u/bonjour_15

Looking for a female flatmate for double occupancy room in a 2bhk flat

Rent: 6.5k

Area: Vastrapur

Fully furnished

Non smoker girl needed

Contact asap

Are there any good swimming pools in Ahmedabad. Like 10-15 ft deep and preferably indoor

Guys is there any pgs in Ahmedabad near navrangpura area where i can live in daily basis manner as I only need it for a week

Hey everyone! My friend and I (both females) are looking to move into a fully furnished 2BHK and need 2 more girls to join us.

​Areas: Vastrapur, Satellite, or Gurukul

​Budget: ₹7,500 per person (Max ₹30k total)

​Alternatively, if you already have a pre-occupied flat in these areas and have one room available for two girls, we’re down for that too!

​Please DM me if you’re interested or have leads. Thanks!

Okay so I'll try to keep it short but please bear with me if I can't!!

So i [21F] have been dating this guy [25M] on and off for almost 2 years now..

We started dating in july 2024 end and he proposed to me in October2024...

Things were picture perfect at first.. we had our fair share of fights but we always communicated and talked it out.. He was severly depressed so that was always a challenge but we were working through it..

Then September 2025 he did not want this and told me he was just unhappy in the relationship and did not feel fulfilled.. it was a hard pill to swallow but okay..

Then we used to fight or sometimes talk nicely and just kind of check up on each other.. in October we decided to just stay friends. By December end we were kind of back together.. so in January I told him i either want commitment or nothing because I can't do situationships and he chose commitment.. Then we did have some fights about him not yet proposing me officially but he saud he was too depressed rn so I understood.. Then recently what happened is yesterday he went out on this event his female friend who i absolutely hate organised and told me afterwards and I got mad that why did he not tell this to me beforehand.. he said it was decided an hour ago and he just went and we argued about that a little.. then he asks me if I don't want him to keep his friendship with her and I said no. Then he started changing the topic but his main point was he doesn't wanna end the friendship and I said okay I can't force you, it's your call now. He said he'll keep her out of my hair.. now i feel horrible as I feel i am not enough of a priority for him.. he only met that girl few months ago..

Then second fight was about him not putting enough efforts in the relationship.. he saud he's trying his best but he's just not able to as he's doing his internship after mbbs so that's super hectic.. but i feel like he's not trying hard enough

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Things to consider

He has been clinically depressed for years so he's not faking that

I do love him a lot so if there's any chance of fixing things I'd like to go w that

There's no speculations of cheating whatsoever

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So please give me a reality check if I am being difficult here or are my feelings valid? Is this a phase couples go through? Is there any chance of saving my relationship

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If you wanna know anything else please ask..

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TLDR

​A 21-year-old female and her 25-year-old boyfriend have been in an on-and-off relationship for nearly two years. After a breakup and a period of being "just friends," they recently got back together with a demand for total commitment. However, tension has risen over two main issues:

​The Female Friend: The boyfriend attended an event organized by a female friend the OP dislikes without telling her beforehand. While he refused to end the friendship, he promised to keep her out of the OP's way, leaving the OP feeling like she isn't a priority.

​Lack of Effort: The OP feels he isn't putting enough effort into the relationship or moving forward with an official proposal. He attributes this to severe clinical depression and a hectic MBBS medical internship.

​The OP is not worried about cheating and deeply loves him, so she is seeking a reality check on whether her expectations are valid or if she is being too difficult given his mental health and demanding schedule.

Okay so I'll try to keep it short but please bear with me if I can't!!

So i [21F] have been dating this guy [25M] on and off for almost 2 years now..

We started dating in july 2024 end and he proposed to me in October2024...

Things were picture perfect at first.. we had our fair share of fights but we always communicated and talked it out.. He was severly depressed so that was always a challenge but we were working through it..

Then September 2025 he did not want this and told me he was just unhappy in the relationship and did not feel fulfilled.. it was a hard pill to swallow but okay..

Then we used to fight or sometimes talk nicely and just kind of check up on each other.. in October we decided to just stay friends. By December end we were kind of back together.. so in January I told him i either want commitment or nothing because I can't do situationships and he chose commitment.. Then we did have some fights about him not yet proposing me officially but he saud he was too depressed rn so I understood.. Then recently what happened is yesterday he went out on this event his female friend who i absolutely hate organised and told me afterwards and I got mad that why did he not tell this to me beforehand.. he said it was decided an hour ago and he just went and we argued about that a little.. then he asks me if I don't want him to keep his friendship with her and I said no. Then he started changing the topic but his main point was he doesn't wanna end the friendship and I said okay I can't force you, it's your call now. He said he'll keep her out of my hair.. now i feel horrible as I feel i am not enough of a priority for him.. he only met that girl few months ago..

Then second fight was about him not putting enough efforts in the relationship.. he saud he's trying his best but he's just not able to as he's doing his internship after mbbs so that's super hectic.. but i feel like he's not trying hard enough

Things to consider He has been clinically depressed for years so he's not faking that I do love him a lot so if there's any chance of fixing things I'd like to go w that There's no speculations of cheating whatsoever

s this a phase couples go through? Is there any chance of saving my relationship

If you wanna know anything else please ask..

TLDR ​A 21-year-old female and her 25-year-old boyfriend have been in an on-and-off relationship for nearly two years. After a breakup and a period of being "just friends," they recently got back together with a demand for total commitment. However, tension has risen over two main issues: ​The Female Friend: The boyfriend attended an event organized by a female friend the OP dislikes without telling her beforehand. While he refused to end the friendship, he promised to keep her out of the OP's way, leaving the OP feeling like she isn't a priority. ​Lack of Effort: The OP feels he isn't putting enough effort into the relationship or moving forward with an official proposal. He attributes this to severe clinical depression and a hectic MBBS medical internship. ​The OP is not worried about cheating and deeply loves him, so she is seeking a reality check on whether her expectations are valid or if she is being too difficult given his mental health and demanding schedule.