what’s the psyche behind this?
They claim to really love you and care for you and be a “well wisher” but as soon as you act in a way that’s not serving them or different form what they expected they start a smear campaign against you? But are sweet to your face still?
What’s going on? I feel so confused
They manage to gaslight without words LOL
It makes you think of them b*tching about you is all in your head
Got into an argument with a relative over her bad Beauvoir she ended up denying denying denying and telling me I’m the problem, the discussion wasn’t done in good faith, I didn’t know before she was a gaslighter but now I do.
I do take accountability for getting too reactive after being provoked. It wasn’t core t on my part.
Now the important part of the information is she’s really close to my Narc SIL.
From what I’ve learned so far she’s not going to come up to me and confront, she’ll do everything but behind the scenes lol.
So if I were to ever be confronted after the relative slanders, how do I deal with it? I dont think anyone’s going o go harward with the mindset of understanding my POV. It’s just going to be the argument all over again leaving em vulnerable and exposed
Help! Is this from an android or ios whatsapp application UI?
Seeking word of advice from experienced married people
Married into the family. Was close to SIL before, saw her change after the wedding. Felt confused because I was trying to make excuses for her and it pained me a lot. Turns out people always knew her to be like that. A narc.
Now she triangulating with other people of the family aka common cousins.
There’s this other woman (besties with SIL) who has become very sarcastic and taunting ever since the wedding, I confronted her. She played a UNO reverse on me. Biggest regret of 2026 so far.
I feel so defeated and heartbroken, I know dealing with inlaws can be tricky but being backstabbed by someone I was once very close to hurts a bit too much and I don’t know if I when it in me to forgive and move forward. I don’t want to put my husband through that either. He doesn’t need to have a wife and sister who are having problems. Cutting off isn’t an option.
I feel like giving up. Am I right in feeling this way? Someone please talk some sense into me.
I recently made the mistake of confronting the pawn of my narcissistic SIL. I was previously okay friends with this other person who my now SIL has involved into a very subtle hush hush form of dynamic where she uses her minion to indirectly communicate with me or taunt me about stuff.
This other woman gaslighted me, twisted my words, put words in my mouth, lied to me and was absolutely defensive when I went in to talk to her to understand if she has any personal issues with me.
She gave me nothing, not one issue did she acknowledge, all she did was disagree disagree disagree.
Feeling really hurt, disgusted & exposed. I felt I out my guard down with someone who didn’t deserve it.
I feel sick!
I recently made the mistake of confronting the minion of my narcissistic SIL. I was previously okay friends with this other person who my now SIL has involved into a very subtle hush hush form of dynamic where she uses her minion to indirectly communicate with me or taunt me about stuff.
This other woman gaslighted me, twisted my words, put words in my mouth, lied to me and was absolutely defensive when I went in to talk to her to understand if she has any personal issues with me.
She gave me nothing, not one issue did she acknowledge, all she did was disagree disagree disagree.
Feeling really hurt, disgusted & exposed. I felt I out my guard down with someone who didn’t deserve it.
I feel sick!
I recently made the mistake of confronting the minion of my narcissistic SIL. I was previously okay friends with this other person who my now SIL has involved into a very subtle hush hush form of dynamic where she uses her minion to indirectly communicate with me or taunt me about stuff.
This other woman gaslighted me, twisted my words, put words in my mouth, lied to me and was absolutely defensive when I went in to talk to her to understand if she has any personal issues with me.
She gave me nothing, not one issue did she acknowledge, all she did was disagree disagree disagree.
Feeling really hurt, disgusted & exposed. I felt I out my guard down with someone who didn’t deserve it.
I feel sick!