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Am I feeding my Honey enough?

Sorry for the burry top angle pic, I couldn’t get the camera to focus. I feed Willie 8-10 Hikari micropellets in the morning (nothing in the evening). I used to feed him the same in the evening but stopped recently when my life got busier and I couldn’t stay on top of it. I’m wondering if he looks to be a healthy size and if my feeding routine is okay. Thanks in advance.

u/birdsnleaves — 2 days ago

Disneyland collage I made from magazines in rehab

prompt was to make a collage based on what brings you comfort. i chose disneyland. there were a surprising amount of relevant images in the random magazines they provided.

u/birdsnleaves — 2 months ago

Googled my therapist and found something I can’t unsee on their tiktok

I googled my therapist, mainly because I wanted to see if they had written any articles since they mentioned they’re a writer, and the second result on google was their tiktok. They had three pinned videos and I watched all three of them. The first two were just some comedic musings but the third one was… provocative. It involved them stripping down to their underwear.

Now I’m wondering, what kind of therapist has a public tiktok with a video of them stripping?? Don’t they realize their clients could find it super easily?? The video is 7 years old, so maybe they just forgot about it? I don’t know. I’m rather avoidant so I don’t think I’ll bring it up. I hope I can just forget about it.

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u/birdsnleaves — 2 months ago
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I’ve been smoking for almost 10 years (turning 26 soon), and have only been able to quit for a few weeks at a time, because I never had such a horrible experience that it scared me away from returning.

But I finally had that rock bottom experience on Thursday. I believe I experienced psychosis for the first time after getting too high. Demons were speaking to me telling me to hurt myself (and I did).

I struggle with depression, anxiety, and binge eating disorder, all of which weed made worse over time. I don’t care about the future very much, so I was chasing the short term dopamine it gave me, not caring about the memory loss, brain fog, weight gain, etc.

After Thursday though, I never want to touch it again. That was it. I finally have motivation and I am so grateful for it.

I am seeking out an intensive outpatient program that helps with addiction and mental health, so I can feel supported through this. I need to start actually addressing the issues I was using weed as a band aid for.

Grateful for this community. Sending everyone else going through it rn support.

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u/birdsnleaves — 2 months ago

Hi! I’m looking to advance my career in the catering/event coordination field, both because I’m interested in it and I need to get off my feet (occasional event support is an exception). I currently work as a part time catering attendant at a corporate office, but I just got another part time banquet server job at a hotel, which I feel like is a good foot in the door.

I applied to a catering coordinator position at a corporate catering company and had two interviews with them, but I feel under qualified and am having a hard time believing they’d hire me.

I am looking for some advice on how to tailor my resume to catering/event coordination. I worked with a small event planning business under the table and did 5 events with them over the period of 5 months. Not sure if that’s worth including or not since it won’t show up on a background check.

Thanks in advance.

u/birdsnleaves — 2 months ago