u/dantetheredfox

So around June, I finally decided to take my weight seriously and started to count my calories and take walks. (10ksteps minimum a day)

I bought myself a scale to keep an eye on my weight the 22nd of June, and then I weighed 94,9 kilos.

I did some research, and found that it's recommended to keep to -1 kg a week at most, so that's what I aimed for.

Since then I've been losing weight rapidly. I weighed myself again this morning, (14th of August) and I'm down to 85,4 kilos. So in under 2 months, I've lost almost 10 kilos.

In my research, this is considered dangerous.

That being said, I don't feel any side effects to it. I'm tired a lot of the time, but that's been a normal for me since before I started losing weight. I don't even feel all too hungry.

I'm following a daily kcal limit of 1400, which i found after looking at a few different online calculators.

And I make sure to eat three to four meals a day (Breakfast, lunch, dinner and a small meal with my evening tea), and make sure that I consume a good amount of protein to make up for the weight loss.

The only reason I'm worried is because, again, I see a lot of websites saying that it's dangerous.

I'll add any context I couldn't fit elsewhere here. Not sure what could be relevant or not, but best be safe.

I'm 156cm

I'm born female but I identify as a man and I've been on testosterone injections for seven years.

I don't really work out besides the walks I take, so I'd say I'm low-mid active depending on the day

I also take perscribed ADHD medication. Won't specify which one since I don't want to encourage medicine abuse to lose weight. But it does prohibit my hunger somewhat.

Thank you for any help!

So I'm a transman. Born a woman, I've been taking Testosterone every 14 weeks for about 8 years. I have yet to do any surgeries.

Right now I'm trying to lose weight. I'm 156 cm, 26 years old and weigh 92 kilos.

My issue is that whenever I try to calculate what deificit I should take, there's a vast difference between women and men, and I'm not sure which one I should follow? (M:1700kcal, F:1400kcal) I am biologically female still, but I have the testosterone count of a male.

Thank you for any help

So I'm doing a big calorie deficency (1500 kcal a day) and it'a working well enough for me.

But one thing I'm struggling with is that I love baking. Bedore I started this deficency, I'd bake at least once a week. And I'm missing doing just that. But I don't want to bake something that I can't eat.

don't want to make breads and such, it doesn't hit quite the same, besides my freezer is already full of bread.

So I'm asking for any good low calorie and healthy sweet baked good recipe you guys have! Anything from buns, cakes, cookies etc.

Thank you for any help<3

My (M26) sister (F39) is living with me part-time while she's going through a gruelling divorce. I have a three room flat all for myself with a guest bedroom she can stay in for the time being.

It works out fine for the most part - she doesn't help out with rent, but sometimes she'll buy groceries and help with cleaning. All in all, I have no real issues with her living with me.

Now, I won't be going into details of her divorce out of respect for her, I'll only reveal that it's been going on for a few months and she found out a bit ago that her soon to be ex husband started to see another woman, which understandably is upsetting.

Being a good little brother, I've tried to be there for her and support her throughout this entire thing, which is partially why I ended up in this situation.

A few weeks ago she asked to go out drinking with me while she was staying in my flat. Thinking she needed the distraction (And honestly being eager to go out since I haven't had the chance to in a while, I agreed.) And for a bit it was just us two, we had a few drinks and listened to sone live music when she eventually started talking to a couple of guys.

Now I'm not very extroverted, so I mostly sat quiet but I still engaged in some light conversation with the guys, but it was clear from the start they were all really just interested in my sister.

One thing leads to another, and eventually we're invited back to one of the guys', we'll call him H, place.

Now this place is in the same village as my flat, but still a good 20 minute walk.

I follow only really because my sister would be alone with three strange men and I didn't want anything happening to her - so that night turns into me drinking and watching these three guys preen on her like birds.

During this night both me and her find out that H is engaged to another woman who's not there. My sister doesn't seem to care much about this fact though as throughout the night she gets closer and closer to H.

I start to feel really uncomfortable eventually and I ask her to go home. She agrees, but just a few minutes into walking she realizes she forgot something, and goes back. We run into H there, and he pushes me to let him come along.

It's at this point i try to talk my sister out of it, but she's so eager to finally "have some fun" after she's been through this whole divorce. So reluctantly, I allow them both to come back to my flat.

We return in the middle of the night. It's raining hard, and I'm drunk and tired. We enter my flat and, I'll admit I fucked up here, but I end up giving my sister a condom. I already felt uncomfortable, but she looked more excited than she had been in months.

I leave the flat to walk my dog and return to hear them already going at it. It disgusts me, and the knowledge still that H has a fiance is eating me up on the inside. So I leave and end up sleeping over at a friend's for the night.

Now, a couple of weeks later my sister calls me and tells me that there's a big chance that H's fiance will call me, and ask me about that night, and she urges me to promise her to lie and say that he slept on the sofa.

This is where I might be the asshole; I want to tell the fiance. I promised my sister, because I didn't know what else to say but the more I think about it the more it's eating me up.

I know how horrible cheating can be, and I wouldn't want this woman marrying someone who so easily cheats on her.

But at the same time, I don't want to betray my sister and her trust.

Help me out here, I really don't know what to do.

Help my mum figure out what song she's recorded, please. I can't really make out any words, but I'll attach a link to her recording below in the comments

So I've been overweight pretty much all my life, and I've finally had enough.

Before I get into it; I'm 26 years old, 156cm tall and I weigh 107kg. I was born a woman but I identify as a man and I'm on a testosterone dose. Saying this because it affects my fat distribution etc.

I've started a calorie deficit of 1800kcal a day, and I've started taking walks of 10k steps a day.

I've tried doing homeworkouts but it doesn't work for me. I miggt start going to the gym though.

Anyone has any advice? Is the calorie deficit too much or too little? Thank you in advance

So when I first got Beat saber years ago, my friend helped me download a mod that allowed me to search for songs in the game, possibly through beatsaver.
Since then that mod stopped working, and I found a new mod to use through BSMmanager. However that slows my game down to the point where it's literally unplayable. It'll slow down my controller until they're literally impossible to play with.
I'm relatively inexperienced when it comes to searching for and downloading mods, so I'm really not sure where to start.
So I'm wondering if anyone has any other suggestions on where to get a mod like that? I want to be able to keep downloading songs, but also going on my pc to do it every single time is too much of a chore. Thank you for any suggestions ❤️

Sorry if this isn't the right sub to ask, but I'm drawing a character who took a bullet to the eye and lost it but survived. And now he has a (healed) scar.

(Dont start arguing with me about the logistics about him surviving, ik it's a small chance)

I want to look up reference photos for it, but I only ever find fresh wounds and I'm so squeamish to that sort of thing that I can't look far.

Does anyone have any good reference photos for it, or know anywhere I can look it up without having to see actual wounds? Thank you.