u/downtherabbitholecol — reddlx

I can't decide on a size, help

I tried doing the whole thing of emailing Mystic City to get their advice on a size, but I never got a reply so Im really lost. This is my first corset so I dont understand how much of this works. This is why I never order clothes online 😒

I want to get their MCC-68 sport mesh but I'm worried it's too tall (~4'11) and I can't decide on what I should get. My underbust is 30", waist 29" (but it can squish down A LOT), hips 40"

Im worried if I go off of my hips, itll be too big on the rest, but if I go off the underbust itll be too tight. Any help is appreciated.

u/downtherabbitholecol — 3 days ago

▲ 1 r/discordapp

Anyone else having problems with claiming quest rewards?

I tried to claim the rewards last night (14 hours ago) and I'm still having this problem.

I've refreshed discord, I've tried reopening Arknight's, I've fully closed out of discord, I tried claiming on my phone rather than pc, I've made sure my client doesn't need an update, but still no matter what quests won't claim. There's a post about it in bug reports but not everyone checks that, so I want to see if anyone else is having problems / found solutions.

OS: Windows 11 Ver 25H2 (OS Build 26200.8457)
Discord Version: stable 560555 (21d921e) Host 1.0.9241 x64 (83924) Build Override: N/A Windows 11 64-bit (10.0.26200)

u/downtherabbitholecol — 2 months ago

▲ 4 r/plural

Explain endos to me like I'm 5

Hi, three times diagnosed traumagenic DID system here. Call me Samael.

I'm trying to find a reason to be more endo-neutral. I know the basics that endogenics are non-trauma formed systems and willogenics are willed into existence, but both, ESPECIALLY willogenic, just feels mocking towards people who have DID and OSDD who have to suffer with the disorder every day.

I study psychology and have been for 10 years. Back when I first joined system spaces, endogenic systems often claimed to be endogenic DID systems. In psychology, you are taught to not be possible. DID and OSDD are dissociative disorders which are trauma based and require PTSD or C-PTSD to be diagnosed.

During my short time in system spaces (which I left because they were VERY toxic), endogenics gave me zero reasons to be on their sides. They constantly invaded spaces that explicitly asked them to leave and threw fits like toddlers when people were upset with them for ignoring the rules.

Traumagenic systems were tired of feeling imitated and mocked by endogenic systems, so they made their own spaces that endos just couldn't respect. They always talked about how being a system is fun rather that it being a day ruining disability like it is for many DID/OSDD systems. It felt endos, especially willogenics, were getting in our face going "haha we have fun being what you're forced to suffer with!" and it was incredibly insulting.

Point is, I want to understand what causes endogenic systems and if you are one yourself, how your system formed. Maybe with some understanding, I can feel less like people with the disability are being mocked by those that don't have it.

(Edit: Apologies if I sound rude, I don't display emotions very well. No, I am not saying endogenics don't exist, I'm just trying to understand)

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u/downtherabbitholecol — 3 months ago

▲ 0 r/maimai

How do I raise my rating??

The only time I get more rating is FCing but even then it's only a single digit raise (typically by 4). It doesn't matter if I improve my scores, they have to be FC's to raise by any.

12+ MAS tends to be too hard, because I get easily overwhelmed by slides, especially slides that have taps along the slide path, like umiyuri MAS has

u/downtherabbitholecol — 3 months ago