
BCM from Happy Noodles (TPY)
The bite on the mee pok, and clean, peppery pork soup were the highlights of this meal.

The bite on the mee pok, and clean, peppery pork soup were the highlights of this meal.
In case it’s helpful for anyone!
I’m a T6.5 and based on my selfie, LE team recommended either shade 8 or 9. I still can’t tell the difference from this picture they shared, but in case anyone has other swatches of these two - I’d really appreciate your input!
I (30F) notice myself overwhelmed with feelings of sadness, hurt, and disgust whenever I think about something painful that happened early in my relationship, some two years back. It was a breach of trust, and how he managed it when I found out was terrifying (gaslighting, deflecting, blaming etc.), and even though he has a therapist and is working on his issues and also tries to reassure me it will not happen again, whenever circumstances remind me of it my feelings start to boil over again.
I start to wonder if it’s my inability to repair / forgive / heal, or self-reproach for not leaving when the lines were crossed.
Not so much looking for advice but rather keen on how others have navigated difficult situations with their SO. What was helpful and what wasn’t? How do you feel about your decision to stay and repair?