I hope this is an okay post

So I am not autistic (I mean, you never know)
But I have a family member, my 2yr old niece, Kaylee, who I think might be.
I don't need a diagnosis or wtv, I'm just hoping she'll be treated okay, if she does have autism.
In my family being ND, is heavily stigmatized, especially with my half-sister (my niece's mom)
I'm just scared she'll be treated badly by her parents, siblings (well honestly only one of them would do that sinc I've already seen my oldest niece Gabby say some messed up stuff about autistic ppl) and grandparents etc.
I wanna be a good aunty for her, whether she has autism or not, but I HATE her mom an oldest sibling, like that whole side lwk.
How do I hang out with her and be a good aunty while also avoiding her family?

So I am not autistic (I think you never know)
But I have a family member, my 2yr old niece, Kaylee, who I think might be.
I don't need a diagnosis or wtv, I'm just hoping she'll be treated okay, if she does have autism.
In my family being ND, is heavily stigmatized, especially with my half-sister (my niece's mom)
I'm just scared she'll be treated badly by her parents, siblings (well honestly only one of them would do that sinc I've already seen my oldest niece Gabby say some messed up stuff about autistic ppl) and grandparents etc.
I wanna be a good aunty for her, whether she has autism or not, but I HATE her mom an oldest sibling, like that whole side lwk.
How do I hang out with her and be a good aunty while also avoiding her family?

I personally am not one side or the other.

I am more pro-life than pro-abortion, but i consider myself pro-choice.

I believe in some scenarios you should have a choice of keeping the baby or not:

>!1. rape!<

>!2. incest!<

>!3. insane medical issues, or bodily deformity of the child!<

but i think in cases where you just had >!sex!< and decided you didn't want a child, shouldn't be allowed.

I would like to hear some opinions on the side of pro-lifers (i'm prob gonna cross-post this to pro-abortion/pro-choice as well just for more opinions)

PLEASE do not attack me for my opinions, I'm trying to be as open-minded as possible.

(and yes i am christian)

So ... i think its pretty self-explanatory

I dont just mean appearance or just personality etc, you can mix and match. (it be cool if yall could include gender and sexuality but if not like thats alr)

for me id say

gender: guy, but doesn't have "fragile masculinity."

appearance: lwk i don't have a defined type, tho i do have a slight preference to asian, hispanic and mixed guys but ....

i like fluffy hair? but its fine if he doesnt have fluffy hair

personality: funny, kind, sweet, hype person, goofy, silly, witty/sarcastic but never mean spirited, strong in his beliefs (wtv ones he may have), protective but NOT possesive, good listener, and more...

religion: Christian

political perspective: liberal, or centrist (im not super strong on this but.. like pls dont be MAGA)

red flags: mean-spirited, egotistical, condescending, doesnt pay attention to me, intelligence shamer, overly performative, love bomber, gatekeeper and MORE

Why do people not find black girls attractive?

Like it's not just like Black people in general it's like specifically black women like tons of races love to say oh my gosh, black men are so attractive or whatever you don't hear that for black woman.

Like I'm not talking about race preferences being like oh I would prefer to date a white woman or an Asian woman or whatever that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about specifically sayin I would never date a black girl.

Like that is just simply racist.

Having a preference isn't racist but saying that oh I would never in 1 million years date [insert race] that's racist

And like this isn't just like a one off thing. It's like entire races or like entire groups of people saying I would never date a black woman.

Like, where does that come from?

Because it's not that they just don't like Black people in general like I said black men are often seen as attractive, but not black women.

Like I just personally don't understand it, because it's almost specifically only straight people not lesbians, bisexual, etc. Like I know a ton of lesbian people and a ton of bi people, and they consistently say that they find black women extremely attractive, but if you ask us straight guy, he's gonna say no I wouldn't find a black woman attractive.

Anyways, I'm not really asking this like as a question. I'm mostly just ranting but like if you have an answer that would be great.

So I am 14, and I'm going to be technically a rising sophomore, but also technically a rising Junior. Don't ask.

I'm mostly homeschooled. I have been doing a two day school and then the other days I do online school. I won't be doing that next year though. Next year, I'm going fully homeschooled and just doing online classes.

But it's not like I don't go places where I can meet friends. I mean, I have like church and like I only really do one extra curricular, but I do have places where I can meet friends.

But I don't really like the people at my extra curricular, (which is violin by the way), just because they're either really really young, which I don't have a problem with being friends with people that are very young, but I want to have more like my age friends. (meaning ranged from 12-16)

Or they are older than me and often aren't nice to kids younger, or just very egotistical. Or they are my age, but i have history with them,(katie) or they generally are not my style of friends (eg. rude, homophobic, MAGA, extremely quiet [like not just shy, or like quiet, like they do not talk even when you come over and say hi, and also occasionally have attitude when you try to talk to them] etc etc)

And then at church, i have one friend there but shes moving to pennsylvania (😭) all the other kids have their groups and do NOT like when i try to talk to them

so what do i do, and is it even bad that i dont have friends in person, i have tons of friends online. but.... im bad with irl friends, i have to like ACTUALLY WALK over to them

so im pretty sure im straight, like i have crushes for guys, and i get that weird tingly feeling in my stomach and lower throat, and my heart beats fast and my hands start sweating etc. and i couldn't imagine being in a relationship with a girl like ever, only a guy. and it's not that i've really been conditioned that way, because even tho im Christian, my family is fairly liberal (dem.)

but i had this TEENY attraction to this OBJECTIVELY hot girl, but when i went back and reviewed how i felt, i realized it might have just been admiration, because i did think she was SUPER cool. When i told my (lesbian) friend about it, she thought i was bi? but.. idk?!?!?!

this is a really weird question, but like..am i still straight then?