u/clefcolors

When I see people say something's unlikely but possible, I might agree, but I wonder what makes something go from possible to unbelievably mistyped According to the community

Example = ISFJ E8 is always widely recognized as a really weird combination, right

Does this make sense?? What would you say are completely unacceptable combinations?

This is probably very not specific. I'm going into university soon (Bio first then a marine specialization, do you think that's good)

So I think I'll become better eventually. But I know basics at the moment... Identifying shark/dolphin/seal/whale/jellyfish types and the like. I wondered, how do you get very good at that kind of thing? Is it pure experience and scattered studying or do you have a strategy is what I guess I'm asking ...! A book you'd recommend? Thanks... :-)

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Looks cute...? :-).

hello!! I'm looking to expand my resource list and to find a cute one that actually fits my desktop... :p

where do you find your skins? do you have any non-rectangular ones, like the to-heart ones? rectangular is also just fine.

I'd appreciate your help!!! Thank you!!!

1. How do you respond when a new acquaintance says, "tell me about yourself."

- I stutter through a response and use how other people describe me . In my 19 years of life I’ve never described myself w my own words

2. Tell me about your internal experience of yourself. What makes you, you?

- I don’t know ummm umm ymmmmmm toot. idk

3. You just had a really good day. Describe it. It can be a real recent example or an aspirational one.

- I think my best days have been getting work done fast and being able to be w people I love from hour 1 to hour 18 of my day . However long my day is. iwant it to be full of love and productivity. Like that one time I spent the whole day cleaning and organizing my closet and felt the worlds embrace for a week

4. If someone is upset with you, what is the typical reason for it? Give a recent example.

- I’m being an asshole. 9 times out of 10 if someone’s mad at me it’s because I said something rude or was too offstandish OOPS! Most recent example has to be like 2y ago and it didn’t involve just me so I won’t talk about it actually. No thank you. We’ve moved past

5. What are you like when you're stressed? What are your coping mechanisms? Give an example of a recent stressful situation and how you handled it.

- I get irritable when I’m stressed . I have lashed out on people and I feel bad . But I also try to push it off and ignore it and do anything else which makes the stress worse in the end

6. What pushes your buttons? What makes you angry? How does your anger manifest? Can you be openly angry with others?

- people being RUDE people being OBNOXIOUS and not LISTENING to people when they say to cut that shit Out . I hate people who think they’re smarter than they are I hate when people are rude and unfair for the sake of being rude and unfair they can kiss my fat ass

7. What’s your deepest fear? Why is that your fear?

- honest to god it’s the dark and demons and the paranormal AS MUCH AS I LOVE IT IN CONCEPT AND THEORY YOUWILL NEVER CATCH ME IN ANY ANALOG HORROR SERIES THAT INVOLVES THINGS THAT ARENT HUMAN TRYING TO KILL ME FUCK OUT OF HEEEREEUEUHH WHO WANTS THAT EVER EVEN

8. What types of memories cause you the most shame? What feelings cause you the most shame? What is it about them that causes you shame?

- memories of how I acted during covid era and younger. Yes I was a little ass kid who didn’t know about it but god damn was I too loud and proud about that .. being more mature now only causes me to look back and wince. I hate it bad …

9. What is your relationship with pleasure? What gives you pleasure? Can you have pleasure when you want it, or do you have to earn it?

- I do feel I have to earn it . If I wanna feel good sure I can do Jack shit or something easy but being productive and doing good gives me more pleasure than anything else. Heh. That’s why ilike cooking. 99% of the time I’m working to make a dish and then I get to eat it YUUUUMMMMAY

10. What’s your relationship with authority? Think both abstractly and with specific authorities in your life, possibly your parents, boss, religious leader, doctor, or government figures? Are you an authority?

- Authority gotta be fair to some degree … no authority member is above their own authority that’s some bullshit. If you’re gonna stand up and take care of people you gotta set the standard and the example. If you fail you die and everyone hates you forever (NOT SERIOUS to some degree) . Can you tell I don’t like being an American if this is my stance. Fuck dude

11. When your mind wanders, what are you thinking about?

- my ocs and music. And what I’ll eat for dinner. And what there is to do tomorrow. And what life would be if I could make music. And then I make melodies in my head. And I think of my wife. And us starting a band with friends. I love music….

12. You have a big decision to make. Describe how you decide what to do.

- ok well what’s the decision. hello. I have a different approach to everything TOO BROAD! TO HELL YOU GO!Jk. My bad. I try to reason through my options and think Logically bc thinking with my heart won’t do shit #thankyou telltale games I hate the walking dead you kill me forever. But yeah sure I guess that’s it

13. What’s your biggest flaw?

- I care too little about myself I think. Sometimes I’m asked what I want to do and my answer is always idk. Whatever. I don’t care. What do I want to be in the future? I don’t care … Why are my grades bad? Idont caaaareee leave me alone im digging in my nose and flicking it at you leave me alone . I don’t have any HUGE aspirations as of yet. Idk. I’m hoping I find it

14. What makes you special? (Or, if you don't feel special, what at least makes you different from other people?)

- I have no answer for either I’m afraid. Idk

15. How much of your mental energy is spent on thinking about each of the past, the present, and the future?

- like. None. Unless it’s money related in which case it’s a constant worry . But aside from that I literally don’t care

16. You unexpectedly find yourself with a whole weekend with no obligations, and everyone else is busy. How do you feel about it? What do you do?

- how I feel about it? Fcuuuucckkkk whatever I should die Eveeyone Hate Me. What I do? Sleep. Cook. Sleep. Eat. Watch Isaacwhy. Sleep lay down doomscroll sleep eat

17. What’s your personal vibe/style/aesthetic? How cultivated vs natural is it, and how much time do you spend on it? Do you turn it on and off?

- GOD I WISH I KNKW I WISH I MNEW ANYTHING ALL I KNOW IS IM LAID ABCK BX I WEAR WHATEVER IN MY CLOSET I GO WITH THE WIND BUT I WANT SOMETHING MORE DEFINITIVE I DO. I do. I look Like a bum dude none of my outfits fit me the way I want them to. Whatever. It’s all the same

18. Which of the following is the most like you? Explain. A) I know what I want, I go out and make it happen, and people won't stop me. B) I am content to be on my own and not draw too much attention to myself. C) I have to be responsible and dedicated, and I put others’ needs first.

- Somewhere between B and C..?? Not sure at all. Probably more C leaning. Yeah. Yeaaah. C

19. Which of the following is most like you? Explain. A) I dislike stress and negative vibes, and I may try to distract myself from my problems. B) I have strong feelings, get worked up easily, and am not afraid to show it. C) I don’t like to let my feelings show; they get in the way of being efficient and logical.

- why’s C so fucking stern all the time cheer up a little… A and B except I am afraid to show my emotions . Like. PetrifiOh shit I think C BUT NOT THAT STUCK UP OK YOU GOTTA BELIEVE ME. C but with a different attitude ok

20. Which of the following is most like you? Explain. A) I look to others for feedback and guidance and am willing to be flexible when needed. B) I am always aware of how things could be better, and I’m disappointed that they are not. C) Deep down, I am afraid people won’t give me what I need unless I make it worth their while.

- ok for once not C YAY! B. Definitely B. Yay

I made her answer the questionaire
Any help is appreciated :P
Even if it's just "Oh she uses (cognitive function)"

Because I am struggling a lot with it

Give a general description of yourself. How old are you?

- I dunno … I’m 19 tho yay

What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not? If you are not working, what kind of job do you want to do or what are you studying?

- holy shit so many questions in one okay. Curious George over here! Fawk … I work in retail it’s ok im sleepy leave me alone

Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how think or choose to live?

- haha how think

- I got depression and like undiagnosed adhd probably . I’m confident I got it tho

Provide a brief description.

If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?

- BY MYSELF? I’m winding up dead. No thanks. I’m killing myself if nobody with me I need people I need Friends

What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?

- I like being outside but not doing anything . I like laying in the grass and letting the wind hit me

How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?

- these multi part questions are pissing me off Hello. A lot of my curiosities are about what lies outside our world and universe. Idk

Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

- nyeso I like being in charge of people but then you actually think about what that means and it makes me nervous. But also I would handle annoyances better than most so idk

Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.

- hands on so long as it don’t hurt

Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.

- I do digital art, want to go back into animation, want to try music out

What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

- idgaf I worry about future but not enough to make me cry . I gave up

How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

- I am the helperrrr I like being needed

Do you need logical consistency in your life?

- yes

How important is efficiency and productivity to you?

- very. I hate school group projects for that reason. Everyone is USELESS

Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?

- I try to. I try getting people to behave in proper ways by being gentle and barely authoritative about it but I try to show I’m pissed the Fuck off in hopes it works . 7/10 method

What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?

- games and art and talking and listening to music . Idk why I like them I just do. Cooking too

What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?

- why are you treating me like my employers good GOD yo I learn with my hands I like being taught through example and hands-on shit rather than just being told what to do bc I learn how **I** want to do whatever im being taught . I like memorization and logic rather than creativity. Guess how much I like talking to people at the register. NOT AT ALL!

How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?

- I wing it

What's important to you and why?

- my wife, friends and family because it feels they’re all I have. They are

What are your aspirations?

- none

What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?

- demons, the dark, paranormal, general intruders . yk. The usual. Self explanatory I feel

What do the "highs" in your life look like?

- 9hr sleep no one’s bothering me I get to be with my wife and friends and nothing bad goes wrong. I’m being praised for something and the world loves me

What do the "lows" in your life look like?

- I want to Kill Myself . Lowest of lows

How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?

- I’m fairly attached until I get headphones in my ears . I’m out of it once they’re on and I have a good song playing

Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?

- nothing I just sleep probably . If I have to stay awake I think of my friends and ocs but then I cry because I’m in my head too long. If anyone ever does this to me that’s how I know they hate me and want me dead

How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?

- I change my mind about everything. I can’t make an important decision in complete confidence ever. It takes me a good minute

How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?

- I don’t process my emotions usually. I’m trying to Now because my girlfriend and I had a deep talk about it but I’d shove them off because I deemed them childish and unimportant and a waste of energy . Oops

Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?

- all the time because I don’t wanna look weird or start an argument or have my friends split up over me . Again

Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?

- I break rules if they’re stupid. Which isn’t often but when it happens I’ll do it all the damn time with the same rule

What is the ideal life, in your opinion?

- safety for everyone. No one struggles (like.. homelessness or critical illness struggle. Struggling is a normal part of life otherwise) no one’s poor everyone is ok and at least content with their life. I want to live comfortably and I wish the same for all around me

I read that IEI + EII are common for INFJ, but can also be EIE, ILI, ESI and LSI

what do you identify with?

Only saw a post or 2 that talked about this, even less so outside reddit

I'm still learning about socionics very slowly, so please forgive the ignorance (^^)/

hellooo... i'd like to make a MSN gc where we discuss what the title says ^^

desktop customization: talk about what you use for your desktop, recommendations, resources -like retrobar skins or rainmeter widgets

music: anything you want

novels: visual novels, actual books, games-that-arent-visual-novels-but-are-dialogue-or-lore-heavy

or anything else!

please be 17 or older! * do not discuss NSFW topics! *

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