u/bizarreVK

I’m looking for someone who would be interested in going out to pubs, dance, chill and escape from this matrix on weekends. Expecting nothing else. I’m just looking for platonic friendships where we can mutually benefit from hitting the dance floor. I don’t wanna making it sound one-dimensional, i would be there for coffee dates, movie nights, or as a safe space to vent. If you are up for it, let’s chat and see if it works.

Hi, I’m looking for someone who could help me and guide my in the path, which I don’t know to take. I’m not talk about how to transition. I know everything about it. I need support to help me navigate this difficult time. Every since my egg broke, I’m been thinking if it’s too late, or if this really what I want to do, or how will this position me in my family and society.

I’d appreciate someone to help me out here.

I’m trying to teach out to transwomen, who would be able to help me out for my dysphoria. I’m 35, late egg to crack, and I’m looking for genuine support in my journey.

Hey, I love swimming. But, I don’t wanna go alone. I stopped gym for quite time now, so I wish to start swimming as exercise instead. I’m looking for mates interested in joining for mutual motivation and friendship. Aquadox and Fitnesssoul are two spots I know off.

Life is getting very boring these days. Friends are busy with their life. We do meet occasionally, but, I realised I need to expand my connections especially for weekend hangouts - dinner, drinks, events, activities, travel. I’m up for anything.

I have been going through a lot of posts here in this sub. I read them having lot of interests, hobbies and activities, like gaming, and stuffs. This inhibits me from initiating a conversation. I feel like I’m so boring. I don’t have any hobbies. I don’t have much interests that are interesting. The little time I get is spend mostly brooding, movies, or doomscrolling. I’m introverted, and a bit awkward. I have friends but they are all busy, we get to meet each other only after appointments. I crave some online company, warm and emotional, where we can chat on random things, vent out, or even have deep conversations. That’s that then.

Whenever there is a post on scientific discoveries or discussions, there will be comments saying, “It was already mentioned in the Quran,” or “The Vedas explained this thousands of years ago.”

But if that’s true, shouldn’t humanity have benefited from that knowledge long before modern science?

Homo sapiens, the humans, have existed for nearly 300,000 years. Yet almost every major advancements in medicine and physics happened in the last few centuries.

Vaccines, antibiotics, organ transplants, medical imaging, cancer research, discovery planets, galaxies, black holes, superclusters. None of these came from ancient scriptures. They came from observation, experimentation, failure, and repeating the process until the evidence held up.

If a sacred text truly contained advanced scientific knowledge in a clear and practical way, why didn’t it lead people to discover bacteria before microscopes, or neutron star before telescope?

Why didn’t it help stop plague outbreaks? Why wasn’t there a method to prevent smallpox, treat tuberculosis or something even better for human living standards? Most importantly why did God have to create the diseases in the first place, if they loved humans?

These scientific miracles are identified only after science has already made the discovery. The verses are then reinterpreted to fit what we now know.

If scriptures already contained modern science, or if God existed, then where was that knowledge 300,000 years ago?

I finally decided that I would see a psychiatrist. I don’t think a therapist can help me, because I already know what they would say. I don’t have much problems in my life now. But, I’m just depressed and numb. I would like to know a good psychiatrist in Kochi you would suggest.

I’m a gay man and I don’t have many real world Gay friends. All my good friends my community are online, and I have not ever seen most of them in real life. I was wondering if the gay men or women can have platonic friendships?

There is sudden surge in prices of grocery and commodities in Kerala. And why is no one speaking about it? Tomato is 70 per kg, banana over 80. Chicken nearing 200, and Beef at 500. What is happening?

I want to know if anyone has tried with Oppam online therapy.

I am seriously considering re-starting my therapy. Life has become too difficult for me. I have started procrastinating a lot lately. I'm also experiencing random panic attacks. Not the intensive ones. but I can feel the anxiety build up, and heavy breathing that follows.

The doctor I had planned to see, through a reference, is on medical leave. He would not be resuming consultation till August. I don't think I can wait that long.

The news about the recent family suicide is also kind of pushing me. I don't know if you can understand when I say this - I feel motivated to do the act. But, I know I can't do that, so I'm conflicted but safe.

Then I came across Oppam. I don't know if online therapies help that much. Seeking genuine suggestions, reviews and feedbacks.

Has anyone truly recovered from mental health issues like depression, stress and trauma? I'm unable to commit to a therapist or psychiatrist. I feel distant, and fake meeting a handful of therapists in Kochi. "Fake" doesn't mean they are faking their job, but I have this pre-conceived notion that they are just talking artificially to validate me and help me. Would they give the same explanations and advice if I meant something to them really.

Back to the question. I have not many anyone who is cured from their mental health issues. Many dropped off, many still visits even when there is no evident change in them. Or, it could be just my circle of friends, who are not able to keep up timely consultations.

Is there anyone out there who can say, they are cured or at least, are in control of their issues/disorder?