u/icanthelpbutfuckup

So I am really loving the High School update but I really wanna make the high school like a university of boarding school, with like dorms for the students. While obviously I know this isn’t a current possibility, I am mostly wondering if there are mods or a workaround of some sort to make it happen? Google told me to make it like an after school club that involves doing homework, sleeping and such lol but I don’t even know if that’s a possibility really. So I’m mostly just wondering if anyone has any suggestions or if I should just mark this off as a lost cause for now lol.

Found out that a coworker of mine thinks I am a “sensory nightmare” and has been telling people this about me. I’m autistic and can be a bit loud at times which I have made leaps and bounds of improvement on since staring and I have been doing much better on as of late. I do not really know what else I could be doing that would qualify calling me this. I thought the person that said this about me was somewhat my friend or we were on friendly terms and now I’ve learned if was all so fake and it has made me notice a lot of things she is doing and saying isn’t the nicest after all, but these are things I don’t pick up on easily. What can I do other than keep my voice down so my coworker does not feel this way? Any advice or understanding on this situation would be appreciated. I don’t want to be a nuisance to others, I truly don’t.

I have been digging into my ancestry and talking to people about things I’m finding out a lot of crazy crap that’s had happened on both sides of my family including but not limited to (TRIGGER WARNING) CSA, SA, Incest, Suicide, Betrayal and potentially even murder. The more I talk to people about this the more I feel the need to tell mine and my ancestors stories not only to process things myself but because I’m finding more and more people being like oh that also happened in my family but no one talks about it. I want to break the stigma of no one talking about the shit that happened and exposing the shitty family members. I was thinking the pod could just start with me dishing my lore, and then I could share other people’s lore or even have them come on to tell it themselves. So just curious would this be something you would listen to? Would you want to drop your lore here for me to share if I do actually do the pod, or add me as a friend or send me a message if you’re interested. I think it could be a good idea. If anything, you just need a person to drop your crazy family stories I’m always here to lend an ear! You may not be alone in what you’re facing!

EDIT TO ADD: if I do go through with making this pod it would be 100% anonymous and I would use a pseudonym and change the names of family members that are mentioned, and you could definitely do the same if you do decide to drop your lore or become apart of the idea.