Three Dates no kiss
I have started dating a girl, we are both early 30s. I think the dates went well, we laugh, we flirt, use innuendo. We also had a few deeper topics we discussed. We are both introverted. But we still haven't kissed and she gives me no signs she is open for it.
Like when I touch her, she doesn't pull back, but not reciprocating, no "accidental" touches, on a second date we went into a bar and I wanted to sit next to her and she went across the table instead.
When we end the date and hug, she doesn't hold eye contact nor holds the hug for longer. We just hug, her head goes immediately towards my shoulder, and then she immediately pulls back and lets the hug go.
I don't think she is dating just to get free stuff out of people, she has offered to pay multiple times, and she has already paid for a few drinks.
I am okay with waiting, I just don't want her to think I am not interested.