old, wasted years, always hated it from every bit of my existence, result awaiting, still not ready to do it even if i clear it.
2. did mba (by my own choice, parents were against it) from tier 3clg even though scored 93percentile in cat because of family pressure, as the clg was close to my home and they were sure they wont ever let me be a corporate employee
3. corporate is not really possible because i cannot travel 2hr each side to gurgaon and noida everyday, health issues (used to have epilepsy). my eyes are very VERY weak too so 9hr+ screentime due to job is also not possible. tried joining an internship in noida at a big fintech company but couldn’t do it, fell sick kinda.
4. always had an interest in sewing clothes and making them, family is ready to invest and help me open up a good boutique kind of thing.

at home for more than a year and i am scared of new things now tbh. my family has always kind of spoon fed me things, not like i cant do things on my own, once i get the habit back, ik i am super hard working and smart.

kinda wanna start getting into influencer stuff too but maybe thats a distant dream. any and every guidance is appreciated

joined a big fintech for internship today. The stipend is just 8k and the work seems A lot to me. I talked to others who were joining today too and all said its a lot of work.
even though everyone praised the work culture, i am not able to decide what to do. They hire summer interns so new interns every two or three months.

How do i know if they are exploiting?

no one in my family has ever worked in a corporate office, I will be the first one. I have very very little knowledge about everything and any suggestions, Any tips are highly welcome.
What all should I know before joining, how do I learn to say no (I kind of struggle with it a bit).
What should I not do? What should I do anything and everything is welcome.

joining a big noida office as an intern

i have never worked in an office before, neither anyone in my family. got selected for an intern position in a big company, in noida

what are some things i should know and learn before?

like how do i say no (i struggle a bit with it)

what are some basic terms that they use that might go from above my head

Basically anyone who can tell me even the most basics like i am kid, i will be grateful to you

all the phone in my home are just straight up buzzing with this stupid sound, not once not twice but thrice already. anyone else got these?

Phoebe and boyle would be crazyyy good friends, their weird tastes would be good together

Sitting at a doctor’s clinic, waiting for my turn.

on the left side ek family bethi hai with 2 small kids and they cant shut tf up at all.

right side ek 30 saal ki bandi bethke apni mom se full volume me tea share kr rhi hai, itni civic sense nahi hai ki at least lower volume me hi baat krlo. Sir dard kr diya, cant blame the kids but bc bado me to dimaag hona chahiye na

I really like kang daniel’s paranoia.

bol4- tell me you love me.

jackson wang- Drive you home