u/ear5htoberr6

post - [https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/xiOpKkoivv\](https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/xiOpKkoivv)

first update - [https://www.reddit.com/r/Redditor\\\_Updates/s/LbEHDa57xH\](https://www.reddit.com/r/Redditor\_Updates/s/LbEHDa57xH)

second update: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Redditor\\\_Updates/s/lJfFGiFHOG\](https://www.reddit.com/r/Redditor\_Updates/s/lJfFGiFHOG)

third update: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Redditor\\\_Updates/s/EUvnrjslab\](https://www.reddit.com/r/Redditor\_Updates/s/EUvnrjslab)

hi! i attempted to post this update a few days ago but it got taken down, so im just gonna rewrite it so it doesn’t this time hopefully

im okay! my gums are still open but im finally able to use a straw and eat normally, i just have to be gentle on myself just incase. im supposed to be getting fillings done on my bottom teeth here soon.

im sure im gonna be the one taking myself to that since my mom is planning on getting me my road test done soon.

my mom has come home, she came back on monday night, so she’s been home for about a week. nothing from her tho, not that ive talked to her or asked for anything. ive honestly just been ignoring her, dont think she notices and even if she does, she just doesn’t care lmao

she is leaving again tomorrow on saturday aswell…so im probably gonna be the one to take my sister to and from work…and run her errands for her just like i did last week.

good news is that im finally able to do my schoolwork again, thankfully my teachers are awesome and super nice. it also helps that im online. but since my gums aren’t causing me constant pain or anything im actually able to focus once again.

im doing alot better now. never been so happy to use a straw again haha. later on im not gonna have to rinse my gums out with water once the holes close up completely, which im so happy about. that is such an uncomfortable feeling to shot water into your gums🫩

im doing better! still upset with my mom and her boyfriend for all the bullcrap they put me through during my recovery.

seems like every time i need help with something her boyfriend also mysteriously needs help or to fight with her🤔…

they definitely caused me ALOT of mental issues which probably didn’t help with my recovery at all.

im supposed to be getting braces done soon and im sure im gonna be on my own for that to.

unfortunately i’ve dealt with my mom being male centered like this my whole life, so none of this is new to me. i already know she wont change, so all of your suggestions of me putting it in public to force her to help wouldn’t really do anything.

i appreciate all of your concern for me tho, im happy that you all took time to read these and comment. being able to get this off of my chest has been such a huge relief.

either way im better now. im no longer having to baby myself much anymore. so this is probably my last post. if i happen to post again its going to be on a different topic that isn’t my teeth anymore! 🩷

first post - https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/xiOpKkoivv

first update - https://www.reddit.com/r/Redditor_Updates/s/LbEHDa57xH

second update: https://www.reddit.com/r/Redditor\_Updates/s/lJfFGiFHOG

hi! its me again, the wisdom teeth girl again lmao. i just wanted to update that i got my sitiches out the same day im posting this. god did it hurt to get them out😭 my bottom left side had so many stitches in it, so they spent like 10 minutes pulling and tugging on the string to loosen them enough to cut properly

my healing is going okay, im still now allowed to drink through a straw at all, so my healing like i assumed is taking long than a normal person. since my last update my dizziness has only gotten a bit worse, im still having trouble standing for long periods. i think its due to the fact i haven’t been eating the right vitamins and nutrienall foods because i couldn’t chew anything.

im still in pain from my teeth, its not as bad as it was last time i posted tho. im still having trouble with my healing to, on my bottom right the stitches were so tight and put on so close to the other gum that my tooth next to it had its gums literally being pulled off of the tooth, and it hurts and it keeps bleeding when i chew to much.

so yes i am having alot of complications with my healing at the moment.

now, my mom has decided to leave again, she only just got home this monday and left today. she wont be back till next monday so nearly a week she will be gone. since she’s been gone ive been the one having to clean up after everyone, feed and take care of her pets to. which is exactly what ill be doing again till Monday

all that while barely baing able to stand for longer than 6 minutes. so naturally i slacked off a bit. and i guess that set her boyfriend off.

because when i went i to their room to speak with my mom he started getting mad at me and making snide comments about my pain and dismissing it again. this is the same man who when he got his teeth pulled had my mom cater to him for weeks, along with he constantly uses the excuse of his legs hurting not to do anything, but when im unable to stand because i cant eat im terrible apparently.

when i said something about how the stitches were still hurting me he genuinely said “oh boo hoo” with a laugh, my mom said nothing during that but laughed with him. uh huh…so only you can feel bad and get comfort but not the minor…? that makes so much sense

but he kept going on and on about how im lazy and dont do anything and shouldn’t need to be told to do it. which i do my chores when im not dealing with having my teeth pulled for the first thing time.

so my surgery and recovery were not a fun experience, i wouldnt wish this kinda care and healing on anyone.

i didn’t have dry socket thankfully, my only spot that wasnt stitched was said to be healing amazingly thankfully, that’s the top left, my top right is doing hood to. apparently my bottoms aren’t healing properly or fast, because they are still very wide open now so im still unable to sip or use a straw.

other than the bottoms everything is doing okay. ive got my next appointment for fillings set after for after 3 weeks from now. so im okay! very alive but still struggling to do anything that isn’t laying down or sitting.

and like ive said on my previous posts thank you all so much for listening to me and giving me advice. i genuinely took ALOT of your ideas and used them, so you were all so incredibly helpful and kind. i appreciate it!! and thank you for reading my small rant aswell, it means the world to me to get my story out and have the recognition that i really needed🩷

this might possibly be the last update on this topic, im not sure tho. perhaps in 3 weeks from now ill update again once im fully healed.

im getting mine out today, and i was wondering if anyone possibly had any advice or tips to share for the recovery process. i would greatly appreciate any!!

Im supposed to be getting my wisdom teeth out in just 3 days, im scared horrified even. ive never had any sort of surgery let alone had to go under anesthesia. my mom is a incredibly self centered along with male centered woman.

her boyfriend is out on a business trip in a different state, and she’s planning on leaving 2 days after my surgery. im so upset about this, i want my mom to take care of me. she’s sending my aunt over to care for me during the 4 days she’s gone

ive spoken to her about and all i get is “why cant i be happy” or “wisdom teeth aren’t that serious”. something important to note is that i have a blood disorder that causes my blood to not clot quickly or well, so bleeding is gonna be a huge issue after i get my teeth out.

i also have another genetic condition called Angioedema type 3, to put it simply my body will attack itself thinking im having an allergy attack and will cause me to swell up, which can show similarly to anaphylactic shock. this can be caused by food, coughing, or even simply me just being upset.

with that in note, my recovery is gonna be very slow and hard on me. which is making me so so nervous that ive been freaking out and having panic attacks recently.

my mother has had the tendency to do this alot, like abandoning me to go with her boyfriend i mean. so this isn’t surprising but i just wanted to now if maybe im being selfish over this. i also just needed to rant, thank you for reading i appreciate you alot🩷

the reason im going under instead of being awake is due to the fact that i have some pretty bad trauma from a dentist, i had a very unfortunate experience when i was 7 of being strapped down and having the person put the metal caps on my teeth without any pain relief (which is a painful experience to go through)

im also aware of the fact that its a simple surgery, but my moms side is known to have really deep and hard wisdom teeth to remove. along with knowing how much my older sister struggled with her healing process to aswell, due to her sharing the same 2 disorders to. her face had been left bruised and incredibly swollen for over two months, and she bleed for around 2 or 3 days after aswell due to the hard ability to clot properly for us

also some people werw asking my age, tho im not comfortable to share the exact age but i am a minor

Im supposed to be getting my wisdom teeth out in just 3 days, im scared horrified even. ive never had any sort of surgery let alone had to go under anesthesia. my mom is a incredibly self centered along with male centered woman.

her boyfriend is out on a business trip in a different state, and she’s planning on leaving 2 days after my surgery. im so upset about this, i want my mom to take care of me. she’s sending my aunt over to care for me during the 4 days she’s gone

ive spoken to her about and all i get is “why cant i be happy” or “wisdom teeth aren’t that serious”. something important to note is that i have a blood disorder that causes my blood to not clot quickly or well, so bleeding is gonna be a huge issue after i get my teeth out.

i also have another genetic condition called Angioedema type 3, to put it simply my body will attack itself thinking im having an allergy attack and will cause me to swell up, which can show similarly to anaphylactic shock. this can be caused by food, coughing, or even simply me just being upset.

with that in note, my recovery is gonna be very slow and hard on me. which is making me so so nervous that ive been freaking out and having panic attacks recently.

my mother has had the tendency to do this alot, like abandoning me to go with her boyfriend i mean. so this isn’t surprising but i just wanted to now if maybe im being selfish over this. i also just needed to rant, thank you for reading i appreciate you alot🩷

the reason im going under instead of being awake is due to the fact that i have some pretty bad trauma from a dentist, i had a very unfortunate experience when i was 7 of being strapped down and having the person put the metal caps on my teeth without any pain relief (which is a painful experience to go through)

im also aware of the fact that its a simple surgery, but my moms side is known to have really deep and hard wisdom teeth to remove. along with knowing how much my older sister struggled with her healing process to aswell, due to her sharing the same 2 disorders to. her face had been left bruised and incredibly swollen for over two months, and she bleed for around 2 or 3 days after aswell due to the hard ability to clot properly for us

also some people werw asking my age, tho im not comfortable to share the exact age but i am a minor

ive gotten two kittens that are definitely under 5 weeks but over 3 weeks old, some advice on how to care for them would be helpful like how often you feed them or food advice would be appreciated!