Hi, Im 19f starting college next month and unsure of what i should bring.
The college im going to is 6 hours away from my hometown (south of ireland to northern ireland)
and the next time ill be going home is probably around christmas time!
Also is there any niche things that most people dont think about that i should bring?
Hi, Im 19f starting college next month and unsure of what i should bring.
The college im going to is 6 hours away from my hometown (south of ireland to northern ireland) and the next time ill be going home is probably around christmas time!
Also is there any niche things that most people dont think about that i should bring?
im turning 19 in a few days (dont come at me i know basically its pretty young) but i look at the groups of friends i see around my town and theyre all such babies 😭😭 (2009-2012)
tbh i still feel 14 bro, of course my personality has changed since then but the other 19 year olds around me are so mature, they've had their glow ups, act and look like adults. and wdym im going into college?? i had a whole panic attack over that last week, time is just going so fast!!
im turning 19 in a few days (dont come at me i know basically its pretty young) but i look at the groups of friends i see around my town and theyre all such babies 😭😭 (2009-2012)
tbh i still feel 14 bro, of course my personality has changed since then but the other 19 year olds around me are so mature, they've had their glow ups, act and look like adults. and wdym im going into college?? i had a whole panic attack over that last week, time is just going so fast!!
i can't do it i can't bring my body to do anything. I've left the Lord and i have no fear of hell I'm really gone this time. I've been doing more sinful things purposefully, i don't even feel bad afterwards, my heart is as hard as stone. it feels like my spirit wants to come out but my flesh traps it in and i feel helpless please pray for me
im honestly just sick of it all, i cut contact with my one true friend
i had this bestfriend we knew eachother since we were both 8 years old (we're both 19 now so we've been friends for 11 years), last year i started liking a guy and i thought she would support me because well, shes my best friend. Even our types are different, she likes lean, fair, long haired men with a golden retriever vibe and i like short haired, funny and extroverted guy. So you can imagine my confusion when she comes up to me and tells me she likes him too???? I didn't want to get angry at her because these feelings you cant control. That year I gave up and let her pursue him because she was more beautiful and more charismatic than me.
This year i lost it, now we are both in 1st year and i liked a guy who also seemed to have interest in me too...but here she goes again. I tell her I think i like that guy and he gives little hints too. That exact evening she shows me that she has also added him on insta and theyre both chatting 🫠🫠
I completely lost it at her, went home and blocked her everywhere. i know it'll be awkward when i see her in class but im just so sick of this
any advice is appreciated
im honestly just sick of it all, i cut contact with my one true friend
i had this bestfriend we knew eachother since we were both 8 years old (we're both 19 now so we've been friends for 11 years), last year i started liking a guy and i thought she would support me because well, shes my best friend. Even our types are different, she likes lean, fair, long haired men with a golden retriever vibe and i like short haired, funny and extroverted guy. So you can imagine my confusion when she comes up to me and tells me she likes him too???? I didn't want to get angry at her because these feelings you cant control. That year I gave up and let her pursue him because she was more beautiful and more charismatic than me.
This year i lost it, now we are both in 1st year and i liked a guy who also seemed to have interest in me too...but here she goes again. I tell her I think i like that guy and he gives little hints too. That exact evening she shows me that she has also added him on insta and theyre both chatting 🫠🫠
I completely lost it at her, went home and blocked her everywhere. i know it'll be awkward when i see her in class but im just so sick of this
im honestly just sick of it all, i cut contact with my one true friend
i had this bestfriend we knew eachother since we were both 8 years old (we're both 19 now so we've been friends for 11 years), last year i started liking a guy and i thought she would support me because well, shes my best friend. Even our types are different, she likes lean, fair, long haired men with a golden retriever vibe and i like short haired, funny and extroverted guy. So you can imagine my confusion when she comes up to me and tells me she likes him too???? I didn't want to get angry at her because these feelings you cant control. That year I gave up and let her pursue him because she was more beautiful and more charismatic than me.
This year i lost it, now we are both in 1st year and i liked a guy who also seemed to have interest in me too...but here she goes again. I tell her I think i like that guy and he gives little hints too. That exact evening she shows me that she has also added him on insta and theyre both chatting 🫠🫠
I completely lost it at her, went home and blocked her everywhere. i know it'll be awkward when i see her in class but im just so sick of this
Ive known these girls for around 4 years now, they're all atheists and I assumed they were chill about christianity and God because of the open conversations we'd have in class.
Recently I went on a trip with them to celebrate the end of our school life and they said some nasty things such as Jesus was a product of Mary's intimacy with her cousin and hence they made up the Bible. I was so shocked. The worst part is I couldn't stand up and speak. Christ died for me but I couldn't defend him, not even with my mouth?
Today I just left the group chat we had with no explanation, honestly I dont even know what to tell them. There have been other instances where I explained to one friend that God is a part of my life and I dont want her to mock it. I feel quite sad and upset but I'm sure it will all be ok soon....Any wisdom or advice is really appreciated.
Ive had a little falling out with a friend very recently, lots of pressure at home and everything is just making me feel dull tbh. I've debated going for a long time tho not just bc of this argument and since we're in the same friend group ik its gonna be awkward.
I don't drink and Im pretty introverted so I dont rlly like dancing either, didn't get a dress of choice but im satisfied with the one i have. Honestly i do appreciate my friends but lately ive been getting a bit upset at them too...
do i even bother going lol
For those who have already started living in your hostel, do you have any stories or tips for the rest of us? What's something you wish you knew before you went 🤔