u/blankandgray

Hello everyone. I want to know the pov of men who liked/have been in love with a hidjabi girl.

How did you notice her, what did you like about her etc. Like, how did you fall in love without seeing her fully I mean ? If it makes sense.

I'm asking this because I heard someone say that for them all hidjabis are the same and they don't even notice their faces since the veil makes them look all the same. I find it harsh and unrealistic but I don't know how it goes for men who don't share this opinion hence my question.

Thanks for answering!

Coucou tout le monde, j'espère que vous allez bien !

Je sais que c'est hyper subjectif et que le sujet est un peu délicat, mais j'aimerais vraiment avoir vos retours et vos avis (veillez à rester bienveillants dans les commentaires, s'il vous plaît).

J'aimerais savoir comment les filles voilées gèrent le fait de travailler dans un hôpital où la laïcité est de règle et donc tout couvre-chef est strictement interdit (ni voile, ni turban, rien du tout).

Si vous deviez vous engager dans un tel travail pour une durée limitée, genre 10 mois seulement (j'insiste bien sur le fait que c'est temporaire), et donc devoir l'enlever une fois à l'intérieur, comment ça se passe concrètement ?

1. Sur le plan psychologique : Est-ce que ça crée un conflit interne au quotidien, au point de gâcher votre bien-être même en dehors du boulot quand vous le portez normalement ? Est-ce que la situation devient une source d'anxiété ou de tristesse ?

2. Sur le plan pratique et social : Où et comment vous l'enlevez ou le remettez exactement ? Est-ce que vous laissez vos collègues vous voir avec en dehors ou connaître votre situation ? Comment ça se passe si vous sortez avec eux après le travail, au restaurant ou pour un événement où vous pouvez le porter normalement ? Je me demande vraiment comment se déroule ce genre de situations.

3. Laïcité à part, puisque le contexte du travail est un laboratoire (donc pas de contact avec les patients), pensez-vous que c'est une bonne idée de discuter de ce sujet avec votre chef ? Si oui, comment vous allez vous y prendre ?

Merci d'y répondre sans jugement. On a toutes des parcours et des contextes différents qu'on ne maîtrise pas forcément, donc abstenez-vous de commenter si c'est pour juger ou si vous n'avez pas d'éléments de réponse. Merci 🫶🏻🤍

Hello, everyone, I hope you're all doing great. I know this question has been asked a lot, and I know it's a very subjective experience and a delicate situation but I still want to get your opinions, so please be nice.

I want to know how hidjabi girls deal with a workplace that prohibits anything on the head. No hidjab, no turban or anything.

If you have to commit to this workplace for only 10 months (emphasis on the limited time spent in such conditions), and not wear it inside the workplace, how does it go ?

\\- does it create an inner struggle that makes life difficult even outside the workplace when you're wearing it just fine ? I mean, does the situation become a source of anxiety and sadness. I'm not talking about feeling like not wearing it at all (b3id char) but just feeling not okay overall.

\\- where/how do you get to remove it or put it back exactly? By that I mean do you let the people you work with see you and know about your situation? What if you're going out with them to an event or let's say a restaurant, or any place where you can wear it normally. I'm wondering how similar situations go ?

Please try to answer the question without judging, everyone has a life you know nothing about so don't generalize and avoid commenting if you don't have any answer. Thanks 🫶🏻🤍

Hello, everyone, I hope you're all doing great. I know this question has been asked a lot, and I know it's a very subjective experience and a delicate situation but I still want to get your opinions, so please be nice.

I want to know how hidjabi girls deal with a workplace that prohibits anything on the head. No hidjab, no turban or anything.

If you have to commit to this workplace for only 10 months (emphasis on the limited time spent in such conditions), and not wear it inside the workplace, how does it go ?

\- does it create an inner struggle that makes life difficult even outside the workplace when you're wearing it just fine ? I mean, does the situation become a source of anxiety and sadness. I'm not talking about feeling like not wearing it at all (b3id char) but just feeling not okay overall.

\- where/how do you get to remove it or put it back exactly? By that I mean do you let the people you work with see you and know about your situation? What if you're going out with them to an event or let's say a restaurant, or any place where you can wear it normally. I'm wondering how similar situations go ?

Please try to answer the question without judging, everyone has a life you know nothing about so don't generalize and avoid commenting if you don't have any answer. Thanks 🫶🏻🤍

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Thank you so much and have a great day..

Hello everyone, I genuinely want to discuss this question with you. I want real thoughts, so please avoid negative phrases on Algeria like dziriyin meshi cha3b etc.

So I went to a bank (not even étatique mais privée) to create an account etc. And I literally spent almost 3 hours there. Like, I had to wait for them to receive me, then for them to print les formulaires, then for them to receive me 2.0, then for them to copy everything into their system, then to finally let me pay and go out.

I was amazed by how slow every step was. Like, the place was great so perfect environment to be productive, and the people were so nice too, but just so damn slow. I could've done everything myself in like 35 minutes, no jokes.

I don't get what makes every step this slow, like, they ACT slow, they move SLOW. I think I felt trapped in a slow motion alternative reality in which I've been still feeling the time pass normally and it honestly traumatized me.