u/couchpotatouwu

Recently I shifted so these are pretty new friends. They are all nice and good. But one thing I noticed was that 2/4 out of them really believe that the poem that her boyfriend wrote to her was written by him personally for her.

Same situation with the other girl, her boyfriend sends her voice notes singing. She really believes he writes it personally for her and then sends them to her. They have a very good relationship overall with their boyfriend.

I don't know why the boyfriends never clarified it or they didn't wanna embarrass them so just didn't mention it ever? I honestly have no clue since they always praise their boyfriends using the words 'writer', 'creative' 'song writer' etc. The guys are nice and friendly too so I don't think they are doing it out of evil intentions.

So now I'm not sure if I should tell them about it when they mention a new song or poem from them or should I just let it be? I'm just worried that in the future someone else might come by and insult them for it.

I faced the same situation with my highschool friend with her boyfriend. I told her the quote he uses is a very common sitcom line. She got angry at ME. So I don't want that to happen but I don't want them to get embarrassed by someone else also.

This might not be the perfect sub for it but others subs are not allowing it.

I'm in my early 20s, I dated once when I was a teenager and I realised balancing a relationship was pretty hard with my part-time, clubs,academics etc. I couldn't put much effort as I was too busy and tired so I thought now is not the right time.

But now I'm in my early 20s. Starting my university soon. So I'm just confused if I'm supposed to search for my person actively by putting myself out there or just let it happen naturally?

I'm a very social person, involved in clubs, good at academics and sports. It's just I knew I won't be able to do a whole relationship right now so I kept waiting for the time I had more time. So I actually don't know how to do it. There have been people in my life who liked me enough to wait for me but I turned them down immediately as I know myself.

I do want to settle down and have a family with someone I love I'm just so confused about how to go about it.

This is just not my experience. I have talked with so many international students over the years and this is so common in Malaysia. The Malaysian-Chinese students even when working together in a group or the same table, keep speaking Chinese even after being asked to speak in English so that every group member understands them. They actively exclude international students like this.

Isn't this a soft form of bullying? If it's not, then can anyone explain to me what is the motive behind doing this?

In my country, we make sure everyone is included in whatever we do, same language or not. Everyone actually tries to speak the international student's native language to get closer in a fun way. International students truly feel comfortable with other international students because of this more than homesickness or anything else.

I never liked musicals much and I honestly didn't know this was one. I thought only 1 or two scenes will have a few emotional song lines but I was wrong and I'm not upset about it at all. I loved the movie.This was very comforting. Was feeling very upset today regarding a lot of stuff and wanted to get my mind off it so gave this movie a try. I think some scenes really felt like yes this is sister/women/girl-hood moments.

Friends coming together from far away, dancing, swinging,reading diaries, gossiping. It was a very nice watch.

Do the men of this group like this movie? Ik the women do for sure!!

Assalamualaikum. Growing up in Dhaka I have always used rickshaws for travelling here and there. I don't remember a time when any of them were rude towards me or made me angry or annoyed towards them Alhamdulillah.

Whenever I talked with them regarding life, they would be on the verge of tears because life is very harsh on them. They work very hard everyday and yet take home almost nothing. I myself am a student only and spend all my earnings from tuitions towards my family expenses yet I try to contribute more towards them to ease their pain.

I remember so many times I gave them a bit more than the normal fare, nothing super extravagant. 100tk instead of 60tk, 60tk instead of 30tk. Whatever I can contribute extra for the day. They would accept it and be so happy.

I'm sharing all these to understand why there are such negative views on rickshaw pullers.Yes I know the speeding and accidental issues, I'm not talking about that. I'm trying to understand why do some people tell me ' Erah shob takar Malik, akdin eh koto takai ay koreh jigesh koreh dekho,ai gula shob mittha ghotona manush er doya maya paowar jonno boleh'.

Amr Kotha hocche, mittha ghotona naki shotti onnora kemne bujhtese? What if tar asholeo ektu takar proyojin chilo oshud kenar Jonno but apni dilen na so shey kinte parlona. Amra toh Janina ki shotti ki mittha, Ami bishash kori keo jodi amr kachey shahajjo chai aita amr dayitto puron kora Jodi Ami pari korte karon Allah hoito tar Dua kobul kotese amk Dara. Bacchami hoito kintu kharap ki?

So amk keo Jodi ektu bujhai bolte parten kisher Jonno oneke airokom bhabe boleh oder ke niye Ami ektu bujhte partam. Kharap Kotha bolte holeh kichu niye comment korar dorkar nai. Ami respectable akta discussion korte chacchi.

Met this girl at an event and started talking to each other. She made the 'Daddy Chill' meme reference and I replied back ' What the hell is even that ' ( literally the next line after l the line she said in the meme). She went like 'Oh you don't understand, it was a meme while back where bla bla happens.'

I'm like a girl I literally said the second line IN THE MEME WHICH YOU REFERENCED how come you didn't catch it? She said she never saw the full meme. It's literally a 5-10s clip wdym you didn't watch it ugh