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I started texting the friend of a girl I was dating after she accepted an engagement ring from another man. AITAH?

There is a girl that I have been dating recently (let’s call her M) that told me she accepted an engagement ring from another guy that she has also been dating as well. In response to this, I started texting a girl (let’s call her K) that is a friend of a friend to M (the one that accepted the engagement ring). We will call the mutual friend L. One day while M and L were at brunch, L tells M that I’ve been texting K and M got upset because she felt like I betrayed her. The main reason M is upset because I wasn’t transparent and didn’t tell her about me texting K the same way she told me about her accepting the engagement ring. AITAH for not telling M that I started texting K or AITAH for texting K all together?

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u/ikenoturner — 5 days ago

AITA? I started texting the friend of a girl I was dating after she accepted an engagement ring from another man.

There is a girl that I have been dating recently (let’s call her M) that told me she accepted an engagement ring from another guy that she has also been dating as well. In response to this, I started texting a girl (let’s call her K) that is a friend of a friend to M (the one that accepted the engagement ring). We will call the mutual friend L. One day while M and L were at brunch, L tells M that I’ve been texting K and M got upset because she felt like I betrayed her. The main reason M is upset because I wasn’t transparent and didn’t tell her about me texting K the same way she told me about her accepting the engagement ring. AITAH for not telling M that I started texting K or AITAH for texting K all together?

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u/ikenoturner — 6 days ago

I started texting the friend of a girl I was dating after she accepted an engagement ring from another man. AITAH?

There is a girl that I have been dating recently (let’s call her M) that told me she accepted an engagement ring from another guy that she has also been dating as well. In response to this, I started texting a girl (let’s call her K) that is a friend of a friend to M (the one that accepted the engagement ring). We will call the mutual friend L. One day while M and L were at brunch, L tells M that I’ve been texting K and M got upset because she felt like I betrayed her. The main reason M is upset because I wasn’t transparent and didn’t tell her about me texting K the same way she told me about her accepting the engagement ring. AITAH for not telling M that I started texting K or AITAH for texting K all together?

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u/ikenoturner — 6 days ago
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I started texting the friend of a girl I was dating after she accepted an engagement ring from another man. AITAH?

There is a girl that I have been dating recently (let’s call her M) that told me she accepted an engagement ring from another guy that she has also been dating as well. In response to this, I started texting a girl (let’s call her K) that is a friend of a friend to M (the one that accepted the engagement ring). We will call the mutual friend L. One day while M and L were at brunch, L tells M that I’ve been texting K and M got upset because she felt like I betrayed her. The main reason M is upset because I wasn’t transparent and didn’t tell her about me texting K the same way she told me about her accepting the engagement ring. AITAH for not telling M that I started texting K or AITAH for texting K all together?

UPDATE: I realize that the initial post was confusing so I added initials to make it easier to understand.

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u/ikenoturner — 6 days ago