u/ctch23

Hello fellow gong residents.

This is the first time I have ever seen this camera go off since being in the gong (5 years). Anyway I came to a stop at the set of lights going west along burelli st (towards the cbd) and the camera flashed a total of 4 times which caught me off guard. Now I’m wondering if I set off the camera or if someone else did. I was the only car heading west at the intersection at the time. But there were cars driving through on corrimal street I assume they had a green light?? Does the camera get all ways or only corrimal street? I’m hoping I didn’t set it off as I didn’t run the red but may have stopped over the line.

I’ve been with my husband for 4.5 years and he has a massive porn addiction. I have spoken to him countless times over the years to stop and get help for it but he absolutely refuses to. He also posts stuff of himself to said porn sites which to me feels like a huge betrayal.

Anyway we have a 6 month old baby and I’m seriously considering leaving him but it’s hard to do with a little one but everyone I talk to is telling me to leave him. I just don’t know if he will ever change or if I cut my losses now and leave.

I just don’t know if he spends money on these porn sites as I have absolutely no access to his banking account which again everyone seems to think is really weird considering we are married.

Might I add that he was chatting up another lady back in 2022 only a month before he proposed to me but I didn’t discover that until late last year 🥴 I don’t know if he’s met up with anyone but I obviously have my suspicions. I guess I’m not here for judgement or advice I just want to vent as I have no friends or family and I am just very isolated.

(For context he is 36 and I am 23 almost 24) he also brags about how many women he’s slept with?? Like do I really need to know that? My body count is considerably low by his standards but I don’t run around flaunting many men I’ve slept with.

Also might I add that he’s absolutely terrible with our son. Like he rarely interacts with him and when I ask him to he does it very begrudgingly. Yet he was the one who pushed for a baby. Yes I really wanted a baby too but like??? I genuinely feel like a single mother who occasionally gets laid