u/braindead-dumblover

Hi everyone!

I'm a 21F from Nagpur and I'm currently in Pune for a few days. I was a NEET aspirant for the past 4 years, but I've now decided to explore other healthcare-related career options instead of MBBS.

The problem is that I have almost no knowledge about college admissions, counseling processes, application forms, CAP rounds, or how to apply for different healthcare courses. I recently appeared for CUET as well, so I'm trying to understand all the options available.

I'm not looking for a professional counselor. Instead, I'm hoping to connect with someone who has actually been through a similar journey, someone who repeated NEET, eventually switched to another healthcare course, and has firsthand experience with admissions and counseling.

I'd love to meet someone intelligent and genuine who'd be willing to hang out over coffee, discuss good healthcare courses with strong career prospects and salaries, recommend good colleges in Pune, and guide me through the admission process from personal experience.

I'm currently staying near Katraj, Pune.

If you've been through this yourself or know someone who has, please DM me. It would genuinely mean a lot. 🤍

21F, I'm new to Pune nd here for only few days...I was free today nd wanted to visit cat cafes.....I am rn at katraj nd here's a cat hostel nearby but want someone to accompany me. Lemme know if someone's interested cuz m getting bored😭

Hi everyone, I'm from Nagpur and I have an exam in Pune on 27th June. After finding out that my exam center is in Pune, my maternal family decided to accompany me and my mother. They also want to explore colleges, PGs, and mess facilities for my cousin sister.

We will be a group of around 8-10 people, and we're confused about the best mode of travel. Since only a few days are left, we're unsure if train tickets will be available. We're considering three options:

1.Book a car from Nagpur for the entire trip.

2.Travel to Pune by train or sleeper bus and hire a vehicle locally.

3.Use local transport within Pune.

We may also visit places outside Pune, so we're trying to figure out the most convenient and cost-effective option. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! 🙂

I'm from Nagpur and dated a guy from Nagpur who's very famous in nagpur reddit whatsapp community.

Disclaimer - this post is for his dear frnds

I've a tea😭 a part 2 of my story (technically part 3 after the counterpost we all got from his bf)

this time the tea is with proofs (which m not gonna share obviously 😂 cuz it's his prsnl stuff but just to make y'all trust I really do have proofs) for those who kept saying ki made up story hai, attention seek kr rhi h ,karma farming ke rhi h. Baki trust so pehle hi hojana chahiye tha jb uske bf ne mere post pe ek counterpost daal diya tha...jo ki uss looser ass ne delete krdiya kyuki uske master ne use post krne ke liye khoob daanta omg💅🏻

Aisa nahi hai ki m bht eager hu to share nd let ppl make his fun nd give me emotional support....no not at all....I ain't here to seek attention (that's what he said) or gain emotional support cuz m good now the antidepressants are doing there job ...I mean what can I even do right?😂

My only purpose to rant was to tell all those ppl who are his frnds specifically who are supporting him nd saying that ME ,HIS EX I'm toxic just bcoz he told everyone "his good nd my bad only" side nd not "my good nd his bad" side doesn't mean m toxic ......

The level of manipulation,toxic behaviour,nd narcissism, betrayal,trauma I faced can't be explained in words I swearrrrr......

Consider this post for HIS FRIENDS ND HIS SO CALLED BOYFRIEND {jo muze pta chl gya kon h🤭} (Before supporting him or let's not say ur support cuz ofc u all are his frnds but before calling me toxic pls pls know my side of story yaa fir muze khud shauk nahi hai Btane ka aap logo ko but yeah then pls stop calling me toxic nd spreading hate cuz u don't know how much I suffered,neither you were to give me emotional support so shut ur asses off)

Had to say this cause found 2 of his frnds joking on my private parts nd my skintone in their frnds wtsp grp which is really traumatizing for me. Also two of his frnds shared the ss of my wtsp status on their grp and the other frnd shared ss of chats that he used to have with me whenever I talked to him nd then they all made fun of me ki look how desperate she is for her bf nd passed the shittiest comments possible. Like if you all hate me then why m I even the topic of ur grp huh? I literally searched my name nd there were tons of msgs that just included my name.....sending stickers nd saying ye aisi hi hogi nd what notttt ....so y'all pls stop talking bout me or else come to me take the real tea nd fir gossip kro naa auntiyo ki trh fir mazaa aayega aur....bro don't even get me started with this , my ex literally sent 2 sex tapes of Us to one of his female best frnd on telegram.....like what should I even say now....upon asking he said " toh kya hua vo ek ldki hi hai naaaaa" 🙂 But bro that sex tape included me nd u didn't even ask me for once that can I share nd share ki to baat hi nahi aati naa bro....... that pvt parts pr joke marna was so traumatizing for me ....nd uske microcheating ka to maine abtk shuru bhi nahi kiya btana 😮‍💨

Uske frnd ko smjhna chahiye ki unke ghr bhi behene hai . Nd in defence of this they will say ki hmari behene aisa nahi krti so tum bhi apne bhai ki harkatein pehle muzse sunn lena fir bolna!🫩

Mere paas bhai aisi bht stories hai....maine bhi glti kri hai.... criminal level ki glti kri hai lekin 1 hi kri hai lekin usne bhi toh kri hai aur vo bhi 1 nahi kaafi sari.....if I have to be unbiased then yes I'll say ki mere pehle to usne hi criminal level pr mere sath aisa kuch kra hai......I forgave him ,he forgave me ...but in return he started acting ignorant....jaha muze chize fix krni thi vha muze basic understanding bhi nhi mil rhi thi...he forgave me but stayed without interest, didn't abandone but not even treated my good...kept hooked.

There was a time when I blocked him nd his family on every platform nd used to check 3 times a day ki kahi se unblock to nahi reh gya kahi se reach out to nahi krega.....nd look at me now......gone all psycho nd surviving on antidepressants literally just because of this breakup.

Going to aiims nagpur today for follow up in psychiatric department.....anyone willing to join or atleast till mihan?????

Might leave in half n hour maybe at 8am

Hmu:)

21f. *Kaafi chatpata nd must read rant* . I am from Nagpur nd was dating a guy who also lives in nagpur....

We were having fights since last 5 months now and it was getting alot toxic...even tho I never let him be alone...2-3 din se zyda bina baat kiye mai khud nahi rehti thi ,no contact rule m khud todti thi,hmesha vo male ego me rehta tha m use manati thi but somehow he says that after brkup (100 brkup 100 patchup hote the hmare) he said ki he talked to guys kyuki tb use emotional support Dene vala koi nahi tha so he talked to guys (basically who were gays) nd wished to try something new....idk how did he got convinced for say gex (kyuki uski body language khud gay vali thi aur m bht tokti thi ki improvements la ,gym jane ke liye maine hi force Kiya aur uska male ego hurt hojata tha ki tko ky m gay dikhta hu ky kitni toxic h tu jbki m supportive hori thi ki koi baat nahi ye bhi improve hojayega ) to ye idk how ...muze to lg rha h paiso ka lalach dikhake bulaya ise kyuki ye bht saalon se gold digger hai but at a small scale we will say...to ye say gex krne chla gya nd he said after returning he didn't feel any guilt of doing say gex....he said he enjoyed it more than he did with me,...then he fucked another guy....then another guy....so basically even tho we were on nd off in our relationship....in less than 1 month he fucked nd slept with 3 different guys.....also he was in relationship with me so it's a cheating now.....one day he was on a video call with me nd literally said that he is visiting one of his frnd nd now he told me that it was the guy he fked that day.....he was so happy so happy to tell me this nd to show me their sxx tape....I mean I can't tell y'all the happiness over his face....he was happy to show how good and dominating he is on bed with guys....these guys were calling him to fck them....usne itna hi btaya muze ki yhi dominanting tha nd also showed me videos.....

Now what's more concerning is he said he's gay then he said "no I feel like I'm bisexual cuz I feel sexually attracted to you too" ....so he was bisexual since many years I mean he was clear with his sexuality since many years that he is bisexual he even told me that he did 3some with a couple......nd he literally hide his sexuality from me to be in a relationship with me🙂 for all those 8 months he was straight (acting straight) he said that babe you pulled me out of this bisexual thing...I started feeling like I'm straight but this brkup toxicity made me explore things nd now I enjoy it more with guys than girls.....

Ab muze 3 chize affect kr rhi h

1.MUZE acceptance nahi aa rha ki mera bf gay/bisexual hai kyuki 8 mahino se to m use straight hi smjhti thi nd muze ye shock lga h ab

2.Ki ab mai kbhi bhi ise manake mere sath relationship me nahi laa paungi vaps cuz he said mai tuze chhodne ko taiyyar hu pr uss ldke ko nahi I'm emotionally connected to him now

3.Usne mere sath apni sexuality chhupake dhoka kiya aur ab jake reveal kiya ki he's gay/bisexual.

I swear muze 3 din se itni zyda ghinn aa rhi h aur muze itni zyda anxiety ho rhi h....muze already iss relationship ki vjh se 5 mahino se anxiety attacks se suffer kr rhi hu and anti depressants pr bhi hu zindagi me pehli baar anti depressants lene pd rhe h kyuki this guy was too toxic....ye logo ke samne apni fake personality show krta tha ki ye kitna acha h nd ye logo ke sath.... nagpur meetups me bht jata h aur muze hangouts krne ki itni permission nahi milti ghr se to m nahi jati to logo ko lgta h ki mai hi toxic hu.....pr ab unko kon smjhaye ki unse zyda mai uske sath rhi thi to muze hi pta h....but khair

Muze smjhme nahi aa rha h bilkul bhi ki m accept kese kru...even on the third day I met him nd tried to convince him....he even got convinced for few hours that okay , I'll be bisexual but won't explore I'll be loyal to you but when I said him that block this guy delete everything move on it's okay I accept you as you are....to uske aankhon me aansu aane lge ...he said "mai ab yha se bilkul vaps nahi jaa skta kyuki ab m isme bht aage aa chuka hu it's better we end things nd you let me be me nd live my life nd we end this relationship "

Muze tbhi jo anxiety hone lgi aaj subh ki hi baat h ye aaj subh hi hua sb at shankar nagar...hum subh 4 bje poha khane gye the....aur fir 5.30 bje se vhi jhgdne lge.....

He was not at all ready to block that guy....that guy let's call him his boyfriend cuz he is emotionally connected to the third guy jiska flat bhi h ngp me hi nd they spent time with each other nd his boyfriend buys him things with his money so he bought him a bracelet of evil eye....I took that bracelet nd said u won't wear that bracelet....so he literally begged me to return his bracelet coz vo uske bf ne gift Kiya usko...maine to vo bracelet todke fek diya tha tbhi use pta nahi hai bs......

What my issue was ki muze acceptance nahi aa rha aur muze anxiety attack bhi aagye 2 isi vjh se overthinking nahi ruk rhi aur moreover muze ghin aa rhi h bht zyda...bht bht zyda.....muze bht ajeeb LG rha h...use krne me ajeeb nahi lga but muze sunke aur sochke hi bht ghin aa rhi h....uske liye abhi bhi shyd attachment h aur soft corner h isliye bura lg rha h....

Mai to abhi bhi accept krlu use lekin vo loyal nahi rhega....vo ab bht zyda say gex me lg gya h uska usme se nikalne ka man hi nahi h....aaj subh hi usne muze firse propose Kiya ki will u be my gf aur uss ke bf ko block krne bola to mere see brkup krliya usne 🙃

Mtlb agr m nahi bolti block krne to jhgda nahi hota aur vo muze cheat krta....vo bhi ek gay ke sath....chhi bhaiiii ye to deserve nahi krti m atleast

He’s made his choice, and it’s a mess. I deserve stability, not someone flip-flopping between sex partners.

I tried my best to accept him the way he is nd his sexuality...but now that vo khud muze accept krne ko taiyyar nahi hai to enough closure hona chahiye ab ye mere liye but I feel so bad I just can't explain....

I srsly tried my best no straight girl will ever accept a gay bf but I did nd got betrayed...

Now it's not about being gay/bi/straight....it’s about trust. He didn’t give me the truth, and now I'm left with the aftermath.

Now, I'm dealing with anxiety, disgust, and the realization I wasted energy on someone who was selfish. It's okay to feel grossed out by his actions he disrespected my trust. But I don’t need to fix him, and frankly, he doesn’t deserve another ounce of my time.