u/eunoia_s

Hi
This is probably a bottle thrown into the ocean, but I’m hoping it somehow reaches you.
This morning, sometime between 12 and 1 p.m., you were with your friend, wearing a silver necklace with that oversized charm. You decided it was a good idea to annoy me in the middle of the ocean, and then had the audacity to tell me, “Aji wenssini.”
The truth is, I didn’t answer you because you genuinely came across as the kind of person who would only escalate things. Instead of wasting my energy, I kept quiet.
So here’s what I wanted to say: allah yn3l tbon mok a weld l9ehba.🖕🏻
Consider this the delayed response you deserved.

How would you rate yourself? Feel free to send me a pic in the DMs too. I'm curious if it matches your rating.

I think we should ask for a note from a therapist saying, "This person is emotionally healthy enough to date." plus a full background check: criminal record, restraining orders, relationship history, whether they’re actually single, history of cheating, financial responsibility, and references from at least one ex and two friends

For guys with one testicle: How has it affected your dating life, if at all? Do partners usually notice or care? Just curious to hear real experiences.

What are the red flags you ignored in your previous relationships ? And why?

Hello! ✨
Drop your zodiac sign in the comments and tell us one trait that describes you best!

For people who have been in a relationship for more than a year (especially several years) without getting married:

1. How would you describe your relationship today in a few words?

2. What does commitment mean to you, and do you feel married in practice even without the legal status?

3. How has your relationship changed between the first year and now?

4. What are the biggest advantages of staying together without getting married?

5. What are the biggest challenges?

6. Do friends, family, or society put pressure on you to get married? How do you handle it?

7. Have you and your partner explicitly discussed marriage? If yes, what conclusion did you reach?

8. Do you ever feel uncertainty about the future because you're not married? Why or why not?

9. What makes you stay committed to the relationship every day?

10. How do you handle major conflicts and disagreements?

11. Have you noticed changes in attraction, intimacy, or emotional connection over time?

12. What have you learned about yourself through this relationship?

13. Do you feel secure in the relationship? What contributes most to that feeling?

14. What needs of yours are met in this relationship, and what needs remain unmet?

15. If your relationship ended tomorrow, what would you miss most?

16. Do you think marriage would change your relationship? In what ways?

17. Have there been moments when one partner wanted marriage more than the other? How did you navigate that?

18. What advice would you give someone entering a serious relationship without plans to marry soon?

19. Looking back, would you make the same choice again?

20. What is one question you wish people asked about long-term unmarried relationships?

I just want to address something I’ve noticed in Rabat.

Why do some people address women using masculine adjectives or masculine forms of speech? Every time I hear it, it sounds strange and honestly a bit disrespectful. If you’re talking to a woman, why not use the feminine form?

I’m not criticizing the dialect. I’m genuinely curious about where this habit comes from.

29F | Rabat.

I take care of myself, enjoy my life, and have no interest in complicating it with the wrong person.

Not religious, but very serious about values. Character is sexy. Integrity is sexy. Emotional maturity is sexy. A man who keeps his word, communicates openly, treats people well, loves his family, and has his life together? Extremely sexy.

Looking for something real with someone genuine, loyal, generous, respectful, and emotionally available.

One fabulous little detail : I am strictly looking for an emotional, intellectual, and romantic connection. I'm not interested in casual dating, hookups, or physical intimacy outside of a committed connection.

If you're a gentleman who knows who he is and what he wants, I'd love to hear from you.

Let's be completely REAL ! my time is valuable, and I assume yours is too. I am 29, independent, healthy, and entirely established in my life here in Rabat. I know exactly what I bring to the table, and when it comes to what I want in a partner, it is this, or nothing.
To prevent us both from wasting a single second, let's lay down the non-negotiables. If you don't meet these criteria, please do not message me.

⛔ Do NOT Message Me If:
- You are looking for physical, casual hookups. I am completely uninterested in anything purely physical, short-term, or physical-first. If that is your motivation, skip my profile entirely.

- You play games or send mixed signals. I am far too grown for the "hot and cold" routine. I demand consistency, honesty, and openness from day one.

- You are a poor communicator. If you take days to reply, give dry answers, or can't handle healthy communication and emotional intelligence, do not bother.

- You want something casual or "low-key." I do not do casual. If you are just "seeing where things go," keep moving.

- You lack ambition or stability. If you are complacent, passive, or financially unstable, we won’t align.

- You follow or entertain random girls online. I want a man who knows how to focus his attention.

- You are traditional or religious. My lifestyle is modern, secular, and independent.

✅Message Me Only If:
- You seek genuine emotional connection first. You want to get to know me as a person, value meaningful conversation, and want to build a real foundation before anything else.

- You are a true provider and leader. You are an ambitious, financially stable man who is secure enough to lead, but smart enough to treat a woman with absolute respect as his equal.

- You are a romantic who shows up. You are intentional, a good planner, and you know how to show affection—both privately and publicly. You surprise the woman you're with with sweet gestures and words of affirmation.

- You are a high-quality man inside and out. You are handsome, strong, and take care of your health. You have a great relationship with yourself and your family, and you know how to be a safe, comforting space for your woman without judgment.

- You love life, food, and fun. You are both book-smart and street-smart. You can match my energy, inspire me, make me laugh all the time, and you're down to share a great meal, be silly, or go out and party with me (without being a club rat).

The bar is high, but for the right man, it's worth it. If you're confident you fit the bill and are ready to step up for a real connection, my DM is open.