u/coffeebrakewitacat

After lots of research and self reflection I am most likely an intp or mabye inxp at least. Which if I am I WENT IN A FULL CIRCLE and the fact that 16 personalities could have gotten me straight on the head I think says something about me😭 I mean I am currently debating between 9 or 6 as they both seem EXTREMELY likely for me(i initially thought i didnt relate to 6 all to much at first and public saying i was one felt wrong for some reason lol, admittedly that was a while ago, still didnt feel as connected to 6 as i did 5 until recently). But then again all of this is probably just classic 9 and 6 behavior💔

(Also mabye this might be a better post for typology junction but I still think its worth a shot to post here first before moving on)

Asking this because literally everyone ive talked to has yelled at me saying "e9 cant be Ne"😭 my only issue is that my Ne function is literally so loud that its like people can smell it off of me😭 and similar thing with 9, i look way too much like a e9 to be anything else. It dosent help that ive gone back to questioning my head fix, (e5 vs e6) and even feel somewhat like a 5 again somehow(but thats a different story for a different day). Anywho I'm too much of a e9, but also have way too much Ne, yet people say that's wrong.

So am I just weird or lying to myself🔥

Typing a friend, and narrowed down her tritype to 471, but i cant figure out if she uses so or sp more. I remember telling her jokingly about wanting to "borrow" pins from a hot topic and then she literally bought the pins for me and eyed me down the entier time I was looking through them lol. But then also in that same shoping trip dropped like a pound of cash on random stuff she liked, I literally had to drag her out of one store before she spent any more money😭

I am currently bouncing back and forth between ENTP and ENFP as I feel like i could be both. I am leaning more towards ENTP due to the fact I used to heavily like HEAVILY identify with INTP. I have had people tell me I may be ESFJ or INFP which that's just flat out not true. I have done my own bits of research on ENFPs and ENTPs and I am leaning more towards ENTP but I am still rather uncertain as some tests give me ENTP and some ENFP. But ive also had people say I seem like an ENTP or INTP so idk. Mabye im just a really weird ENFP. I can find my test results from 3 different tests i took and put them in the comments if they might help😭

#1: You have trouble communicating your ideas with people.

I do often try to explain my ideas/thoughts to others, but more often than not people dont understand what I am talking about or referencing. It sucks too when you have to go back and explain something you just explained too😭

#2: You greatly value social harmony and often go out of your way to maintain it.

While harmony is nice, im not going to over excerpt myself trying to keep the peace. Like if two people were beefing infront of me, I would step out of the way and just watch, im not butting myself in business I have no belonging in

#3 You would do whatever it takes to win a debate

While winning is nice and all, im not sure id do something as drastic as "whatever it takes". That's not to say i havent accidentally gotten a little too passionate when trying to prove someone wrong though. I remember my friend having to text me "ok, ok, I get it" after I had sent them a few screen shots of reasons as to why they were wrong lol(I felt bad after😭)

#4 You easily sympathize with others struggles

While I CAN sympathize with others, im not great at it😭 While others vent to me i often just stand there awkwardly with a smile on my face because what else are you supposed to do😭😭😭 anywho, it also depends on what their struggle is. Like, if they are struggling with something that ive either experienced, or something similar that someone else close to me has gone through, then I'll have an eiser time connecting with their struggle, but i still dont often have an easy time doing so lol.

#5 You consider yourself a practical and realistic person, free from imagination

While I do connect with the first half, some people even call me "too realistic" or "a bit of a Debbie downer", I definitely DONT connect with the last bit. I am stuck in my own head way too much to be "free from imagination"

#6 You are aware of your surroundings and aren't likely to miss something infront of you

This is the exact OPPOSITE of me. I often run into people and things that are right next to me lol. Ive even had friends and family who will go "can you hand me [item infront of me]" and I'll look around as if it isn't literally right there😭

#7 You feel awkward and aimless during leisure time

If i am not actively doing something, usually with someone else, or because of some else, i can tend to be a bit aimless with down time, similar to how a rumba would bump off walls while looking for something else to clean. While I do often enjoy my alone time, it does tend to get a bit boring waiting for something to happen.

#8 You follow a consistent routine

While i do have a routine, it often isnt too consistent, but i do follow it. When I dont have a routine nothing gets done. When I know i have to wake up at a certain time, and be ready by a certain time, and get stuff done by a certain time, I find it easier to get things done. I think this is mostly a proclamation thing however, as if i dont have a deadline set in place, important tasks will continue to be set aside. However that's not to say i cant function without one either, but just that i function much better with a routine.

#9 You exude charisma and are usually viewed as charming by others

While i dont personally thing im charismatic or charming, more often than not when I am with others, formal, friends, strangers, they are laughing or smiling. Even had several people directly praise me infront of my bosses at work before lol

#10 You rely on past experiences to guide yourself through the present

I do often use my past experiences as a guide to new ones. Ex: well i did [thing] before, or, well this is how it happened last time. As well as i heavily lean on them to answer questions like these lol.

#11 You consider yourself an organized person and take control of situations before they get out of hand

While I dont consider myself a particular organized person, however i do have things set the way I like them/want them/can find them, and heavily dislike when someone else tries to change that(when someone had came to me at my job asking to train them, i helped train them, and enjoyed having someone else in my area to talk to, and to just make it feel less lonely. I wasn't too fond when they started doing things their own way. I perfered having things set up the way i had them, with extra hands to help wherever needed, not someone to take over my area entirely. But it was nice having someone else do my job for me haha), i am probably a bit more organized than others. I remember when my job had just introduced something new in my area, and I was consulting my boss with what we should do sense it threw a wrench in just about every, the boss had handed it over to me and told me that I knew the most about my area. And by then end of the night I had somehow managed to keep things smooth and about as orderly as they could have been, even with others telling me that I had done the best out of what the other two people who also work in my area would have done. (Yeah I know, this is just me glazing myself here, but shhhhh, that night was brutal😭😭😭)

#12 Fake people bother you

I do not enjoy when people are overly fake. While there are certain scenarios when i could see where you might benefit from being "fake", I do not enjoy when people are fake in relationships. If you have an issue with me or someone else, just say so.

#13 You have as strong tendency to see things as good or bad

I am not quite sure if I do these things. I mean from a certain standpoints I understand, like stealing from an old woman, bad, donating to non for profit charities, good. I can see certain things a good or bad, but i dont think i have a rather strong tendency to do so, as i dont feel I have a rather strong moral opinion either.

#14 You take on subjects with a burning interest only to drop them once they no longer feel new to you

I relate to this very well lol, like over focusing on one thing, and then later moving on to something else once my interest has died down or I find something else to focus on.

#15 You value inclusion and try your best to involve everyone in a group

When doing group discussions I do sometimes pull others in when it looks like they may want to be apart of the conversation. Like back when I used to have a class with this small group of people, me and my friend would talk to each other and the other girl who would sit at our table would often laugh along or nod along to whatever we were talking about. I often liked to try to include her as she was relatively familiar to both of us, but i also wouldn't force her, my friend often didn't do the same lol.(granted we had all known each other for a decent amount of time, so we weren't total strangers)

#16 You start many different projects bit finish few

Hi, welcome to my life story😭 get a random spike of inspiration for something just for it to die off as soon as it came to me and I get started😭😭😭

#17 You tend to express sympathy only after you empathize with someone

I can struggle to feel sympathy for someone who i dont know/don't connected with their struggles as said before. Not that I dont feel sympathy, rather I think I often feel quite a lot, its just that I may struggle to express or feel as deeply if I dont either know that person, understand what that person is going through, or have experience something similar myself.

#18 You are extremely objective and "tell it as it is"

I think i do this for the most part. If someone said something about someone I know, even if they know each other well or are in a relationship, I will tell that person as they deserve to know. I mean there are certain scenarios where I may hold back from telling someone certain things, it is usually pretty situational.

#19 You have an uncanny ability to recognize others needs

I dont think think I do this as i often don't know what others think or feel unless they say it or I know them well.

#20 You work through problems by yourself and detach yourself from other people to arrive at a conclusion

I usually ask others for assistance when going through a problem unless I can be sure about the outcome lol

#21 You would question anything

Yes

#22 You like to organize things for your pleasure

I perfer things to be organized, and don't mind organizing certain things depending on how daunting it might be. While at work I often find myself organizing random stuff while waiting. Mostly because the people in my area don't use their eyeballs and read the very obvious labels as to where things go and dont go😭

#23 You have trouble communicating with thoes who do not think like you

Usually I can talk with just about anyone. However if upholding that conversation is enjoyable is a different discussion.

#24 You dislike change

Change can be good or bad, as i dont mind change much. Usually depends on what type of change but i usually go with whatever.

#25 (this one is 2 questions combined) You can easily think of something random to say. And, You have the tendency to go off topic.

This is just me😭 trying to follow up on any one of my conversations is like watching thoes old ai videos where someone random pops up out of nowhere holding a hotdog

#26 You generally work through problems with others and involve yourself with other people to arrive at a conclusion

I think this was addressed in a previous question, however isnt that essentially what im doing here lol?

#27 You absorb information from the outside world world without additional processing

Yeah no, I need time to think on things, time to gather more information, time to think on the new information. I usually dont take things at just face value lol

#28 You find it difficult to focus on a single subject

Essentially, do this over here, focus on this for a minute, get distracted by something else. This one task is taking up too much brainpower so I start doing something else, and then I realize I've gotten like mabye 25% done😭

#29 Generally, you would perfer a solution be thorough before putting it into action

I dont like when I dont understand something before doing it, that's not to say I dont often just jump into things from time to time, but i will tend to as a lot of questions while doing said thing.

With thoes questions aside, i have had some people say i may be a Fi core, however im pretty sure my Ne is MUCH stronger than my Fi, but i may be wrong lol

I feel like someone's asked this a thousand times but here we go again. ESPECIALLY ON LARPTOK people HATE so4, sx4, sx6, sx8, most e3s for some reason, and sp7. They also tend to have mixed feelings on so9, so6, so7, and most e8s. They also glaze the hell out of sp6, sx5, and sp2😭 i remember a so6 saying they felt like a celebrity due to all the dms they were getting, as well as someone else saying that they would slip into any so6's or so9's dms they found😭 its like the community forgot that everyone ISNT their little ennahuman design and is an actual PERSON behind the screen. I mean, I get if you fear someone who was unhealthy, like sx4s who are usually really reactive when unhealthy, but not every sx4 is like that😭 honestly enneagram tok is kinda like the 16 personalities of mbti, wrong in all sorts of ways, waters things down, can create harmful stereotypes, and you're most likely gonna be mistyped in the end😭😭😭

Anyone feel the same about enneagram toks lowkey(highkey atp) typeism?

Bringing a bit of mbti into this lol. Anyway i am still stuck between 954 and 964 for my head but I relate to both. Also wanted to see if there were any differences with both of thoes types with intp and entp. I think i identify with entp functions stack more than intp due to im pretty sure my Ne function is highest and Ti being second, but it also kinda feels like flip a coin and run with it at this point. I have a feeling someone in the comments might go "oh well you cant be this, you must be mistyped" and at this point i might be😭 anyway im a socal instinct dom, which i think i read somewhere was unlikely for intp? Idk anymore, ive read so much about enneagram my brain is gonna turn into mush at this point😭😭😭 (mabye so/sp would be probably what I think my instinct stack is? But I also somewhat relate to sx)

So i initially thought I was a intp(i did the 16 personalities test, yeah I know its dog dookie but I identified with intp for the most part and just ran with it, i just never got around to looking into the actual functions until more recently) however as I looked towards things more catered towards the functions, I got results that I may be enfp or entp, which honestly does make a lot more sense due to the fact I am a social dom. I do still feel like a 9w1 so that didn't change a bit, but I still feel split between 954 or 964 but once again I think thats just related to my e9 and still not knowing a whole lot about myself.

Side tangent but does anyone else feel this way or have had a similar experience?

I cant find genuinely ANY ONE talking about the fact these both heavily rely on others, and i find that kinda odd, or mabye i havent done enough digging quite yet, idk. Ive seen people often use e6s reliance on others as a descriptor but the lines still look a little blurred in some spots to me. Lol (side note, does anyone else see my point or am I just looking a little too hard into some things)

A few people had pointed me in the direction of e6 sence i was still questioning the so9 in my tri type at the time (core of 9, 954) but now im questioning if there is a 6 somewhere in my tri type. Either that or im just delusional, still thinking I must be mistyped or something😭 (im probably just delusional)

Im gonna put it under type me Tusday one again (lol) as I feel like that's probably the best tag to put it under. I rember trying to find my blind instinct, I think it may be sx blind but im also not sure, I know it's not so, as I decided to give instincts to all the different types in my tri type and they all fall under so (so9, so5, so4), and yeah know that the types in your tri type dont need to be labeled but also counter point: i dont care. As I stated before, I think the instinct im blind to is sx, but also I like deeply desire for 1 person(or mabye 2, like a small group where we all deeply care for each other, one no more than the other) to be like annoyingly clingy (in a friend way, if that makes sense) so that I can be sure they'll never leave me as id never leave them. I dont know if that's a weird quirk of so9s fear of being lonely or if im mistyping myself again grah. Anywayy👀

I may be sp blind? May not? I often just put off my own needs, not for others or anything, but just simply because I dont think about it(might also be an sp9 thing idk?). Can someone have an instinct within their tri type be something that their instinct blind to? Like be sx blind and have a sp1, so6, sx2?

The main reason I typed myself as so9 is because I only really do classical e9 things when I literally have nothing better to do, as I am usually quite productive in groups or group settings, and I do value feeling included within groups. I feel like there are other reasons I identified with so9 but I cant think of them at the moment augh