u/blueberry_pan

Couples in Game Changers by Rachel Ried had the same foundation (in a bad way) ?

OK first, no hate to the series. I genuinely enjoyed reading the books. They were fun reads with great romance.

But as I continued through the series, I started to realise they were all just same idea in different fonts? And the only couple that slightly went off script was Troy and Harris. And of course sequels like "The Long Game" don't count because the couple is already established.

So basically the whole foundation of the romance is:

Hockey player meets normal dude (or another hockey player) . Hockey player can't come out cause the League is homophobic. They have sex with no strings attached. They keep having sex but eventually start liking each other. And they go back and forth with the sex before confessing to each other.

And like I said, Troy and Harris are a bit different 'cause there is a mutual emotional attraction between them before they go to town.

And I know I sound like a backward, conventional whatever whatever it is. But I wish more of them had romance and emotion or atleast something other than sexual attraction before the smut. I know the main point of sex is physical attraction. But in Game Changers, it all starts as a strictly sexual encounter.

I'll break it down what happened in each book, that I've read, before the guys start to boing boing

  1. Game Changer : They just find each other hot

  2. Heated Rivalry : They find each other hot and want to hookup without the risk of being outed

  3. Tough Guy : There is SOME emotion involved cus they had crushes on each other in high school. But Fabian is helping Ryan to explore gay sex. No strings attached.

  4. Common Goal : Kyle is helping Eric to explore gay sex. No strings attached.

  5. Role Model : Mutual emotional attraction before smut begins

Do yall see a pattern? Or am I trippin'? 'Cause I feel like the book was too eager to do the deed. I know it's a trope or whatever but does every book has to be like that? (Except Role Model ofc) I would love to read more mlm books from Rachel Ried, with different dynamics. She's genuinely good at writing romance.

I guess I just don't find the uncertain period of "just sex" appealing... Maybe it's a culture thing? (I'm Asian)

Also, pls don't hate me for this but, I feel like the books are trying to highlight smut because people like to read smut. Idk how to explain it. Like they know people would buy it if there was smut involved so they take every possible opportunity to include a smut scene? Or am I the problem? But not in a way that ruins the story tho (thank god)

Again, no hate because I loved the books. (Can't wait for Unrivaled to come outtttt.)

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u/blueberry_pan — 3 days ago

I need a reliable tutorial on how to tune my bow

I'm shooting Olympic style recurve and idk how to tune my bow. Currently I don't have a coach so I need to find a reliable Yt video or a tutorial site to learn how to tune. Can someone pls provide me with a reliable source? 'cause I don't wanna mess up my bow...

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u/blueberry_pan — 5 days ago

Need a reliable tutorial video/source for tuning

I never learned how to tune my bow and I currently don't have a coach to teach me. Can someone pls provide with a reliable yt video or ur own tutorial on how to? I'm scared to pick a random tutorial and mess up my bow

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u/blueberry_pan — 5 days ago

I can't string/unstring MY bow by myself

So I shoot Olympic style archery (20F) and I've been doing it for almost 7 years now. I've shot 70m at national level so I'm pretty old to the sport. Currently I am pulling 42lb.

My problem is I cannot string or unstring my bow. NOT EVEN WITH A STRINGER 😭💔

I can string lighter poundages (upto about 20 without stringer and upto 34 with stringer) but I'm physically unable to with MY OWN BOW. Ajskakskskakzkaks. 😖

My coach always does it for me so I never bothered to train myself to string heavier bows. Now I find it lowkey embarrassing to ask for help when I have been doing archery for so long.

And I only do fitness and endurance training. I don't lift weights so I don't think my body can learn it overnight 😭😭😭

AND I'm moving soon so I might have to temporarily shoot at a convenient range without a coach at the new city. And asking for strangers to string MY bow which I SHOOT kinda feels embarrassing.

I just want someone to reassure me that this is normal and it's not embarrassing to ask for help to string and unstring your bow. OR AM I GONNA BE THE WEAKLING WHO CAN'T EVEN STRING HER OWN BOW????? 😖😭

I've been losing sleep over this. I will be grateful if the seasoned archers can let me knowwww (I overthink as a living)

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u/blueberry_pan — 5 days ago
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I can't string/unstring MY bow by myself

So I shoot Olympic style archery (20F) and I've been doing it for almost 7 years now. I've shot 70m at national level so I'm pretty old to the sport. Currently I am pulling 42lb.

My problem is I cannot string or unstring my bow. NOT EVEN WITH A STRINGER 😭💔

I can string lighter poundages (upto about 20 without stringer and upto 34 with stringer) but I'm physically unable to with MY OWN BOW. Ajskakskskakzkaks. 😖

My coach always does it for me so I never bothered to train myself to string heavier bows. Now I find it lowkey embarrassing to ask for help when I have been doing archery for so long.

And I only do fitness and endurance training. I don't lift weights so I don't think my body can learn it overnight 😭😭😭

AND I'm moving soon so I might have to temporarily shoot at a convenient range without a coach at the new city. And asking for strangers to string MY bow which I SHOOT kinda feels embarrassing.

I just want someone to reassure me that this is normal and it's not embarrassing to ask for help to string and unstring your bow. OR AM I GONNA BE THE WEAKLING WHO CAN'T EVEN STRING HER OWN BOW????? 😖😭

I've been losing sleep over this. I will be grateful if the seasoned archers can let me knowwww (I overthink as a living)

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u/blueberry_pan — 5 days ago