u/glitterbongwater

Hey all,

I started Skyrizi about 2.5 weeks ago and in that time I have fallen sick with a head cold (~4 days) for the first time in over 2 years and now I have an ear infection following my sickness which hasn’t happened since I was a child. Kinda freaking out that this might be my new normal, I’m just wondering if this is because my immune system is weakened from the injection and if it’s possible at all that my immune system will get stronger as I continue with treatment?

Hellooooo ladies! I am having a shoe crisis. I usually dress a bit more on the polished side, nice tops and pants or dresses. My issue is that I just can’t do heels on the sidewalks here and sneakers with dresses just don’t do it for me. What shoes are you wearing with your nicer outfits that are also conducive to walking around the city? I’m trying to strut not stumble!!!

Hi all, today I will be taking my first dose of Skyrizi to manage my guttate psoriasis flare. This is my first time trying anything other than topicals and I really want to be hopeful that this will clear my outbreak and maintain clear skin long term! Please share your success stories so I can sleep well tonight knowing that I’m making the right decision.

Helloooo friends looking for some advice as I navigate some relationship confusion. I have been dating my partner for about 9 months, and he has another partner of about 3 years. I would say he’s best described as solo poly… does not live with anyone but he does view his partner of 3 years as his “primary” in that their relationship tends to take precedence (for lack of a better word). My partner travels a lot for work. Some other pertinent back story is that we have been in a slightly tense point in our relationship as I want more time with him than he’s able to give, as he’s in a travel heavy season of work and also dealing with burnout.

The situation is that about 3 weeks ago he traveled for work, and at the same time I was on another trip out of town with my friends. When we were both back in town we went on a date and gave each other the run downs of our trips. He mentioned doing some touristy things in the area he was traveling in with his coworkers, who he is close to.

Then I looked at his partners instagram (I know I know) and saw that she joined him on the trip. My issue isn’t that I feel jealous at all that she joined him and I didn’t! My issue is that I’m just wondering why he would leave that out of telling me about his trip because I’m sure it was a big part of the trip for him. I’m worried that he didn’t mention it to me out of fear that I would react poorly or be jealous, and I’m worried that in that way the omission could be an indicator of a deeper issue between us. The same thing happened last year when she joined him on a different work trip and he didn’t mention it to me. I thought less of it then because we were newer to dating each other.

So I’m at this crossroads where I would in theory like to have this conversation with him, but to do so I would have to admit to him that I’ve been looking at his partners socials. I really don’t feel like I do that out of jealousy, more so I’m just curious. I also think she’s pretty cool in general and sometimes when I’m on his page (love looking at his pics) I just end up there through the things she tags him in. I guess I’m scared that if he’s not telling me because he thinks I would be jealous, him knowing that I look at her socials would confirm to him that I am jealous.

I’m not opposed to just never bringing it up to him, in fact that’s what I’m leaning towards doing, but I don’t know if that’s the healthiest way to go about this, or if it honors my very real worries and feelings about the situation. Would love some insight!!