F | 29 | Sialkot - given up on arranged marriage
Height & Weight: 5'4", 55kgs
Age: 29
Location: Punjab, Pakistan close to Lahore
Accommodation: own, I live with my parents
Education: Bachelors and Masters in Humanities from University of London.
Income Source: Business owner since 5 years, will continue to work after marriage and be back and forth to Sialkot if I move.
Marital Status: Single, I’ve lowkey almost been engaged, was in a long term relationship that was meant to end in marriage but didn’t work out
Religion: Faith is a huge part of who I am, I pray 5 times a day, follow the 5 pillars of Islam, have gone for Umrah a couple of times. I don’t wear the Hijab though.
I want my partner to have a very clear distinction of halal and haraam.
Hobbies & Interests, what I’m looking for:
I have profound love for community, and am a very sensitive person and a humanitarian.
Everyone calls me an extrovert, so I probably am one. I’m very full of life, I love travelling, binge watching crime mystery tv shows, and movies. I’m very hyper independent I hate asking for help, and love my me time and going on drives solo. I’m a really good cook and I like to be boastful about it on some days. I’m really easy going and adventurous when it comes to spontaneous plans. People tell me I’m a giver in relationships, maybe a pro for my future spouse I guess.
I’m a foodie, I have a really bad sweet tooth, it would be ideal if you love food too and especially dessert.
I want someone who can take care of me and someone I can finally share my life with.
Family Details: Father is a business man, a well reputed one, I come from a privileged background and would prefer someone who understands my lifestyle
My mother is a housewife
I’m number 3rd of 4 siblings
Elder 2 siblings are married
Requirements for a Partner: Lives in or close to Lahore
Has no plans of moving abroad
A god fearing man, who has same moral and religious values like me.
Educated from a known university, a masters degree would be ideal, but bachelors is fine too.
Has a purpose, depth and goals in life. I don’t expect a man to be a millionaire, but someone who’s driven and is working hard to build a life for his future family.
Open minded when it comes to women’s rights, and freedom, and helps me grow as an individual rather than cage me. I want my partner to be an healthy extension in my life where we both learn from each other and complete each other, no toxicity, no judgement and have complete trust and transparency. Someone who accepts me with all my flaws and imperfections, I don’t expect a man to change for me, so he shouldn’t expect me to change for him either, if you’re someone who is intolerant to strong headed opinionated women I’m not the one for you. I will continue to work after marriage I can’t abandon something I built from scratch and put my heart and soul, and literal blood, sweat and tears into.
A man needs to be emotionally intelligent, patient, understanding and calm, doesn’t raise his voice to get his point across, but wants to listen and communicate.
Deal Breakers: Smoking, alcohol, drug use are a complete no go for me. Please don’t lie about these things, wont get us anywhere.
Infidelity, rage anger issues, misogyny.
Lazy, unfit (not a gym freak but presentable), poor hygiene.
Older than 33, the closer in age the better
Preferred Family Setup: Ideally a nuclear family set up, exceptions can be made, we can discuss this.
Do You Want Children?: maybe, can be discussed
Timeframe for Marriage: Within 6 to 12 months, after compatibility is established
2026 Ideally
Serious individuals only, really don’t have the energy for prolonged small talk