u/five_dollars09

I had a friend argue with me that, since I live on the outskirts of the city while she lives in central Lucknow, I should travel to hers for a hangout. She lives in Golf City, and I live in Indira Nagar. She believes that I live outside the city and should move closer to the “main” city. What should I tell her guys? I was born in Lucknow and she moved here when she was 11

I'm relatively young and so are all my friends to have children. Had a convo with them a few days back, and we were discussing the future, kids, careers, marriages, blah blah blah. I told them I absolutely dislike kids and they are very weird to me. Got told that I'm very weird and unreasonable for not liking them.

"They are little humans and so cute"

I DO NOT CARE

I have noticed a trend of someone making a post asking for advice, and then people start discouraging that person, saying things like, "If you can't do it in India, then choose another program." The US, Australia, and the UK are very expensive for the top universities unless you get a scholarship. What if someone genuinely wishes to do MBBS from another country and at a cheaper rate, why the discouragement? The age thing is an important factor but people talk about it as if you’ll never turn 30 or 29 in your life. If someone is going into MBBS, they are already aware of the fact that it will take years of studying to get an MD or specialization. I'm just pointing out an observation, not attacking anyone

For context, I ( 17F) have an autistic twin brother. Growing up he was selectively mute and didn't start speaking until 7. Growing up, whenever we ate out, my brother would always get more of everything if he asked, because he rarely spoke up about his needs. I understood growing up because his needs were genuine. Ever since we became teens, I can safely say that he is almost a normal teen in every way that counts as I share a room with him and spend a lot of time with him. My mom however still chooses his choices a lot of the time. If I say I want to go to place A and if my brother ever says he wishes to go to place B, you bet your ass my mom will take us to place B. Now yesterday night my brother and I decided to eat takeout. He ordered McDonald's, and I ordered Dominos. My mom also decided to place a separate order for dominoes. When my brother’s order arrived, she didn't even take a bite and told him to go upstairs and not share with anyone. When hers came, I only took a bite before going back to my room. When my mom came, my mom gave two slices to my older brother and took one for herself. I only had 3 slices left and I decided to save two for later. This morning I heated the remaining of my pizza and decided to have it for breakfast. She tells me to give one of my slices to my twin. I firmly tell her no and that I want to have the rest of my food in peace. Mind you, the pizza she ordered: she had two slices and gave the rest to my twin. Now my mom starts yelling at me about how I'm being selfish and that we are siblings and that we should share and how I'm in the wrong and how eating in front of him must have hurt his feelings. She is very mad at me and even called my older brother to have him tell me that I'm wrong. I don't know what to do. Am I the asshole?