Just finished season 4 :(

Really sad about the show ending :( what i loved the most about this show was Hardy pointed out human emotions so nicely that it kinda made me want to self reflect and be more kind or a better person.

Heartbroken rn, it's a really good show i wish they continued it

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u/flower_in_void — 3 days ago

How do i make team open up to me

Hello,

Will switch and the new boss wants me to be the eyes and ears for her.

Not in a spy way but get along and keep an eye way. I have came across alot of job posts now and alot of interviews i gave listed this requirement.

How do i make team/people open up to me very initially?

Bcs i tend to take my corner and focus on work and i don't think this type of working style will sustain for very long, i have to socialize.

I'm thinking about bringing some snacks for everyone, welcoming everyone and giving them a chance or excuse to talk.

What would be your suggestions?

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u/flower_in_void — 12 days ago

3L liquid sitting in bank-seeking investment suggestions

Hello All,

Firstly, thank you in advance for your advice.

To begin with I don't have a portfolio as such in stocks etc.

I'm 28 and earn around 13lpa. I am able to save 50k net every month out of 91k after paying for everything (i give my share of monthly expenses to mom to run the household).

The goal is to buy home in 1-2 years, a simple 2 bhk 30-40 or at max 60 lakh flat/apartment/place.

I have paid off all family debts. I have no credit card liability or running EMIs.

Now this 3L is my bonus and savings from last few months after paying off everything. I was thinking about investing it till i accummulate downpayment or create backup emergency funds.

I have an fd of 1.5 lakh as emergency fund-ill increase it to a minimum of 6month expense cover. Insurance is in place for me and mom.

Seeking suggestions where i can invest the liquid i have in bank to get decent interest while i work on emergency fund and downpayment.

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u/flower_in_void — 2 months ago

What is the ea job market nos like in middle East - esp UAE?

Have been trying hard since 2 years to land a job in Dubai but luck hasn't been on my side. Rest of the contribution was made by stupid war which even tanked the open positions.

If anyone has any leads or idea about how can i make my CV better I'd be really grateful.

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u/flower_in_void — 2 months ago

Is kundli still a major deciding factor for marriage?

I (28f) met his guy(27m baniya) from dating app. It wasn't a smooth out of movie type of story but we enjoyed each other's company alot.

He decided to get the kundli checked then tell respective families. His family astrologer listed out his reasons to say no for match- is what all i know by texts. And it's a deal breaker for him, obviously I won't expect him to fight him family over this belief.

I got this news in middle of working day over a text, before a very important interview at the end of day. I broke down at my desk over the thought that someone else got to decide for us.

It's just sad, I'm very close to giving up on this altogether ig.

He's at his home "processing" this emotionally has decided to not meet and keep distance and my colleagues saw me cry i feel so stupid and out of options to navigate this.

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u/flower_in_void — 2 months ago

Pata hai aaj kya hua mai nikli mast titli ban k office ke liye subh subh 7:30 am metro li.

Fir adhe raste kaam ke bare me sochri thi toh flashback aya laptop toh sath me ayi thi ghar pichle hafte toh office me toh nai pda hoga kyuki mai usually office me chor deti hu office but last week le ayi thi.

Toh yaad aya ohoo laptop toh almira me hi band pda hai 😭😭😭

Fir kya bhai ko phone kara k yaar le aa laptop toh delivery hui

Aj toh meme sach ho jata jo itne insta pe dekhte h ki dusra employee id card bhoola but mai toh laptop hi ghar chor ayi 😭😭

Vapis bhi leave ke bad jari hu boss bolega beta tere leave ke nashe ni utre laptop hi chor ayi h

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u/flower_in_void — 3 months ago