Lost my soul cat after 5 years and just wanna share what she was like
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Lost my soul cat after 5 years and just wanna share what she was like

Its been about 6 months now since I lost my soul cat and I still miss her dearly.

She was my other half. She was loving, respectful, and kind. We were best friends and we were robbed of a full cat lifetime together. Unfortunately, she got cancer at 5 years old and we had to put her down.

Maybe other cat lovers will understand but I just want to talk about her for a little while I lay in bed.

Ive had a few cats throughout my life and although I loved them greatly, this was different. It’s hard to describe but I felt like she really understood me and I understood her. I would spend every waking moment with her. Either carrying her around to show her things she doesnt usually get to see (she really liked to look at the higher up shelves in the pantry etc bc she was never able to see them) or she was next to me. While I did work, or cleaned, or did anything ever, she sat beside me and watched. Like a stalker who’s eyes followed me around. My family called her weird for this and maybe it was. The best was at night she would sleep either in my arms or on my chest with her head nudged into my neck like she was trying to crawl into my skin. Her favorite and only toys she would play with were those little plastic men that u hang off of drink glasses for whatever strange reason. She hated sweaters but if I talked nicely to her I could get a few pics of her wearing it. I miss her meow whenever I ignored her for a little too long.

I wish I could say more but Im beginning to forget. I really really miss her. Her urn is surrounded by those weird little plastic men that she loved so much for whatever reason. The night of the day we had to put her down I went for a drive and saw a neon green shooting star and I didnt even know that was possible

I just miss my cat and ill never be able to replace her. It was an honor to share those 5 years together but she should be besides me now

u/iDontReallyExsist — 9 hours ago

how to get a coach

Hi! I currently have a coach but her availability doesnt align with mine very well so we usually have a lesson once a week or every other week.

Thus, id like to have 2 coaches because I do really like my coach but Id like more frequent lessons. The goal is 2 30 min sessions per week.

However, how does one find a coach? I found my original one on google and kinda got lucky. It seems like all the coaches in my area are soo busy and dont really want to coach an adult skater.

Im in the update ny area and typically skate at the palisades mall or ice time in newburg if anyone knows someone who’s accepting new skaters

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 1 day ago
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I keep getting rear ended

This week was my second time being rear ended in 2 months after having no accidents in my first 7 years of driving.

The first was at a yield sign. I was stopped for a while before he hit me at about 40 MPH, totaling my car. The driver told me he was too busy looking at oncoming traffic that he didnt see me stopped.

The second was this week in stop and go traffic in my brand new car that ive had for a month. It wasnt horrible but again another rear end collision.

I dont understand what I can be doing wrong all the sudden. I never slam my brakes, always coast along, drive very defensively, and signal always. I think the way I drive is predictable to other drivers.

Im beginning to be scared to drive. I cant stop looking behind me im gonna end up rear ending someone myself. My back is still hurting from the first accident. what is going on?

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 3 days ago

So bored of my tank please help

Any advice is appreciated. I recently lost a bunch of plants to black algae and now that its under control Im ready for a reset.

Im not sure where to start! Its only a 5 gallon betta tank so theres not much to work with but Im definitely going to get a smaller sponge filter soon.

Im thinking more plants but that will just put me back to where I was previously. Also I love the wood I have but maybe I could add more?

u/iDontReallyExsist — 6 days ago
▲ 4 r/mazda3

How to manage tire pressure

Ok not to sound like a dummy but I dont understand how to manage my tire pressure.

The recommended pressure is 38 in the front and 36 in the back which is fine but the maximum pressure on the bridgestone turanzas is 40 psi

How do I manage not exceeding 40 psi while not running low pressure? Where I live the temperature varies greatly with 60F in the mornings and 90F midday.

How is this manageable? Theres no way I will be adjusting my pressure every time i want to drive.

(please be kind if im being dumb here)

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 20 days ago

Waltz jump help - struggling with height and distance

Hi everyone! I was hoping to get some feedback on my waltz jump. Idk why im struggling so much with getting height and distance.

Also any general advice on how to improve would be really appreciated

u/iDontReallyExsist — 24 days ago
▲ 2 r/mazda

New Mazda W/ Snowflake White Paint Has a Yellow Hue

Hi I recently bought a 2025 snowflake white pearl mica car because my previous car was the same exact color and I loved it.

However, this car with only 4000 miles on it is more of an offwhite and I didnt notice this until a few days after I bought it. (Just assumed it was dirty initially).

What gives? How is a car much newer than my old car such a different color.

Is this correctable or a manufacturers defect? I waxed it today and the clear coat is in very good shape + the car had previously been ceramic coated

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 29 days ago

New to management need help

Hi! So im 4 months into the workforce and was just given an intern for the summer who I need to manage, train, and give tasks to.

However this has proven difficult as they work in a different office and are often unresponsive. Plus I cant really give them anything until they have an understanding of the program and whats involved.

I have been including them im our meetings and explaining what I have been doing but theres only so much. If they were in the same office with me this would be when I would show them things and chat with them about it all day. I worry hes just sitting there doing nothing all day

I also dont want to be too pushy because they are my intern and although im responsible for them im not really their boss?

How should I handle training an employee in a different office and addressing their responsiveness?

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 1 month ago

New skates hindering my progress

Hi guys so I got new skates about a month ago now and idk whats happened! I went from doing stable jumps, good crossovers, and feeling overall comfortable and stable to feeling like I can barely skate without almost falling

As a result ive become timid on the ice and feel like I have really stunted my progress. I dont think my skates are poorly fitted but i do have some room in the toe box (my big toe reaches the end of the skate but theres a decent amount of room in front if my remaining toes) other than that they fit great.

I should also add that I upgraded from recreational figure skates to a 7in rocker.

Is this normal? How can I figure out if these skates are right for me or if I just need more time to adjust?

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 1 month ago
▲ 21 r/mazda

Tire bubble 1 week after buying car, no pothole or rim damage

Hi everyone. Unfortunately, I have acquired a tire bubble one week after buying my 2025 mazda 3 PP turbo with 2000 miles on it.

Will this be covered under warranty? There is no damage to the rim and I havent even had the opportunity to hit my first pothole yet

u/iDontReallyExsist — 1 month ago
▲ 9 r/Autos

my car is totaled and im devastated

Maybe my fellow car people will understand. My first car which i worked so hard to buy and had exactly what i wanted is totaled.

They stopped making my trim level years ago so I cannot buy new so i figured i will buy used because i want to have the exact same car. However, this is a near impossible task because there are almost none. There is one which is slightly newer than my car about 6 hours away but i dont have anyone who will take me that far to get a car.

I dont want to downgrade my car because some idiot hit me

I know it might seem stupid but that was my car and it was perfect (to me)

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 2 months ago
▲ 46 r/mazda3

WTF MAZDA

Hi everyone. Unfortunately, my beautiful 2019 mazda 3 premium got rear ended and is totaled. I was planning to buy a 2026 mazda 3 premium and I came to learn that they no longer offer this.

Not only this, but only the premium plus with a turbo engine has the bose speakers??

I just want my car back man. A new car should not have to be a downgrade.

Idk what to do I love my mazda and would like to buy new but theres no way i can do a turbo with how many miles i drive bc fuel economy

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/Autos

Hi everyone. Im waiting for the police report to be released with the other drivers insurance information and in the meantime have no rental car. Is this ok to drive?

I wasnt planning on it but idk how much longer I can be stuck in the house with important things planned

u/iDontReallyExsist — 2 months ago

Hi everyone. Please forgive my stupidity this was my first accident and I am young.

Today I was rear ended and deemed “no fault”. The other driver stayed and we filed a police report. I will not receive this report for 5-7 business days

However, I did not get their insurance information or license plate.

What do I do now? Im really worried bc the damage to my car is severe and I cannot drive it until I get a loaner. I thought the police report was enough

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u/iDontReallyExsist — 2 months ago