u/cocoalord06

I know we’re meant to find it with Cicero, but I looked at their pizza place already and couldn’t find it… how am I meant to get the seeds??

Ok so before I go into the context of the screenshots themselves, I think it would be beneficial to add some extra context (I know most of us love that so might as well hahaha). Before I start, I’d like to apologise for any formatting errors as I’m on my phone and any weird phrasing or grammatical errors as I’m travelling and have not slept a lot in the past couple days.

I (20F) and my “friend” (20F), who I’ll be referring to as H going forward, were in a friend group in our first year of university last year. I went on a trip with most of the friend group (H did not attend), and like it happens to most people it went VERY badly. Long story short, I’m a people pleaser and they are so entitled I was able to set some boundaries, they did not like that and have been sh\*t talking and avoiding me for the past year.

After the trip, I talked to H and asked her for advice on how to deal with our mutual friends as she was closer to them as I live far away from them and can’t hang out as much. She basically said she didn’t want to get in the middle, I respected it. Turns out she just didn’t want to take my side, although it seemed like she agreed with me, because she liked one of the girls from the trip more than she liked me.

I was a bit hurt but we continued being friends, as I knew she liked the other girl more but was still open to being friends. The problem started after we came back to university and she started avoiding me unless my old friend group wasn’t near us. I asked about it and she said she would get nervous to talk to me in front of the old friend group because they would get mad at her. I’m not even exaggerating, she was treating me like a mistress.

Anyways, I continued being her friend (idk where my self respect is either) and only asked she talk to them and explain that she still wanted to be my friend and hang out every once in a while, but I don’t think she ever did.

Now to the situation at hand, one of our classes had a group assignment with a maximum of 4 people. We were previously in a group together for another assignment but our group was 5 people. H never contacted anyone in our previous group until she texted me a week before the assignment that she was mad.

At the time the group was made (and the rest of the month) she was out of the country. On instagram I saw that H was hanging out with her friends from back home (we both study abroad) and wasn’t skipping classes for any important reason. I mention this because if the lack of contact was due to medical, family or a similar issue I would be understanding.. but it was nothing of the sort.

Side note: take a look at the dates in the screenshots to better understand the timeline of events.