Hello everyone. I am looking to get a mental health assessment done (ocd, anxiety, autism, adhd, depression). Does anyone have any recommendations? Trying to do my own research but there are so many places coming up that it’s hard to sort through them all and find the best option. Any help will be appreciated. Thanks in advance :)
Does anyone know a good spot to take my niece for a weekend canoe trip? Should be easy enough as they are 13 but I want them to have to put some effort into it
Can you guys share your experience with buying a vehicle with rebuilt title from a private dealership. The dealership will safety it before selling. A lot of mixed reviews online. What to look for if considering to go ahead with that.
Title basically bears it all but last August I was in Bloomfield, Prince Edward County, and while having ice cream from the famously excellent Slickers, I was randomly and without any provocation stung by a very large, dark, erratic and aggressive bee.
While this was nearly a year ago already now, this came up in conversation today and I realized I never quite figured out why it stung me. Contrary to what a lot of people nervously do, I remained completely still with the hope that it would check me out and merely buzz off, but unfortunately it was actually to my detriment to do so because I effectively gave it an in to attack me.
We were seated right outside the ice cream shop and so it really didn’t feel like we were intruding upon the bee or harassing it with our presence.
That aside, I’ve tried looking up what subspecies it would have been, but I’ve had no luck. I distinctly recall that it was unusually greyish and dark in colour and had virtually no yellow on it at all. Of course it could have been just a psycho and it might not be subspecies related at all, but I am wondering if anybody knows or can relate!
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J'ai fait mon école secondaire en Ontario dans un cours de français enrichi et ensuite j'ai pris un cours de français intensif.
Je n'ai pas de racines Canadiennes françaises mais une partie de ma famille habite au Québec depuis les années 80s et ma figure paternelle est Québécois de souche! Je leur rends visite souvent.
Vous êtes où? Je sais bien qu'il y a des villes telles que Limoges, Ottawa et Prescott, Sudbury et j'en passe mais est-ce qu'il y a d'autres gens qui parlent français ici ?
Je peux vous citer toutes les paroles de Mon beau drapeau par coeur.
Ça me désole que les autres gens veuillent même pas apprendre mais je sais que parfois les professeurs font pas leur travail.
Nous sommes nous serons
Anyone who understands French and wants to contribute is welcome to the discussion!
I watched this series of BobbyBrocolli about Rob Ford (https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAB-wWbHL7VvVT1LbcOIkqkowoZry6Rfd&si=3J8JE0BOHPX7s5\_V) and I'm amazed by the coincidences about him and Bolsonaro.
• Unpopular politicians in parliament but popular to their constituents
• Big mouth bastards that made scandals all around
• Lone wolves, ignored by the conservative establishment
• In moments of unpopularity of the left, used their far right lone wolves fame to create a new right wing movement against the establishment
• After being elected, discovers governing is harder than anyone expected and couldn't grasp why taxation exist and works
• Obssesed with cuts and privatizing that has bad repercussions
• Becomes the right wing establishment
Although they have big differences - besides the crack thing. Bolsonaro created a national movement while the Fords created a city to provincial one, so they have different powers and limits. Brazil also has the "Centrão" - big center -, a corrupt congregation of parties that has majority in parliament that all presidents needs to deal. Most Brazilians vote ideologically in presidental elections but for congressman they vote big center guys that are popular in their neighborhoods or small cities.
But it's such funny coincidence that I needed to share with someone.
I was looking at the Ontario Parks site and it lists the beach closed due to bacterial levels. On the site swimguide.org it also shows the beach closed all of 2026. It shows it open basically all the time in the previous years. Also, every other beach in the area is open right now.
What happened at the park to close the beach?
Looking to purchase a home soon. Prices in Bradford seem more digestible compared to other houses in and around the GTA. In regards to the commute from Bradford to Vaughan driving, how is it? I don’t love driving on side roads with no lights but it doesn’t seem like I would be driving without light posts for longer than 15 minutes?
Also how is the commute / traffic in general throughout the year?
Anything else I should know about living in Bradford?
Thanks,
There is a growing concern in Pickering that what we are seeing is not normal municipal politics.
Things have come a long way from ordinary disagreement. We're not talking in terms of conservative, liberal, progressive, or anything else like that anymore. We can all disagree about taxes, development, spending, policing, planning, traffic, housing, and the future of the city; that's politics. What's happening now is different.
What started as one has become a group of candidates, elected officials, online personalities, and political operators who are trying to bring radical-right grievance politics home to stay in Pickering municipal government. Nothing about it helps residents or solves local problems. Unfortunately, a few would-be politicians see and like to use outrage to build their audiences, attract donations, attention, followers, media appearances, and business opportunities.
This is not “both sides”
There aren't always two equal sides to every issue. Debating the municipal budget is one thing. Promoting fear of immigrants isn't good governance. There is a difference between questioning development decisions and attacking marginalized communities. There is a difference between advocating for lower taxes and turning local politics into a stage for federal Conservative culture-war messaging.
One side is saying that municipal candidates should focus on municipal work: roads, parks, planning, development, property taxes, recreation, by-laws, city services, transparency, and respectful treatment of residents.
The other "side" is hell-bent on dragging Pickering into a political style built around anger, resentment, online pile-ons, anti-immigrant rhetoric, anti-LGBTQ messaging, distrust, conspiracy theories, and imported American-style grievance politics.
Those are not two sides of the same coin. One is public service. The other is a political grift.
The business model of outrage
This kind of politics has a pattern.
First, find an issue that makes people afraid or angry.
Then simplify it until there is a villain.
Then tell people that their community, their children, their taxes, their identity, their neighbourhood, or their country is under attack.
Then present yourself as the only person brave enough to “say what everyone is thinking.”
Then build a following.
Then use the following to gain political power, sell services, raise money, build a brand, or secure influence.
That is the model.
It doesn't need solutions. In fact, solutions are bad for business in this model. If there's no problem, there's no outrage. The point is to keep people angry enough to stay engaged and give you their money or vote.
We should be wary of candidates who spend more time talking about Ottawa, federal taxes, immigration, gender, drag, Pierre Poilievre, Donald Trump, or “globalists” than they do about Pickering’s actual municipal responsibilities.
A Pickering city councillor doesn't control immigration, the Criminal Code, federal taxes, carbon tax or what happens in Ottawa or Washington.
So, when a municipal candidate keeps drifting into those issues, WHY?
Lisa Robinson showed Pickering where this road leads
Pickering has already seen what happens when grievance politics gets into City Hall.
In case you hadn't noticed, it doesn't make government better. It's chaos. It turns council meetings into performances. It damages relationships with staff. It triggers investigations. It costs taxpayers money. It distracts from actual city work. It makes every issue about personal conflict, victimhood, outrage, and political theatre.
That's obviously not leadership.
And now we're seeing Robinson’s style of politics being copied, expanded, and organized around.
If people are working together to normalize the same style of politics, amplify the same messages, defend each other’s conduct, and turn local government into a platform for radical-right grievance, that's something we all need to know before voting day.
John Meloche raises related concern
John Meloche is also a technology businessman of some kind, an AI promoter, a partisan Conservative organizer, and the person behind a large shock-factor Facebook Group marketed to Durham Region.
His own business interview material shows that AI and automation are not just side interests for him. He has promoted AI answering services that can handle calls around the clock, expand from “one person or 20 people,” change policies by prompt, transcribe and analyze calls, extract data, assess whether callers are happy or upset, and trigger follow-up actions.
When someone seeking elected office is also professionally invested in AI-powered communications, call analysis, automation, and data extraction, with close ties to the federal conservatives, voters are entitled to a bit of clarity.
How much of his campaign material is actually his own? Is AI writing his posts, comments, emails, or talking points? Is his campaign using automated outreach? Are residents being analyzed, categorized, scored, or targeted? Are community group interactions being kept separate from political activity? Are business tools being used for campaign purposes?
Meloche runs Eyes on Durham, a large Facebook group that permits anonymous comments. He admits to doxing people in his group after people posted comments about Charlie Kirk that he didn't like. So not only is he a big Kirk fan, but he also has no issue with sharing personal information he promises to keep private.
As the moderator for his group, he could have deleted the comment, warned the person, or suspended the people he doxed, but no, he went out of his way to post about their identities when they had been assured privacy.
Councillors receive private information all the time. Residents email councillors about by-law issues, neighbour disputes, safety concerns, family situations, housing problems, development concerns, complaints about staff, and personal matters.
If someone has already shown poor judgment with private or semi-private information in an online community they run, we should strongly question whether that person should be trusted with elected office.
Shaun Rickard, a fellow rage farmer
Rickard operates in the same political ecosystem as Robinson and Meloche, where outrage, grievance, culture-war messaging, and attacks on “the establishment” are treated as substitutes for a serious municipal platform.
Rickard may not have Robinson’s public record on council, and he may not have Meloche’s penchant for AI-everything, data, privacy, and online platform control, but that doesn’t mean residents should ignore the company he keeps or “the movement” he’s part of.
When candidates align themselves with people who are normalizing anti-immigrant rhetoric, anti-LGBTQ talking points, attacks on diversity, conspiracy-style language, and constant grievance politics, voters are entitled to ask what exactly they are buying into.
Is Rickard running to serve residents, or is he helping expand the same political project?
Is he focused on Pickering’s actual municipal responsibilities, or is he part of an effort to turn City Hall into another stage for radical-right politics?
Would he oppose hateful rhetoric when it comes from his political allies, or would he excuse it, minimize it, or benefit from it?
A serious municipal candidate should be able to clearly separate himself from bigotry, online harassment, imported American-style culture wars, and the politics of fear. If he cannot or will not do that, residents should take notice.
The risk is that Pickering doesn’t just end up with one disruptive councillor using public office as a private platform for grievance-grifting politics. The risk is that a group of aligned candidates and political operators gains influence together, defends and amplifies one another, and makes the city even harder (and more expensive) to govern than it has been in the last four years.
This is a network, a style of irresponsible politics for personal gain, and a shared approach that should be rejected before it becomes more embedded in local government.
The local concern is part of a wider pattern
This isn't only happening in Pickering.
Across Durham and beyond, there is a recognizable ignorant style of politics that blends local office, partisan media, online outrage, and personal branding.
Jamil Jivani is one example close by at the federal level. He's one of the local Conservative MPs who's built a profile around combative messaging, culture-war framing, and alignment with the Poilievre political brand. In light of Jivani's long-time friendship and recent meetings with officials in Donald Trump’s administration, it's no wonder his brand of conservative messaging borrows from, engages with, and mirrors American right-wing politics.
Chris Leahy in Whitby is another nearby example of the same general style in municipal politics. Whitby’s Integrity Commissioner found that Leahy breached the Council Code of Conduct through public actions and interactions with staff, and council imposed a one-month suspension of pay. Durham Radio News also reported on that suspension and noted that the investigation found breaches of his obligations under the Code of Conduct.
Global News reported separately that police were investigating after a Whitby councillor was allegedly intimidated and harassed by a member of a far-right media outlet following a council meeting involving a motion from Councillor Chris Leahy about companies participating in the Temporary Foreign Workers Program.
The point's not that they're all identical, but their patterns are familiar: grievance, confrontation, culture-war themes, attacks on institutions, conflict with staff or colleagues, outside media amplification, and the constant framing of accountability as persecution.
Why the Pickering connections matter
If Robinson, Meloche, Rickard, and others are coordinating, supporting each other, sharing audiences, echoing the same narratives, or trying to build a slate-like movement without honestly presenting it as one, that seems to run counter to the transparency they claim to champion.
Are they working together? Are they sharing strategy? Are they using the same advisors? Are they using the same political networks? Are they helping each other raise money, gain followers, promote content, or attack critics? Are they connected to Conservative Party organizers, partisan media outlets, or political businesses? Are their campaigns truly local, or are they part of a broader radical-right project?
A councillor is supposed to represent residents, not a movement. A councillor is supposed to solve local problems, not build a content machine. A councillor is supposed to listen to the whole community, not only the loudest people in an outrage loop.
Public office should not be used as a platform for hate
People are allowed to have strong views. They are allowed to criticize government. They are allowed to oppose policies. They are allowed to be angry.
But we can't let our public offices get used to normalizing bigotry, target immigrants, mock and attack people in the LGBTQ community, make residents afraid of their neighbours, turn every tragedy into a political opportunity, and we should never again let it be used to farm outrage for attention, money, influence, or brand-building.
Why this should be opposed
Pickering has real problems.
Growth is happening quickly. Infrastructure is under pressure. Residents are worried about taxes. People want better communication from City Hall. Development decisions need scrutiny. Roads, traffic, parks, recreation, housing, and local services all need serious attention.
None of that is helped by importing radical-right grievance politics into City Council.
In fact, it makes the work harder.
When councillors are focused on outrage, staff become targets. Residents become divided. Meetings become performances. Every disagreement becomes a conspiracy. Every accountability process becomes a witch hunt. Every criticism becomes proof of victimhood. Every issue becomes content.
That is how serious government gets hollowed out from the inside.
The choice residents have to make
This election is about what kind of local politics Pickering is willing to accept.
Do we want councillors who understand the job, respect privacy, focus on municipal issues, and treat people with basic decency?
Or do we want candidates who use fear, resentment, culture-war rhetoric, AI-polished messaging, and online pressure tactics to build power?
That is the question.
And no, there are not two equally valid sides to that.
There is public service.
And then there is whatever this is.
Pickering residents should reject the politics of grift, fear, and hate before it gains more ground.
I posted some time ago about my landlord entering the apartment without notice, we confronted him and since then he’s been disturbing with the issue of renovation.
He said I and my husband should move by August 1st so he can start renovation.
We insisted on him getting a form from LTB but he doesn’t want to go legal.
Can we decide to move maybe September or October if he agrees for compensation?.
I am just not ready to start moving all over again, it’s exhausting.
But if he is willing to provide compensation to cover the cost we can just move for peace to reign.
It is legal to ask for cash compensation and how much can we ask.
How can we go about it?
I was planning to write the request and send to him through Canada post.
Please advise me how to go about it.
I have a consult appointment for an OHIP covered surgery coming up and it's virtual. I'm temporarily staying outside the province and I didn't know when the appointment got booked that I'm required to physically be in Ontario for the virtual appointment. I know this is due to OHIP regulations, I am a legal Ontario resident and covered under OHIP.
My question is if anyone knows whether the healthcare provider will actually have any way of knowing that I am out of province. The appointment is with Women's College Hospital in Toronto, and their info page says they use Zoom. It would be possible for me to travel into Ontario just for the appointment but it would be difficult and expensive. Does anyone have experience virtual healthcare appointments in Ontario and how they confirm your location?
update: thanks everyone! I'm a super anxious person and I've been waiting for this appointment for over 2 years, just got stressed that I might accidentally fuck it up but sounds like I'll be ok :)
How do you legally change your name in Ontario when you haven't lived here for a year and *can't* change it in the place you lived in before?
I'm trans. Using my deadname on all of my Ontario IDs is not an option.
