3 years since we met but now no longer together
So before meeting on our first date, there was a 2 month talking stage because she was in another state. In those two months, we opened up a lot about each other — our interests, hobbies, everything. Subconsciously, we became part of each other’s routine.
One day in the middle of a conversation, I casually mentioned that I liked vintage sunglasses and said, “One day I’ll buy them for myself, right now I don’t have money for them.”
Cut to a few weeks later when we finally met for our first date.
I didn’t take flowers for her because of some past experiences. I was deeply hurt from a previous relationship and honestly carried a lot of bitterness towards women as a whole back then. I had decided I would never buy flowers for anyone again.
We met, shook hands, sat opposite each other, and just kept smiling because after months of talking, we were finally seeing each other in person.
Then casually, she put her hand inside her bag, took out a pair of sunglasses, and kept them in front of me.
Not even in my wildest dreams did I think someone would remember such a small detail about me, let alone gift it to me. It was something I casually mentioned once in the middle of a random conversation, and she remembered it.
Till date, that remains one of the sweetest gestures anyone has ever done for me.
Ventane first thing I did was, the place we went to had this small tree nearby with flowers on it. I plucked a few flowers from there and gave them to her. She found it really cute. Then I took her picture in my Polaroid, moved closer and sat beside her, and we spent the whole evening/night just talking.
One of the best and most unforgettable days of my life.