What works as evidence?

I am wondering what works as evidence since some places do not allow video recording or audio taping.

For a dated written entry with specific detail, the other party can simply dismiss it with a "it did not happen", no? This seems more like a he said she said thing and seems like it is not a hard enough evidence. Or anyone had success with this?

I have read some entries where when they bring up to higher management or HR, it backfires on them.

This thread is filled with a lot of bad experiences so I am thinking about resolutions.

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u/baabaa321 — 5 days ago

Non-consensual touching, called me an attention wh***, told me that it is not good for my 100 plus healthy grandparents to live that long, said CH*** CH*NG then got promoted! -Vancouver, Canada

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I should work well with my colleagues. The female managing director (JH) even promoted them. So, I should be sexually harassed, abused and verbally degraded and I must smile when they do it? What kind of sick logic is that????? I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

So much for feminism when you have women who gladly supports tearing down another women and supports misogynistic abuse towards another woman.

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u/baabaa321 — 1 month ago

Non-consensual touching, called me an attention wh***, told me that it is not good for my 100 plus healthy grandparents to live that long, said CH*** CH*NG then got promoted! -Vancouver, Canada

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 1 month ago

Non-consensual touching, called me an attention wh***, told me that it is not good for my 100 plus healthy grandparents to live that long, said CH*** CH*NG then got promoted! -Vancouver, Canada

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/workplace_bullying+1 crossposts

Non-consensual touching, called me an attention wh***, told me that it is not good for my 100 plus healthy grandparents to live that long, said CH*** CH*NG then got promoted! -Vancouver, Canada

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 3 months ago

Non-consensual touching, called me an attention wh***, told me that it is not good for my 100 plus healthy grandparents to live that long, said CH*** CH*NG then got promoted! -Vancouver, Canada

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 3 months ago
▲ 5 r/workplace_bullying+1 crossposts

Non-consensual touching, called me an attention wh***, told me that it is not good for my 100 plus healthy grandparents to live that long, said CH*** CH*NG then got promoted! -Vancouver, Canada

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 3 months ago

A place with bitter sinister employees

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 3 months ago

A place with bitter sinister employees

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 3 months ago

A place with bitter sinister employees

TSX INC. - TSX Venture Exchange (Toronto Stock Exchange):

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 3 months ago

Glassdoor is no longer reliable

I am just wondering why are we still relying on Glassdoor when employers can choose which reviews they like, for it to be posted on their profile. I know my review will not be posted so this is for TSX Venture Exchange:

They sought help from me through text and calls on my off days, 7am, 7pm, 9pm and even I had to work until 12 midnight. After all the help I have given, I experienced from these same colleagues anti-Asian hate slurs to my face, vulgar f word to my face, point the middle finger to my face, profanities, nonconsensual touching and gender based profanities at me, kick their feet very near to my face and selectively degrade me publicly and then laugh off about it. When I am happy about my personal life, told me it is not good for my grandparents to live that long, told me that she had already given birth at my age, told me I am the kind of girl that should stay at home when I play sports. At the end of the day, the review to me was that I am not respectful enough and I should work well with my colleagues. The managing director even promoted them. I do not even approach these colleagues; they approach me on their own accord! What a dehumanizing way to treat a human being? I wonder how perverted to think these individuals have every righteousness in the world to treat another human being this way and still wonder what is so wrong about it and that I deserve it and I must be alright about it! I feel that I was tortured and that I have to smile for being tortured!

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u/baabaa321 — 3 months ago

I have experienced people with the most atrocious behaviour in various forms (either me or how they have treated other people).

It seems that these are the same people that humblebrag and self-praise the most with glorious colourful vocabulary that do not line up in real life. Or are these just people I come across?

Everyone treats everyone differently. You are not going to be bootlicked if you don't sit up there.

Has LinkedIn forgotten that recognition is credible when it comes from others? Or is this just a dog and pony show?

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u/baabaa321 — 6 months ago

I do not have LinkedIn as I do not like how unauthentic it is and the lack of privacy.

A thought recently strike me: When we looked at a business or restaurant and if we see a 5 stars rating on Yelp or Google or Amazon, we are more likely to patronize it or buy it. Would it be the same concept as a LinkedIn recommendation? (Nevertheless, when I see a perfect 5 star review, I also doubt it due to the ease to give 5 stars and people prefer not to say bad yet truthful things. It tends to cause a negative reaction from the owner. However, I do go through 1 star reviews to see what is it that matters.)

Privacy is important for me. As references come in at the later stage of the hiring process, does a person with LinkedIn written testimonials seen to be more favourable considering they already have references without asking?

How much weightage does LinkedIn recommendation has as compared to a private reference?

Hiring managers please weigh in.

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u/baabaa321 — 6 months ago