u/aquaticdolphin01

I’m 25F and I’ve been ghosted so many times this year since becoming single in January. Even though it’s frustrating, I don’t mind being ghosted on apps so much but it’s not just that, I make it off the apps.

There was a girl who ghosted me and then came back and said she’s sorry but she’s met someone else, a girl who was responding fine and then on the day of the date when I asked what we should do never replied and still hasn’t after like a month, and other instances.

Recently a girl liked me on Her who is MASSIVELY my type. We hit it off really fast and have a ridiculous amount in common. She suggested a date idea which I loved and then she gave me her number and she asked for my instagram. That was around a week ago and we’ve been chatting every day since until now. We still have the date planned for in the week, but I’m now worried it’s happening again as I’ve not heard from her for over a day now. I know she’s at home with her parents this weekend, but she’s been active on socials and I’m going crazy bc I can’t get ghosted again 😭 I really think it’ll destroy all my dating hopes and idk what to do anymore. I feel so unlucky.

I’m 25 and have been single since January. It took me a while to get over as I really loved her but I’ve been dating again for about 3.5 months now and it’s just been a nightmare. I’ve never had such an issue before, and I’m starting to feel really lonely and like there’s something wrong with me and my whole amazing romance story I envision isn’t gonna happen.

I dated an amazing girl who after 4 dates told me that her moving away was gonna be an issue and it’s not fair to keep seeing each other (she’s only moving a few hours away so I didn’t mind but she did or it was an excuse idk). Anyway, then had a few matches I really hit it off with and just either got ghosted or told they’d found someone else. Over and OVER. I can’t even count how many times I’ve been ghosted. I then started dating another girl who might be moving to another COUNTRY in September?? Wtf. That was going really well and I do really like her but I just fear it isn’t gonna work and I have a date planned next week with a girl who’s like my type to a tee but I fear she will also end up ghosting me :(

I’m really worried about the future as I’m VERY picky and my type is very specific so it’s kinda hard to find people I *really* like. I’ve literally run out of girls in my city on Hinge and I am now putting so much weight into this new girl because it feels like if it doesn’t go well then I’m screwed.

Should it really be this hard? Everyone seems to have girlfriends and boyfriends other than me and it makes me so sad. I just wanna fall in love again and have my person and eventually get married and have kids but it all just feels like it’s slipping away :(

Edit: This is all from online dating btw. Mainly Hinge and one person from Her

I’m 25 female and it’s driving me insane. I wipe and wipe and wipe and it’s still dirty. I’ve realised it’s because a bunch of poop residue seems to get stuck in my rectum, like a tiny piece of poop along with some residue, which makes it just like I’m wiping a marker.

Does anyone know how I can improve this? It’s actually starting to ruin my life as my solution is to apply some sort of lotion to allow me to go inside and basically scoop out the residue and remaining poop (sorry, really gross IK but if I didn’t I’d genuinely probs be wiping for 2 hours). I then have to shower after because I feel gross and sticky from the lotion and sometimes end up with poop on my fingers :( Also I’ve tried bidets and showering, they don’t work, and wet wipes too. I just wanna be able to not have pooping be a huge part of my day 😭😭

I’m a 25 year old woman and I’m not sure what’s wrong with me. My sex drive is extremely low and I can barely get turned on even if I want to, I can barely drink alcohol as I just instantly get a headache and feel ill after maybe 2 pints, it takes me ages to use the bathroom (20 mins +), I’m intolerant to loads of foods and I just feel tired ALL the time. Like I sleep for half of the day and many days I could sleep all day happily if I didn’t need to get up.

What’s wrong with me? I feel a bit broken and like I can’t live a normal life anymore.