u/ilmusicd

linki buraya yazamadim gecersiz diyo yorum yazin gonderim

I recently talked to someone who was talking about approaching strangers on the beach. they said if I found someone attractive, I could just talk to them.

I said I wouldn't want someone to approach me, someone who I know nothing about because I find them physically attractive. I would want a reason more than just attraction.

After I said something in my way of thinking, they told me I take it too seriously and I really do. I connected the subject to being in a relationship just for lust which was a valid reason for some kind of mockery. 

this annoyed me a lot. I know people can approach relationships and social interactions differently and of course nobody has to think the same way I do but when someones reasoning feels really surface-level to me, I can't just say “okay, that's how they are” and move on. I start analyzing why they think that way and I get irritated by it.

Help please!!

Don't use band names or other related artists, or anything that will make it too obvious!