Advise for my aging grandparents (92+)

My grandparents are definitely starting to show their age. I have been living with them because I am disabled as well for the past 15 years.

They own their home. They have no mortgage no debt. Their house is worth a million

But they absolutely refuse to sell their house

They let the place go. They have money in the bank, but choose not to renovate it even living with visible mold , broken fixings, broken appliances they are first generation immigrants from Europe, so they really don’t care to be honest

If something breaks, they either ignore and live with it or I step up and fix it if i can

They are unable to do shopping. They are unable to go to the doctor without assistance.
They speak little English

I am not their power of attorney but I was wondering as the grandson only been alive (myself) do I have any legal procedure and how exactly would that work in Canada?

I feel like they are not capable of making their own decisions and need someone to live with them at all times such as myself obviously but I’m not gonna live with them forever either

How exactly would getting a power of attorney even work especially if technically they’re not my parents , they are my grandparents….
No one else is alive

My mom (this would he her parents) is not alive

At what point do I have the ability to put a power of attorney into execution if I was able to get one legally in the first place?

Overall, it’s getting to a point where they need so much assistance and I suspect they’re both experiencing stage one Alzheimer’s and they’re neglecting their quality of life and even mine

Thank you, everyone btw im 30

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u/burnttoast14 — 23 hours ago
▲ 10 r/judo

What is the name of the double leg sweep that is similar to Osoto Gari?

Hi everyone, I am almost a yellow belt. I cannot for the life of me name this move and no one has told me . it’s basically Osoto Gari , but instead of sweeping one leg, I sweep both of them at the same time.

If I position and time correctly, I could actually load uke onto my hip while theyre losing balance and slam them almost like o goshi

It’s kinda hard for me to explain, but I’ve done it many times as an almost yellow belt and so far it’s my most favourite move in randori

Thank you, everyone

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u/burnttoast14 — 17 days ago
▲ 5 r/fican

Honest suggestions and recommendations

Hi everyone, I am 30 years old. I live with my family. Unfortunately, I am disabled due to a serious work injury I had years back.

I make approximately 45,000 a year after tax

I am single I have no kids and I have no plans on kids anytime soon if ever (might just want to be the rich uncle for the rest of my life) lol

I own 5 acres of rural residential , residential, development, and some environmentally protected land in Simcoe County by Collingwood & Wasaga Beach Ontario

I’m not too sure on the value, but I do pay $2500 every single year in taxes for it (I estimate it is worth realistically right now $600,000) potentially more. I’m not exactly sure.

I was wondering is it better if I sell it for what it’s worth now and throw it into a diversified ETF. ?

Right now I currently only have $50,000 liquid

$20,000 of that is currently in VEQT

Or do I hold onto it (they already have a casino and they are gonna bring Costco into town and I’m sure other things are gonna happen in the Collingwood and Wasaga Beach communities

Also

I am expected to have $500,000 ~ after tax once I turned 65 due to my Workmen’s Compensation fund (it is already worth 20,000 at the moment and gets contributed to each year)

Because I’m actually disabled, I cannot work

What should I do?

Thank you, everyone

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u/burnttoast14 — 1 month ago
▲ 0 r/MW2

MAY 2026 Player Count Xbox?

Today is Friday. I’m trying to get into a game and to my disbelief on American based servers I’m not finding more than one lobby right now and I’ve been waiting for matchmaking since yesterday being Friday 11PM

How many people are even playing this game now 150?

IT’S NOT LIKE IT’S A WEEKDAY

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u/burnttoast14 — 2 months ago

Should I pool all short and long term goal money into one ETF?

Basically I have already $20,000

I wanna buy a house in 10-12 years time

This money includes money i put aside to do maintenance on my vehicle and a new phone / laptop every 5 years etc.

I would think pooling all my funds would make it grow faster no?

Im thinking ETFS comparable to VTI / SMH / SOXQ

Thank you

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u/burnttoast14 — 2 months ago
▲ 6 r/ETFs

I have $10,000 to invest. I am a fan of NVIDIA and TSM but also wanted some diversification

I’m looking to hold for 10+ years. See where this thing goes.

I am a fan as well of TSM

What are your thoughts and suggestions or should I wait for a pull back?

Thank you, everyone

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u/burnttoast14 — 2 months ago