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I am trying to do my research on type 9s, but basically everything I hear on type so9 is with a group, like they stop existing the second they separate from the presence of others. Just considering that I may identify with so9 more than sp9, but hearing nothing about when their alone💔 their just trying to rub salt in my 1 way too busy friend wound atp😭

I am currently trying to decide if i am better fit for so4, or sp9 as i feel connected to both. I've had quite a few people say I seem like a 9w1, but i dont entirely resonate (is that the right word?) With the description it gives, nor do I really feel too connected to some of the descriptions of how they handle stress, and a few other things. But I still often feel like a e9 so its really confusing sob. There's just a lot I dont think I understand about e9s. And quite a few of the the things that describe e4s, specifically so4 also connect with me. If anyone wants to help with further typing talk/advice it would be greatly appreciated!

I had initially taken an enneagram test over a year ago, so I do know both my core and tri type, but i am starting to question if I had initially been miss-typed. I had read about quite a few of the different wings and found myself connecting (is that the correct phrasing?) With ones different from my core. Thank you for any help!

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