u/hxlydie-d

i (M21) have never had anyone in my life i'd consider a fake friend so seeing people vent about it so much has always been a mystery to me. if you don't like someone, or they don't like you how exactly are y'all considered friends?

also, if someone does something disrespectful or inconsiderate shouldn't that be cause to cut them off, confront them or at the very least lower your expectations on what to expect out of your relationship (depending on what they did, or did not do)?

ive been downvoted into oblivion on seemingly mundane topics just for trying to ask questions or gain insight into things that i don't know much about. even mentioning that i don't know about a certain topic gets me downvoted. why? its not as if im straying off the topic of discussion

i got an email saying this thing on 2 email addresses. neither of which is my main so aside from my phone they aren't logged in on any other device.

as far as ive seen any account linked to those emails wasn't affected either although since they're both alternate emails im confused as to why they're getting this email on those ones instead of the main.

i do have a computer but i haven't installed anything new in months, and i haven't even been on the internet much these past few days to have been on any suspicious websites, and there's no way i would've used those email addresses for anything before my main.

does anyone know why this happened? am i safe? i did change my passwords on both

i have a question for other bisexuals. so basically this woman on tiktok said she's bisexual but she cannot see herself marrying another woman. she also claimed that she's not attracted to studs nor is she a fan of strap ons.

now as a bisexual man i kind of relate to that. im attracted to more masculine men and feminine women. to my knowledge, i don't find fem gay men like bretman rock attractive nor do i find any studs attractive. i also think the real thing is better than toys. i've also only been able to connect with women romantically, i can't really explain why this is just the way it is

there are a lot of people, mostly lesbians who will claim that people like me and that influencer lady are not really bisexual or make some other outlandish claim like we don't take women seriously and we're too male centered which i don't see how that applies to me who's the inverse of the influencer. they've also said that people like us should stay away from queer spaces which is kind of hurtful.. so i wanna know, am i really not bisexual? and why so?

to get from where i live to joburg CBD it use to be R21, then the price increased to R24 a few months ago because of petrol price increases

a week or 2 ago i heard it went up again tho so i wanna know if this affected taxi prices and by how much, im too afraid to stop a taxi just to ask since i need to prepare the cash in advance