u/donewithevery1

Hi I have trust issues bcz i suffered a lot in friendship now Everyone is trying so lemme try too.

I m female 25 from India. I am looking for friends please don't be selfish with me bcz I am a giver. If I like you I'll do anything for you. I don't expect you to do the same but i will cry if you hurt me or act like it's not a big deal if you hurt me.

I like catssssssss and dogs too but catsssssssssssssssssssssss. I am currently unemployed so if anyone likes to give me a reference I'll appreciate it ( u don't have to be a friend for that ). I am introvert but if I like you and get comfortable with you I am very entertaining. I love gossip but I don't transfer to other person.

What else should I share about me

So after thinking for a long time i thought maybe i should do rant here. Sorry long rant ahead

So me and my Best friend from class 1st were inseparable. The whole school knew. They used to give examples. Were we good till 10th then in 11th 12th I changed schools we still were great together. Then different colleges we still used to talk a lot , used to gossip on call and sometimes meet too.

Then PG happened I was in a very hectic college and shit was happening with me I tried to contact her via WhatsApp only. Then I used to come home once a year i remember going to her house too.

Then after the masters ended I don't remember what happened our connection was Totally cut off. My problem is I am over-thinker . I like to think of others'pov.

I thought I made new friends ( she also had ) in college so maybe she is upset or something so I tried to contact her via call sms ( couldn't go home bcz she was doing a job in another city ) but her response started to delay. She never picked up the call. Reply after 3-4 days. That too one liner and mostly no reply. It started to hurt me a lot and made me think if I did something wrong.

Then I thought a lot but i realised she never started the conversation it was always me. But she replied now the replies are not there so it started hitting me. Earlier she used to call on birthday but now only one line message.

Keeping my ego aside I am like maybe she is going through something she is not sharing I still keep on contacting contacting but the same no reply or reply after 4-4 days. But the thing she replies as if nothing is wrong.

During my sister's wedding I told her before. So when I went to give her card I saw her grandmother's funeral was going on ? I was so shocked bcz i literally had a sweet box and was wearing heavy clothes and there was literally a funeral. Her mother said she denied to tell bcz it was a wedding at our home and somehow bcz of superstition ( we don't believe). I was stunned thank God we left early otherwise I would have cried. Like when we grew so apart that she can't even tell me basic info ?

Still i didn't say anything to her i cried on my own and moved on. She later congratulated me i didn't say anything and talked normally. Then we met at a friend's wedding and we were very normal. Very cool like nothing happened and we are still talking nicely. Everything's great. Then I wonder maybe I am thinking too much ?? I still try to contact her again maybe she is going through something. Still same. I even asked her what happened why you don't reply and she is like I don't use phone that much.

Then one day her mother came suddenly and was like here is our son's wedding card. I was still shocked like she didn't even tell me. Then again I let it go. I went normally at her house. She came to meet me once and then nowhere to be found. Then I was roaming and saw her chilling with her childhood neighbour friend. I was kind of hurt like she met me for 10-15 seconds only.

I had so much to talk. Even after repeatedly getting hurt but what should I do. I think I am too obsessed with her. I am not able to grow from that school time. Even sometimes she comes in my dream too we are having fun and I am happy then i realise oh wake up good morning.

I would love to communicate with her but what is there to communicate? Nothing happened if I ask why you don't reply or contact she is like nothing. Every time I feel like i should let her go my heart gets heavy. I feel like that doormat girlfriend i hate in those romantic movies/drama lol.

There was a time when her whole neighbour or family knew me i used to spend more time at her place now even while going to her house I feel awkward. My mom still thinks we are good friends. Maybe according to my friend we are good friends too but where our best friendship got lost in the middle of everything. Why am I awkward around her.

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Hi guys I was a SDE but layoff happened. My skills are angular python django and ready to learn new skills.

Problem is I don't get calls anymore bcz its been 6-7 months I left the job. Even if I get calls it's really hard to pass 4-5 rounds of interview. My dsa is not strong. I can tell logic but not code properly. I thought as I am not interested in coding i should shift to cybersecurity but in other reddit debate I found it it's not a good idea as they don't take freshers and market is filled there too.

Can you all give me some advice I just need a job. I don't have any passion anymore. What is a good paying and easy entering job. Like i am tired of Dynamic problems I DON'T KNOW GRAPH I NEVER USED ONE IN REAL LIFE. YOU WANT US TO USE AI THEN WHY THE HELL ARE YOU ASKING THAT IN INTERVIEW

anyways please help me guys I am very stressed.

Hi guys I was a SDE but layoff happened. My skills are angular python django and ready to learn new skills.

Problem is I don't get calls anymore bcz its been 6-7 months I left the job. Even if I get calls it's really hard to pass 4-5 rounds of interview. My dsa is not strong. I can tell logic but not code properly. I thought as I am not interested in coding i should shift to cybersecurity but in other reddit debate I found it it's not a good idea as they don't take freshers and market is filled there too.

Can you all give me some advice I just need a job. I don't have any passion anymore. What is a good paying and easy entering job. Like i am tired of Dynamic problems I DON'T KNOW GRAPH I NEVER USED ONE IN REAL LIFE. YOU WANT US TO USE AI THEN WHY THE HELL ARE YOU ASKING THAT IN INTERVIEW

anyways please help me guys I am very stressed.

( India )

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Can anyone suggest me how to enter CS without experience i have experience of 2 yrs in SDE. And what kind of roles are easy to enter and what kind of roles a fresher can take.

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