u/humongousFart

or both she AND Joseph because they didn't want to carry the humiliation

I have really tiny tits, and I love them, alright? But when I got with my then boyfriend (ex now) I grew to be more and more insecure about them being small because I'm very different from his type. He likes thick, I'm petite.

When he first got to see them, I said, "they're small, I hope you don't mind", and he was like, "nahh they're big, babe!😁". NO THEY'RE NOT. I'M BARELY AN A-CUP AND THEY'RE UNDENIABLY VERY TINY. This happened so many times, it was as if he was trying to gaslight himself that they were big. Made me feel like shit.

I wanted to hear, "they're so tiny, I LOVE THEM." THAT'S ALL I WANTED. I'm ranting about this because a friend of mine is having the same issue with her boyfriend and he keeps telling her that she's not at all chubby. She's on the chubbier side and wants to hear accepting words like, "I like that you're a little chubby, I think it makes you hot", and instead she gets, "Noo babe you're not chubby at all, you're slim!"..

Learn to compliment better or don't get with people you don't find attractive!

Edit: I never did generalise men here; I said PARTNERS specifically. The thing is, it's only happened with men from my experience, if you're a man and this made you butthurt, learn and do better. Women can learn from this too but objectively we ARE better at complimenting people.

FIRST — my hair has been bleached twice so getting it professionally done or anything of that sort is out of the discussion.

I used black dye (garnier darkest brown) on my hair after the bleach and now it's dark brown with a red undertone, which i despise, and it's been quite a few months after i last dyed it. I want to achieve an olive brown, with NO RED UNDERTONE, so I was wondering if mixing blonde/light brown with a little bit of green would help me get close to what I want.

FIRST — my hair has been bleached twice so getting it professionally done or anything of that sort is out of the discussion.

I used black dye (garnier darkest brown) on my hair after the bleach and now it's dark brown with a red undertone, which i despise, and it's been quite a few months after i last dyed it. I want to achieve an olive brown, with NO RED UNDERTONE, so I was wondering if mixing blonde/light brown with a little bit of green would help me get close to what I want.