Advise for my aging grandparents (92+)
My grandparents are definitely starting to show their age. I have been living with them because I am disabled as well for the past 15 years.
They own their home. They have no mortgage no debt. Their house is worth a million
But they absolutely refuse to sell their house
They let the place go. They have money in the bank, but choose not to renovate it even living with visible mold , broken fixings, broken appliances they are first generation immigrants from Europe, so they really don’t care to be honest
If something breaks, they either ignore and live with it or I step up and fix it if i can
They are unable to do shopping. They are unable to go to the doctor without assistance.
They speak little English
I am not their power of attorney but I was wondering as the grandson only been alive (myself) do I have any legal procedure and how exactly would that work in Canada?
I feel like they are not capable of making their own decisions and need someone to live with them at all times such as myself obviously but I’m not gonna live with them forever either
How exactly would getting a power of attorney even work especially if technically they’re not my parents , they are my grandparents….
No one else is alive
My mom (this would he her parents) is not alive
At what point do I have the ability to put a power of attorney into execution if I was able to get one legally in the first place?
Overall, it’s getting to a point where they need so much assistance and I suspect they’re both experiencing stage one Alzheimer’s and they’re neglecting their quality of life and even mine
Thank you, everyone btw im 30
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