Idea for using up about 1/3 of a box of Malt-O-Meal (hot wheat cereal) that ISN’T baked goods

Idea for using up about 1/3 of a box of Malt-O-Meal (hot wheat cereal) that ISN’T baked goods

It is way too hot where I live to want to use the oven right now but I’ve become sick of using this as its regular self for breakfast. Yes, I’ve also had it savory. It’s more of a texture thing. Thanks!

u/bigbearbutch — 4 days ago

Getting Over Internal Shame About Androgyny/ Gender Bending

Hi! I’m FTX but have medically transitioned to the point of passing as a man. I live in a very conservative area where I have had to be stealth for safety basically since I started passing. I am moving to a queer metro area in a few months and I have been trying to really figure out my gender expression more besides just feeling boxed in and stuck. It’s hard though because I keep getting upset with myself for not looking manly enough or worrying about looking “gross” for mixing gendered things. I used to really enjoy playing with my expression but it’s been so long I think I have really internalized that disgust that cis ppl can have towards visibly trans and GNC folks.

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u/bigbearbutch — 1 month ago

MN Based Outdoor YouTube Channel Recs?

Hi! I enjoy watching outdoorsy videos on YT (hunting, fishing, foraging, etc) and would love to find some channels that are based in our great state :) Thanks!

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u/bigbearbutch — 1 month ago

Queerest Morris Side in Town

Hi! I’m moving to the area soon and I am looking for a new Morris dancing side to join. Anyone here do Morris or know what side might be the queerest/most queer friendly? I’ve never lived somewhere with so many options and that sort of info isn’t always easily found. Thanks!

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u/bigbearbutch — 2 months ago
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My partner and I have been polyam for years now and often struggle with making new friends that just want to be friends. It has happened consistently, especially with people who are single and have never tried polyamory before. We both make it known to the person that we aren’t looking to do anything beyond be friends from the start. Us being polyam only really comes up due to talking about random dating stuff or whatever and clarifying that we aren’t serial cheaters lol. But it feels like every time the potential new friend ends up meeting the other person that wasn’t the original friend, it ends up getting weird fast. It feels like the opposite side of the unicorn hunter problem where the person wants to get in the middle of us really bad even when we aren’t interested in them like that at all. It has happened at least 5 different times in the past few years and it is hard enough making friends but it’s just really dejecting and idk what to do since both of our best solution is communicate we aren’t interested (but we already do that). It just feels so violating and weird. We have tried telling the people who do it how we feel after they violate that boundary but it often leads to them just freaking out in various ways and making it very hard to continue wanting to be friends. It’s a real bummer too because we live in a conservative area where meeting other queer people can be hard and it feels like no one values us beyond wanting to sleep with us. It would be great to know we aren’t alone in this struggle at least.

Edit: typo

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u/bigbearbutch — 2 months ago