u/areuahomosapien

My 3yrs friendship feels meaningless

Iam 20M and my friend is 20F.

So I have a frnd (female) whom I met 3 yrs ago. She was all good and caring about me in the beginning. But she started to be at distance later on when we got busy with our lives and she kept me at distance and she started calling me bro. I thought we all have lives and we can't give time for everyone. She kept me in line and sometimes she is like the closest frnd and the other times she acts like a stranger.

It is like on and off. It has been happening for 2yrs and more. At some point of time I thought I did smtg wrong and I was the problem, I still have that doubt but she kept giving me excuses.

And recently she mentioned and said sry that she is being on and off with the frndship and I forgave her for that. Since 1 yr she would only send me reels only if I sent her reel, if I send one reel, she would send one reel, if I send 2 then she would send 2.

But recently, an incident happened, where she didn't react to the reels i send her but I would see her online from my other online clearly and I would msg her what happened she answered she deleted instagram, and after few days I kept spamming emojis in her dm and she opened the dm and i impulsivly unsent all the reels i sent and she said "bro did u feel like I ignored u? Today only my exams are over and I didn't open anyone's dms." I gave cold replies for that. Recently i got an offer letter I sent her and she said all the best bro. And the other day I got a guitar she said ohh nice broo.....

So I am thinking about unfollowing her and removing her from everywhere. He is trying to make some distance but the thing is he keeps seeing her everywhere in instagram and that brings all these thoughts.

Give out your opinions to pull him out of this confusion.

Iam 20M and my friend is 20F.

So I have a frnd (female) whom I met 3 yrs ago. She was all good and caring about me in the beginning. But she started to be at distance later on when we got busy with our lives and she kept me at distance and she started calling me bro. I thought we all have lives and we can't give time for everyone. She kept me in line and sometimes she is like the closest frnd and the other times she acts like a stranger.

It is like on and off. It has been happening for 2yrs and more. At some point of time I thought I did smtg wrong and I was the problem, I still have that doubt but she kept giving me excuses.

And recently she mentioned and said sry that she is being on and off with the frndship and I forgave her for that. Since 1 yr she would only send me reels only if I sent her reel, if I send one reel, she would send one reel, if I send 2 then she would send 2.

But recently, an incident happened, where she didn't react to the reels i send her but I would see her online from my other online clearly and I would msg her what happened she answered she deleted instagram, and after few days I kept spamming emojis in her dm and she opened the dm and i impulsivly unsent all the reels i sent and she said "bro did u feel like I ignored u? Today only my exams are over and I didn't open anyone's dms." I gave cold replies for that. Recently i got an offer letter I sent her and she said all the best bro. And the other day I got a guitar she said ohh nice broo.....

So I am thinking about unfollowing her and removing her from everywhere. He is trying to make some distance but the thing is he keeps seeing her everywhere in instagram and that brings all these thoughts.

Give out your opinions to pull him out of this confusion.

So I have a frnd (female) whom I met 3 yrs ago. She was all good and caring about me in the beginning. But she started to be at distance later on when we got busy with our lives and she kept me at distance and she started calling me bro. I thought we all have lives and we can't give time for everyone. She kept me in line and sometimes she is like the closest frnd and the other times she acts like a stranger.

It is like on and off. It has been happening for 2yrs and more. At some point of time I thought I did smtg wrong and I was the problem, I still have that doubt but she kept giving me excuses.

And recently she mentioned and said sry that she is being on and off with the frndship and I forgave her for that. Since 1 yr she would only send me reels only if I sent her reel, if I send one reel, she would send one reel, if I send 2 then she would send 2.

But recently, an incident happened, where she didn't react to the reels i send her but I would see her online from my other online clearly and I would msg her what happened she answered she deleted instagram, and after few days I kept spamming emojis in her dm and she opened the dm and i impulsivly unsent all the reels i sent and she said "bro did u feel like I ignored u? Today only my exams are over and I didn't open anyone's dms." I gave cold replies for that. Recently i got an offer letter I sent her and she said all the best bro. And the other day I got a guitar she said ohh nice broo.....

So I am thinking about unfollowing her and removing her from everywhere. He is trying to make some distance but the thing is he keeps seeing her everywhere in instagram and that brings all these thoughts.

Give out your opinions to pull him out of this confusion.

Pull him out of this confusion ?

Posting on behalf of my frnd 'cuz he does not have a reddit account.

So I have a frnd (female) whom I met 3 yrs ago. She was all good and caring about me in the beginning. But she started to be at distance later on when we got busy with our lives and she kept me at distance and she started calling me bro. I thought we all have lives and we can't give time for everyone. She kept me in line and sometimes she is like the closest frnd and the other times she acts like a stranger.

It is like on and off. It has been happening for 2yrs and more. At some point of time I thought I did smtg wrong and I was the problem, I still have that doubt but she kept giving me excuses.

And recently she mentioned and said sry that she is being on and off with the frndship and I forgave her for that. Since 1 yr she would only send me reels only if I sent her reel, if I send one reel, she would send one reel, if I send 2 then she would send 2.

But recently, an incident happened, where she didn't react to the reels i send her but I would see her online from my other online clearly and I would msg her what happened she answered she deleted instagram, and after few days I kept spamming emojis in her dm and she opened the dm and i impulsivly unsent all the reels i sent and she said "bro did u feel like I ignored u? Today only my exams are over and I didn't open anyone's dms." I gave cold replies for that. Recently i got an offer letter I sent her and she said all the best bro. And the other day I got a guitar she said ohh nice broo.....

So I am thinking about unfollowing her and removing her from everywhere. He is trying to make some distance but the thing is he keeps seeing her everywhere in instagram and that brings all these thoughts.

Give out your opinions to pull him out of this confusion.

So I have a frnd (female) whom I met 3 yrs ago. She was all good and caring about me in the beginning. But she started to be at distance later on when we got busy with our lives and she kept me at distance and she started calling me bro. I thought we all have lives and we can't give time for everyone. She kept me in line and sometimes she is like the closest frnd and the other times she acts like a stranger.

It is like on and off. It has been happening for 2yrs and more. At some point of time I thought I did smtg wrong and I was the problem, I still have that doubt but she kept giving me excuses.

And recently she mentioned and said sry that she is being on and off with the frndship and I forgave her for that. Since 1 yr she would only send me reels only if I sent her reel, if I send one reel, she would send one reel, if I send 2 then she would send 2.

But recently, an incident happened, where she didn't react to the reels i send her but I would see her online from my other online clearly and I would msg her what happened she answered she deleted instagram, and after few days I kept spamming emojis in her dm and she opened the dm and i impulsivly unsent all the reels i sent and she said "bro did u feel like I ignored u? Today only my exams are over and I didn't open anyone's dms." I gave cold replies for that. Recently i got an offer letter I sent her and she said all the best bro. And the other day I got a guitar she said ohh nice broo.....

So I am thinking about unfollowing her and removing her from everywhere. He is trying to make some distance but the thing is he keeps seeing her everywhere in instagram and that brings all these thoughts.

Give out your opinions to pull me out of this confusion.

Hello bondhaa!!!

I got my first guitar today, after waiting for nearly 4 months ig. I was planning to buy it but somehow, my manifestation got me smtg even better, my frnd gave it to me for freeeee 😭😭. Very lucky to have frnds like them.

So I tried playing using this app called Yousician, songster, guitartuna. And looked up few youtube videos

I watched all those things in yt 3 months ago and ik the parts, how to hold and etc.

So I don't have a pick right now so maybe I will be playing with my bare hands, if the pick is best for a beginner like me, I will buy it.

So help me understand what I should do next and all. Share me your journey about things you did on your first day and how was your experience after being consistent and challenges you faced. Any tips I should be following for my betterment and mistakes to avoid and anything.

TIA

Hello bondhaa!!!

I got my first guitar today, after waiting for nearly 4 months ig. I was planning to buy it but somehow, my manifestation got me smtg even better, my frnd gave it to me for freeeee 😭😭. Very lucky to have frnds like them.

So I tried playing using this app called Yousician, songster, guitartuna. And looked up few youtube videos

I watched all those things in yt 3 months ago and ik the parts, how to hold and etc.

So I don't have a pick right now so maybe I will be playing with my bare hands, if the pick is best for a beginner like me, I will buy it.

So help me understand what I should do next and all. Share me your journey about things you did on your first day and how was your experience after being consistent and challenges you faced. Any tips I should be following for my betterment and mistakes to avoid and anything.

TIA

Hello bondhaa!!!

I got my first guitar today, after waiting for nearly 4 months ig. I was planning to buy it but somehow, my manifestation got me smtg even better, my frnd gave it to me for freeeee 😭😭. Very lucky to have frnds like them.

So I tried playing using this app called Yousician, songster, guitartuna. And looked up few youtube videos

I watched all those things in yt 3 months ago and ik the parts, how to hold and etc.

So I don't have a pick right now so maybe I will be playing with my bare hands, if the pick is best for a beginner like me, I will buy it.

So help me understand what I should do next and all. Share me your journey about things you did on your first day and how was your experience after being consistent and challenges you faced. Any tips I should be following for my betterment and mistakes to avoid and anything.

TIA