u/iamthat_07

Hello 👋

I'm 29 years old female, Hindu & I'm from North India(UP), my parents & me(via arrange marriage setups & matrimonial apps) have been looking for a partner for me but nothing has worked out.

About Me: I'm currently not working but have been preparing for government exams.( Will discuss more about it in dms.)

I love writing, reading, playing badminton, astrology, learning about Philosophies like Advaita Vedanta.

I'm a spiritual & religious person(a vegetarian)and also someone who likes to be physically & mentally fit hence I'm into Gymming too. I deeply value relationships and the most important thing for me in a relationship is 'Communciation', I believe as long as we communicate about things we are doing fine otherwise it's not worth it.

I'm looking for a relationship where I can talk about everything that ranges from spirituality, universe, food, cinema, idea of existence, to life itself with my partner. Afterall, I do not want a boring relationship where two people just stay together for the sake of marriage but I want a relationship where there's mutual respect, loyalty, understanding & lots of travelling & things to talk about!

My non-negotiables:

1. I want a partner who doesn't smoke , since I have a weird aversion to smoking, I just can't stand it. Also a vegetarian/vegan partner. Looking for someone from same religion.

2. Someone spiritual, who understands the deeper intricacies of life & can ask difficult questions & ready to find answers together.

3. Preferably, someone from North- India itself.

4. Someone who's not looking for casual stuff and serious about dating and marriage.

5. Someone not boring, & ready to try out new things like travelling to lesser known places, trying new cuisine, going out together for adventure activities etc. Precisely, someone who appreciates life with all it's ups & downs.

6. Since I like to be physically fit & active,I do want my partner too having the same preference. You may be a gym person or a sports enthusiast or into yoga whatever you like to stay fit everything works , as long as you like to keep yourself a active & fit.

Edit: A lot of people are confused about my preference for state, I would like to have someone who's born & brought up in North(so that culture aligns)but they maybe working anywhere like Pune, Bangalore or even in a foreign country. But even if you're not from North, it isn't a dela breaker!

Hey everyone,

Sorry, if this sounds stupid, but consider it as my last attempt for any exam. I'm just tired and before giving up on myself, just wanted to give a last try.

I'm going to give Nabard grade A 2026 exam and this time I don't want to run behind resources therefore want to get a course but I don't have the money to buy any course. Can someone help?

Hello kind souls,

I'm not into tantra sadhna or any such things, but I do Pooja regularly. Few days back, I had a dream where I was with my sister and she seemed depressed and to make her speak her mind I started chanting Maa Kali' s name .

Right now, I do not know how, but my youtube feed is filled with Maa Lalita Tripura Sundari's videos. Like, I have never searched for anything like that. Yes, I'm spiritual and I do believe in Durga & Kali maa but as of now I don't why why but I feel very connected to Lalita Maa.

I don't know , if it matters, but I'm at a stage in my life where material abundance is very important for me. I've never been into materialistic stuff but I do need money right now to fulfill my responsibilities & live my life smoothly.

Kindly tell me how do I worship Maa? How to start? I only worship a deity when my heart says so and my heart is telling me to worship Maa. So how do I start? Any specific rule? Please guide a beginner 🙏🙏🙏

So, got my blood tests done and the reports came yesterday and to my surprise, I came out to be prediabetic! Well, diabetes is also genetic and my father also has it, but I didn't expect it to happen to me in early 20's.

Anyway, I'm now, very determined to reverse the condition and want to know anything and everything about how to do it? I already go for walk everyday during evening and also not a huge fan of sugar but yes I do have tea everyday. But , I'm ready to do whatever it takes to have normal sugar levels, just suggest me what to do? Tell me what helped you? What fruits should I eat? Will intermittent fasting help?

Also, Sometimes I have oats soaked with cow milk overnight and then I have it in breakfast with 1 banana. Should I Stop having it? Because I've heard prediabetic people shouldn't eat banana? And what about milk? Can I have milk one time a day? Or maybe with oats? Can I still have all types of nuts and seeds(like: walnut, raisin, almond etc)?