Confused about the difference in pronunciation between ñ and "ni"
My boyfriend is Mexican (CDMX) and he often says "demonios" as an exclamation when something goes wrong. I had only ever heard it, not seen it written down, and I assumed it was spelled "demoños." So when I was playing the new Tomodachi and it came time to add his Mii's angry phrase, I had him say "demoños."
Well some weeks later I happened fo see demonios written down somewhere and I mentioned to my bf that I was going to have to fix the spelling of his angry phrase. He was immediately confused as to what I meant, and explained that to his ear, "onio" and "oño" sound completely different. He was like, "one is *demoños* and the other is *demonios*." And I was going crazy because I just could not hear the difference at all.
I know this happens in every language where people who aren't native speakers have trouble distinguishing different sounds. But having grown up as a no sabo kid, with a big Chicano family and in an area where I was surrounded by other Chicanos, I thought I at LEAST had a good grasp of the Spanish phoneme. But I guess not? Is it maybe different between dialects? Either way I want to know what I'm missing between the two though 😭