u/funsun999

my gf have a guy best friend, he is a nice guy and over the the years he didn't try to initiate anything with her, the thing is i recently knew that she know about a surgery he did ,and its in his d### and the talked about it a bit
again he isn't a bad guy but the idea of her knowing about something like that about another dude who is still in her life is eating me up, am i the asshole to feel like that ?

hi guys

i have an issue , and i need your advice my wife (of 2.5 years) made a confession, she was married before me, this wasn't the issue, the issue was that her ex-husband assaulted her , physically emotionally and sexually , she lives in hell , and it traumatizedher, my problem although its been 9 years for her its 6 days for me , the idea of her being treated like this from some !@$%& is eating me alive , can't not to think about it and don't know how to deal with it , i don't wanna lose her , and i don't want my emotions to change its just the idea of someone so close to me went through all this

please anything , and thinking that it all was in the past isn't helping as overthinker i cant control it

My wife and i are the definition of great couple ,we didn't have a single fight , we communicate alot We even share what fear hate or bothered from each other

So of we share what we went through and struggled before , so that what leads us that i dont mind share anything with her

But this time is different , its about her i cant turn the thing about me , besides i fear that if she knows what im going through she will stop sharing with me whenever she needs it

I need to keep the image of the supporting husband , who can handle everything and be there for her always and no matter what

Its important for me

hi guys

i have an issue , and i need your advice my wife (of 2.5 years) made a confession, she was married before me, this wasn't the issue, the issue was that her ex-husband assaulted her , physically emotionally and sexually , she lives in hell , and it traumatizedher, my problem although its been 9 years for her its 6 days for me , the idea of her being treated like this from some !@$%& is eating me alive , can't not to think about it and don't know how to deal with it , i don't wanna lose her , and i don't want my emotions to change its just the idea of someone so close to me went through all this

please anything , and thinking that it all was in the past isn't helping as overthinker i cant control it

My wife and i are the definition of great couple ,we didn't have a single fight , we communicate alot We even share what fear hate or bothered from each other

So of we share what we went through and struggled before , so that what leads us that i dont mind share anything with her

But this time is different , its about her i cant turn the thing about me , besides i fear that if she knows what im going through she will stop sharing with me whenever she needs it

I need to keep the image of the supporting husband , who can handle everything and be there for her always and no matter what

Its important for me