u/fohtvuub

So I have been having sex with this guy for about 3 years. We had unprotected sex one time in 2023 (I have already gotten tested since then and everything is negative) and after that we have been using condoms. I just got tested a couple days ago and I have my results. I have asked him if he gets tested and every time I ask him if the been tested he said oh it was 2-3 months ago. Yet this is the same person who said he used to have unprotected sex with random girls at clubs in his early 20s (we’re in our late 20s now.) And every time I ask him to show his results he gives an excuse saying he does not want to sign up for MyChart and that he does not have his after visit summary. He does not want to go to planned parenthood and get same-day testing either. He is completely avoiding it. He did tell me he doesn’t want to give out his personal information. I don’t feel okay having sex with him anymore.

So I have been having sex with this guy for about 3 years. We had unprotected sex one time in 2023 (I have already gotten tested since then and everything is negative) and after that we have been using condoms. I just got tested a couple days ago and I have my results. I have asked him if he gets tested and every time I ask him if the been tested he said oh it was 2-3 months ago. Yet this is the same person who said he used to have unprotected sex with random girls at clubs in his early 20s (we’re in our late 20s now.) And every time I ask him to show his results he gives an excuse saying he does not want to sign up for MyChart and that he does not have his after visit summary. He does not want to go to planned parenthood and get same-day testing either. He is completely avoiding it. He did tell me he doesn’t want to give out his personal information. I don’t feel okay having sex with him anymore.

I got diagnosed with level 2 autism I’m so confused and embarrassed as I was sure I’m Level 1 like what the actual fuck.

My (f28) have known my friend (m30) friend for 3 years, we actually met on a dating app but decided we weren’t compatible romantically so we stayed friends. We talk almost everyday and keep in touch still. Recently he keeps bringing up sex when we’re messaging and hinting at wanting to do it, like saying we should plan to do it while we hang out or something . Admittedly, I thought about it in the past but I don’t want to have sex casually. I find him attractive but I also feel like doing it would make the friendship weird . I have already told him I don’t want to do it but he keeps bringing it up casually like he is joking about it but I feel like he’s not really. I don’t want to hurt his feelings or his ego but I just don’t want to . I don’t like that there seems to be some kind of expectation.