u/ghoulsfools

Hello. I'm almost 28. Everyone my age is getting married, partying, having girlfriends, doing adventures, moving ahead in their careers and then there's me just stuck for the last 7 years, not being able to move in life.

I couldn't finish my degree because I got too comfortable in the family business and stopped pushing myself. At that time it felt easier, but now it feels like I traded away my confidence and self respect slowly without realizing it.

My father mocks or taunts me almost everyday and even if he means well sometimes, it destroys whatever little confidence I have left. I live in a place where the average age of people feels like 50, so all I hear everyday is people talking about diabetes, heart problems, loneliness, children abandoning parents, and how life goes downhill with age. And because I barely talk, people just dump all their frustrations and fears onto me.

The worst part is I don't even feel like I belong anywhere anymore. Online I see people my age actually living life and I feel like I'm watching adulthood happen from outside. Relationships, jobs, trips, memories, confidence, social circles, all of it feels like something meant for other people.

Sometimes I feel like even if I somehow get out of this slump, it'll already be too late to experience life properly. Like I missed some important phase everyone else naturally went through while I stayed stuck.

And honestly, it's weird because I didn't even crave relationships most of these years. But now when I see people being emotionally close, living freely, building memories together, it breaks something inside me because I can't imagine myself fitting naturally into that world anymore.

I know all of this is my own fault . That's what makes it harder. I can't even blame anyone because I know I avoided life for years and now I don't know how to enter it again without feeling ashamed all the time.

I would genuinely love to get out of this house one day, get a decent enough job, maybe even build a normal life slowly. But right now I feel so mentally and emotionally behind everyone else that even basic things feel overwhelming.

I don't even know what I'm expecting from posting this. I think I just needed to say it somewhere.

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Hello. I'm almost 28. Everyone my age is getting married, partying, having girlfriends, doing adventures, moving ahead in their careers and then there's me just stuck for the last 7 years, not being able to move in life.

I couldn't finish my degree because I got too comfortable in the family business and stopped pushing myself. At that time it felt easier, but now it feels like I traded away my confidence and self respect slowly without realizing it.

My father mocks or taunts me almost everyday and even if he means well sometimes, it destroys whatever little confidence I have left. I live in a place where the average age of people feels like 50, so all I hear everyday is people talking about diabetes, heart problems, loneliness, children abandoning parents, and how life goes downhill with age. And because I barely talk, people just dump all their frustrations and fears onto me.

The worst part is I don't even feel like I belong anywhere anymore. Online I see people my age actually living life and I feel like I'm watching adulthood happen from outside. Relationships, jobs, trips, memories, confidence, social circles, all of it feels like something meant for other people.

Sometimes I feel like even if I somehow get out of this slump, it'll already be too late to experience life properly. Like I missed some important phase everyone else naturally went through while I stayed stuck.

And honestly, it's weird because I didn't even crave relationships most of these years. But now when I see people being emotionally close, living freely, building memories together, it breaks something inside me because I can't imagine myself fitting naturally into that world anymore.

I know all of this is my own fault . That's what makes it harder. I can't even blame anyone because I know I avoided life for years and now I don't know how to enter it again without feeling ashamed all the time.

I would genuinely love to get out of this house one day, get a decent enough job, maybe even build a normal life slowly. But right now I feel so mentally and emotionally behind everyone else that even basic things feel overwhelming.

I don't even know what I'm expecting from posting this. I think I just needed to say it somewhere.

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Hello. I'm almost 28. Everyone my age is getting married, partying, having girlfriends, doing adventures, moving ahead in their careers and then there's me just stuck for the last 7 years, not being able to move in life.

I couldn't finish my degree because I got too comfortable in the family business and stopped pushing myself. At that time it felt easier, but now it feels like I traded away my confidence and self respect slowly without realizing it.

My father mocks or taunts me almost everyday and even if he means well sometimes, it destroys whatever little confidence I have left. I live in a place where the average age of people feels like 50, so all I hear everyday is people talking about diabetes, heart problems, loneliness, children abandoning parents, and how life goes downhill with age. And because I barely talk, people just dump all their frustrations and fears onto me.

The worst part is I don't even feel like I belong anywhere anymore. Online I see people my age actually living life and I feel like I'm watching adulthood happen from outside. Relationships, jobs, trips, memories, confidence, social circles, all of it feels like something meant for other people.

Sometimes I feel like even if I somehow get out of this slump, it'll already be too late to experience life properly. Like I missed some important phase everyone else naturally went through while I stayed stuck.

And honestly, it's weird because I didn't even crave relationships most of these years. But now when I see people being emotionally close, living freely, building memories together, it breaks something inside me because I can't imagine myself fitting naturally into that world anymore.

I know all of this is my own fault . That's what makes it harder. I can't even blame anyone because I know I avoided life for years and now I don't know how to enter it again without feeling ashamed all the time.

I would genuinely love to get out of this house one day, get a decent enough job, maybe even build a normal life slowly. But right now I feel so mentally and emotionally behind everyone else that even basic things feel overwhelming.

I don't even know what I'm expecting from posting this. I think I just needed to say it somewhere.

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