u/glitterjorts

If anyone is willing to share their ideas I’d be very grateful! I’m desperately looking for non-shit presents and can’t think of anything that isn’t tacky or pointless. We need to get small things for multiple staff and bigger things for more significant people.

Hearing from teachers/childminders who’ve been given something you liked would be especially helpful 🙏

Me and my partner have been together for 15 years and have 2 children who we’ve coslept with for years, and they still come through to our bed most nights if they wake up. My partner therefore mostly sleeps in the spare room because our bed isn’t big enough for everyone.

The thing is though, even now our children are sleeping in their own beds more I kind of want to stay in separate beds 🥴 I keep it nice and clean and tidy and I have more space to myself after sleeping between sweaty toddlers for years. Do you think separate beds is inherently a bad sign for a relationship or is it the way forward (if you have the luxury of a spare bed that is). I used to think it was a bad sign but now I’m approaching my late 30s in a long term relationship my opinion has totally changed.

We still have sex but that doesn’t usually even happen in bed anyway so I don’t feel that separate beds means no sex. I’m just interested to know if anyone feels the same and if you’re content with the idea or if you would think it means your relationship is going down the pan…

Specifically in emergency situations, I thought it would be interesting to hear stories from when you’re not on duty. For example community cardiac arrest, choking, RTAs etc? When I was a student I thought about this kind of thing and thought it was probably rare, but now I know it’s really not rare at all and lots of people have a story.

I realise the ‘just for fun’ flair sounds a bit chipper for what could have been a traumatising situation, but I’m also trying to keep it relatively lighthearted 🙃

I don’t get it. Do you get joy or satisfaction from people being hurt or humiliated in every day life? Even for people on the show I don’t like, I don’t want to see them lose their house or their marriage or be humiliated on social media…when it’s really bad it honestly makes my guts shrivel up.

So I don’t understand why are there so many comments revelling in people suffering or pointing out embarrassing things. I just saw someone pointing out that Amanda said nobody was asked back yet and isn’t that so funny cause she was actually the only one who wasn’t asked and now everyone knows? Nah it’s not funny. It’s not funny that Dorit has lost her house either and her kids potentially have nowhere to live. Reality tv is one thing and absolutely LOVING seeing people suffer is another thing entirely 😵‍💫🤦‍♀️

Omgggg this is the best thing they’ve done for years cause it’s not just a ‘catered dinner’ (Tilly’s painting day was also great).

The men are mostly terrible but the women’s reactions and funeral attire are gold and I’m GIDDY. Erika being so nervous and running away for a drink is so relatable and endearing and I love her 🫶