u/goodtrouble17

trigger warning: this pertains to medical abortion.

long story short I found out I was pregnant a few days ago and unfortunately due to personal circumstances I decided to not follow through with this pregnancy.

I went to the clinic yesterday (my prediction is I'm 5w+1d). The did a urine and blood test as well as an ultrasound. The urine test came back positive however they didn't seen anything on the ultrasound. Obviously I'm concerned.

of course it's most likely just too early to see anything but they couldn't completely rule out ectopic. I have follow up bloodwork in the next dew days (after the abortion process is done) to compare hcg.

I'm just really worried/nervous. I'm never been pregnant or gone through an abortion. I guess I'm just looking for a bit of reassurance? What are some signs of ectopic I should look out for? I don't have any of the symptoms they spoke to me about which is reassuring .

anyway, any advice or insight is appreciated.

Hi. Again.

I posted earlier today that I found out I was pregnant. Long story short, I'm not handling it well. I've obviously made up my mind about going through with an abortion and that's obviously brought on a whole new set of emotions I didn't know existed.

The main thing I'm feeling is a lot of disappointment in myself. I've always been a goody-two-shoes, always doing the right thing, following rules. Yes, I am married so it's not about the "circumstance" of this pregnancy, more so the circumstances of my marriage, financially and emotionally speaking. We're obviously not ready to have a child, and it just sucks that I put myself in a situation where I had to make a really hard decision.

I also feel a lot of... guilt. Like if I had just been more responsible I wouldn't find myself in this situation. I understand it takes two to tango, but I just keep spiralling and blaming myself for everything.

I've vented and cried to my husband and my mom and they've consoled me the best they can. They'll never truly understand it though cause they aren't in my shoes.

idk im just an emotional mess, I wish I had someone here to talk to that's been through this so I can feel less alone

I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm in my early 20's and married but right now is not the right time to bring a child into this world, both emotionally and financially.

I'm freaking the hell out. I understand there are clinics in downtown Toronto but I live out in the suburbs so it's not easily accessible to me. I also don't drive at the moment.

I'm really scared and my husband lives in another province for work ( I visited him last month before people assume I cheated or something) so he can't really help from over there.

I just need guidance please.

Hi all, sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to ask but this is kind of a unique situation so I'm not sure if there's even a correct subreddit for this

Long story short, I've been in the US for the past month visiting my spouse and unfortunately I was attacked by a cat. I've started the rabies vaccine protocol here, however the last vaccine is 14 days after the first one... which means I will already be back in Canada for that.

Anyone know how to go about receiving that last vaccine? I only found bits of information online but a lot of that is only applicable to animals bites WITHIN Canada.

Do I call the public health department? ( I live in Maple if that makes a difference). I literally don't know how to go about this. Any information is appreciated! :)

Maybe this is a dumb question but I don't really use Twitch so idk if I'm doing something wrong but I was watching a stream last night and the streamer I guess saved the whole thing? Anyways I was re-watching the stream today and I wanted to read the chats but every time I skip forward the chat resets from that time stamp onwards.

Is there any way to have the chat save so if I skip forward or back I can read the ENTIRE chat history? or is that like not a thing when watching replays?

Not sure if this is the correct subreddit, but how would I go about requesting a bus shelter to be put in at a. stop? I'm assuming it not only involves YRT/VIVA but also the city itself?

Is there a number I can call or a website I can submit a request? For anyone wondering it's the Bathurst/Rutherford stop going Eastbound (towards Yonge basically). It's a MASSIVE cement slab so I'm sure a shelter would fit and it's a relatively busy intersection as well. 2 of the 4 stops at the intersection have shelters :/

Thanks for any help!