There should be a deconstruction machine powered by recycle pokemon for all those times you craft an ungodly amount of a block/item only to realize you either hate it or made the wrong item so you can get your resources back.
Nobody asked for an update from my original post, but I'm super proud on how this is turning out, so.. here's an update 😅 Pine trees were added, more foliage, and I moved some guys in!
My (30f) child has been asking to go play with "friends" but I don't know how to tell them they don't actually have any "friends".. and thats because / dont have any friends.
I've tried to be friendly to create connections in mommy and me playdates held by the community/school district but I'm constantly brushed off and/or ignored. Now, my inability to make friends is directly affecting my child[ren](2.5y, 1y). I'm sad that they're sad that they have no friends.
Growing up, I was undiagnosed ADHD and making "true" friends was impossible for me. I was always the "third friend", always walking on the grass and usually the butt of everyone's jokes. Thankfully, I was deemed somewhat attractive so people would gravitate towards me because at least I wasnt weird and ugly. (Sounds harsh, but we all remember how school was). However, because of this, none of my "friendships" stuck outside of school, and adulthood has been incredibly lonely. have severe social anxiety as well, so I'm sure I come off as unapproachable but in reality, I'm just trying not to tear my skin off and run out the door.
Another issue I face is that I see that my child also has some quirks of adhd, and when they're around other children, I can see that they make the others uncomfortable. My child can be very touchy (likes to hold hands, not in a bad way, just friendly), does lack boundaries (very in your face, once again, not in a bad way, just a "hey how's it going" way). We are working on all these behaviors, not that they're wrong, just time and place issues.
I see myself in them, and because of that, I fear for the heartbreak that will come in the years that come.
My (30f) child has been asking to go play with "friends" but I don't know how to tell them they don't actually have any "friends".. and thats because I dont have any friends.
I've tried to be friendly to create connections in mommy and me playdates held by the community/school district but I'm constantly brushed off and/or ignored. Now, my inability to make friends is directly affecting my child[ren](2.5y, 1y). I'm sad that they're sad that they have no friends.
Growing up, I was undiagnosed ADHD and making "true" friends was impossible for me. I was always the "third friend", always walking on the grass and usually the butt of everyone's jokes. Thankfully, I was deemed somewhat attractive so people would gravitate towards me because at least I wasnt weird and ugly. (Sounds harsh, but we all remember how school was). However, because of this, none of my "friendships" stuck outside of school, and adulthood has been incredibly lonely. I have severe social anxiety as well, so I'm sure I come off as unapproachable but in reality, I'm just trying not to tear my skin off and run out the door 🫠.
Another issue I face is that I see that my child also has some quirks of adhd, and when they're around other children, I can see that they make the others uncomfortable. My child can be very touchy (likes to hold hands, not in a bad way, just friendly), does lack boundaries (very in your face, once again, not in a bad way, just a "hey how's it going" way). We are working on all these behaviors, not that they're wrong, just time and place issues.
I see myself in them, and because of that, I fear for the heartbreak that will come in the years that come.
Here is my current WIP in WWastelands. For the most part, I'm incredibly proud as I dont have a creative bone in my body.. but something is missing? I plan on adding some pine trees throughout, but other than that, I'm at a loss? How can I make the cliffs more appealing? Am I doing /too/ much with the grass and flowers? I feel like I should've added even more different height terrains. How can I make my pathway stand out more?
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For me, I really hope for a "remove all/most/more" option because >!Graveler!< is a pain to control and only being able to remove one block at a time with >!magnemite!< is tedious. I want to love the building, I do, but the removal system makes me just.. not want to.
Also, obviously connected storage. Biome hopping just gets frustrating after a while 😅
A dream island that is just rocks. Nothing else. Just a giant gravel pit. I always seem to run out of rocks and ugh. Seashells. Maybe there can be an abundance of seashells on this island too lol.
Whats yours?
Before I say anything, yes I am going to take her to the doctor as soon as i can, I'm just not in a mad hurry to do so as she's not showing any signs of pain or discomfort of any sort. Its 10pm on the weekend. Of course, if that changes, straight to the doctor we go.
When I was changing my daughters (10mo) diaper before bed, I was giving her a good wipe down because she soiled herself. Nothing harsh, just a normal extra wipe or 3. I had noticed earlier in the day that she was looking a little red at her opening, so I decided to take a quick peek to see if there was any change. As I did so, I noticed a faint amount of blood coming from her labia minora where it connects to the majora (like the fold). After a quick panic search on Google, I came across Labial Adhesion. To me, it sounds like thats whats going on and I must've irritated it. (I'm not convinced its an infection of any kind because she hasnt shown any signs of it being bothersome. Shes her normal baby self, no pulling/tugging on diaper, no extra tears, no extra wiggling at change time) Google says its quite common in babies.. but I've never heard of it until now.
Has anyone dealt with this? Google said estrogen cream will help it out, but leaving it alone is perfectly fine too (as long as it doesnt cause complications).